Having sex at age 13.?

Oh NO---NO NO NO

Much too young.

Not at 13

It's never OK if you don't believe me then allow me to explain you'll more likely get in major trouble with the teachers,your parents if they walk in on you having sex and if she already have her period then how are you going to raise the child and how her tiny body can handle the pain of childbirth.

And no it's not a laughing matter because a 13 year old girl can't handle the pain and the stress on the body of childbirth and what if the baby need diapers what then drop out and get a job who will hire a 13 year old drop out from school and what if that guy who get her knocked up left her for another girl/or as you can say another woman.

And what are going to do who will help you raise your child your parents so in my opinion it's always best wait till marriage to have sex and have kids or have kids and if i go into more explanations it might be longer to explain so bottom line it's never OK not once and it's never will be OK and these are just examples to think of what would happen and yes these things can happen to you and your boyfriend if you are 13 years old.

And if he is 18 years old and she is 13 that's rape and if i go into details you might or you might not agree with me i hope this answers your question plus possibilities what might happen :).

well when can your body handle pain

A lot of teens are growing up with horrible attitudes and parents that let them get away with murder. Let those same brats pop out babies at 13/14 years of age and then their parents will feel like complete failures and realize that it's their own damn fault for not being better parents.

I'm evil... muahahahahahaha!!!

OK then allow me to ask you this who is going to raise the child no money no diapers for the child and who will hire a 13 year old?

That's for the 13 yr old's parents to figure out. If the parents hadn't been irresponsible narcissists then odds are their daughter wouldn't have gotten pregnant. So put it on their shoulders. :)

Hm. I disagree, sometimes kids just turn bad no matter how awesome the parents are.

I agree. I've seen amazing, supportive parents whose children still turn out to be little delinquents. I think the friends a person finds tend to be more influential than the person's parents, which can sometimes be a bad thing.

Wait a while.... once you lose your innocence it does not come back...if you still have dolls on your bed your too young....

At 13 you are no where near mature enough. Don't lose your innocence & your childhood . be a kid have fun, you will grow up soon enough and miss those carefree childhood days.

If it's what you want to do and no one is pressuring you to do it, and I would seriously stick to someone your own age group (no older than 15/16) and your safe... why not?

BTW- Not too long ago 13 year olds were getting married and starting families...

Do you want a kid?:-O I think you should watch on youtube who stopped at nothing to have a kid, it nearly killed her mother!

it was good for me

You lucky dog! I wish an older, experienced woman had come on to me at 13.

Absolutley not,kids that age are NOT emotionally equipped to deal with life changing repercussions that may result.I was age of consent before I did and have no regrets at 57.

For me, definitely NO!

I agree,well said and good job and Yes of course I'm a 24 year old virgin and I'm proud of it and I'm saving my virginity till marriage and i expect her to do the same and i assure you when and if my wife is pregnant i would never never walk out on her and my child since i love them both if I'm lucky to find someone who loves me for who i am.

As you can tell yes I'm still single :).

Whao, Cloud, it's not a weird thing that you are a 24 years old virgin! What will I say is because you haven't meet someone that you want to marry her immediately and lose your virginity to her =) Also, you have to remember what you said here - love your wife and children always and forever is not a simple thing, but I'm sure you can work it out! Btw, I feel really very happy that there are still have you - this kind of man in this world - because what I know about men so far - they're not like you! Single is not a poor thing as well! It means that you have the best one to have. but not right now! =) I hope you can meet someone you love and she loves you the same way as you too =)

And like i told you i agree with what you said and i stand by what i said and no i didn't snap at you if i did i apologize and i mean every word of what i said I'm not a scumbag like those women and those girls love and fall in love with.

And for now if i should be one i don't know but i rather die alone or just die then be someone I'm not and be a scumbag if that's harsh I'm sorry i mean i refuse to be a scumbag if that's attractive,hot or so sexy to women and girls :).

I don't think there is a 13 year old out there who makes a good decision about having sex at that age, male or female. I think, too, that an older teen having sex with a younger one is probably taking advantage of the younger one's youth.

Wait until your brain is developed at least a little.

Way to young.

NO!

sure. as long as you're ready for the responsibilities.

if you burst your ''cherry'', then that's it. contraception is key to success and less worries... enjoy yourself whilst at the same time be safe!

to young

At thirteen, that is much too young, heck I would feel better if all teenagers waited until they were eighteen. Jesus I think that is incredibly to young to start.

no

Depends. That's when I was doing it.

wow.....early

Yes. Always safe though. Still don't regret it. And in my "time" and place, no, it really isn't that early.

well what do you concider early then

That depends on a wide range of factors.

Dude, freshmen at my high school are either pregnant or stoners.. can you imagine how middle school is in my town??

Not koolio, no not one bit....

I'd desapprove it. I'm in no position to judge but I think 13 is a tad bit to young to be engaging in sex. Kissing sure just not sex.

if youre a chic you could get pregnant if youre a dude you could become a dady. and you might get an std. and you DEFINATELY might or most likely will regret regret it later. jus be careful if you do have sex dont start having sex with everyone you date and be careful bout who you sleep with.

13 seems kinda young ... but i did it the first time at age 15 with a girl my same age ...