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Having sex at age 13.?

Miranda Ernst 2012/06/16 06:57:25
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  • dali_lama_2k 2013/05/17 15:03:04
    Yes
    dali_lama_2k
    People have been doing it at a young age for thousands of years. What social norms exist today that have changed that, have also been the fount of such ignorance that there are people in COLLEGE who are unaware of contraceptives. Though I agree that mental maturity levels and intent must be taken into consideration to address the issues of manipulation and abuse, I do not think that a concept as abstract as "love" should be attached to a function of species survival. Love and sex can be mutual, and mutually beneficial, but are by no means interdependent and it is the concept of love that greatly complicates the issues surrounding juvenile sex because of the psychological impact of love, betrayal, deception, etc. Sex is fun, it feels good, and, if the stigmas could be removed to the point of transparency where open education can be given, should be enjoyed (responsibly) by those with an intent to pursue. That does not include rape, predation and coercion! Of course, we shouldn't forget that upon the magical age of 18 we are all bestowed with gifts of great and equal knowledge, maturity and judgment.
  • MR2020PERSON 2012/07/29 17:13:02
    No
    MR2020PERSON
    Stupid and Illegal, No way have sex at the age of 13
  • tkag MR2020P... 2012/10/18 10:22:32
    tkag
    +1
    sex age 13
  • F*ckit 2012/07/14 05:26:01
  • Pikaboo 2012/06/28 21:33:04
    No
    Pikaboo
    Way too young...
  • tblackb 2012/06/28 16:18:17
    No
    tblackb
    teenagers are not emotionally stable enough the handle what comes along with having sex at that age nor are their bodies physically ready
  • cm 2012/06/28 05:27:29
    No
    cm
    13 is to young
  • MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/06/28 04:50:20
    No
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    To the ones who voted yes, I want your parents name & numbers. And no it is NOT okay for a 13 yr old to be having sex & there is no "depending on age difference" attached to that no.
  • Tommy MlssCue... 2012/12/23 13:53:38
    Tommy
    Am I to assume that you would be opposed to it then?
  • SAMMIE<3 2012/06/28 03:13:15 (edited)
    No
    SAMMIE<3
    I started havin sex when I was 14 yea old we used protection..... But I was on the pill to but I would us the birth control patches
  • Scott (o)(o) 2012/06/28 02:14:42
    No
    Scott (o)(o)
    too young to even enjoy sex ... C'mon girl !!!
  • ☆ElenaDiamond☆ 2012/06/28 02:10:13
    No
    ☆ElenaDiamond☆
    No it isn't.
  • Harley Squiggles the God \(... 2012/06/27 23:55:13
    No
    Harley Squiggles the God \(#o#)/
    Nope. Never.
  • Anonymouse ~superdoge~ 2012/06/27 23:36:40
    No
    Anonymouse ~superdoge~
    Way too young. 15 at least.
  • Glitter Baby 2012/06/27 23:33:51
    No
    Glitter Baby
    I was having sex at 15 but I would advise on waiting.
  • Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/06/27 23:31:06
    Yes
    Sinister Ken Doll™
    +3
    i was having sex at that age

    maybe not the best idea in the world, but if you're responsible and wanna do it, go for it
  • Skye 2012/06/25 06:16:08
    No
    Skye
    Marriage.
  • GUY FAWKES Skye 2013/02/14 05:48:14
    GUY FAWKES
    GAY!!!!!!
  • Lydecho Rain (Лидия) 2012/06/23 17:03:12
    Depends on age difference
    Lydecho Rain (Лидия)
    +3
    It's weird but do what you want.
  • Sailorboy 2012/06/22 10:38:22
    No
    Sailorboy
    In general I think its too young.... a person must know and fully understand everything about sex before engaging in it... but it is a fact that it does happen at even younger ages...
  • Megan 2012/06/20 04:53:03
  • hannah 2012/06/19 17:08:05
    No
    hannah
    ITS NOT!!!!
  • Anna 2012/06/18 22:28:30
    No
    Anna
    You and your peers are just coming into your sexuality. Give yourself time to figure it out on your own before jumping into bed.
  • GUY FAWKES 2012/06/18 21:52:13
    No
    GUY FAWKES
    Most of the time it's not "consensual" at that age.
  • starlight 2012/06/18 21:37:37
    No
    starlight
    at 13 i didnt take a health class! So i know close to nothing about sex! And the thought of it worries me so id rather just wait until im married. 13 is wayy to young to start having sex
  • EricVanSingleton 2012/06/18 21:01:37
    No
    EricVanSingleton
    No one is ready ready to deal with the emotional or physical consequences of sexual activity at such an early age.

    Juliet
  • MYSTIC MYSTIQUE 2012/06/18 17:47:25
    No
    MYSTIC MYSTIQUE
    a 13 i thought a guy touching my bobies was sex......so ya i wasn't thinking about making babies at that age.....and we were taught to masturbate if we were horny sooo ya not sure why young people even need birth control or sex.....?
  • Skye MYSTIC ... 2012/06/25 06:18:46
    Skye
    Lol! How long ago were you 13? Everyone at 13 including me, know that sex is way more than that. You need a vagina and penis. Not boobs and a hand.
  • MYSTIC ... Skye 2012/07/01 18:43:07
    MYSTIC MYSTIQUE
    +1
    :D ya I didnt pay attention when learning about it in grade 4.....and I was 13 like uh...17 years ago :) I knew when I was 16 the consept of sex that it took more then heavy petting ;)
  • Skye MYSTIC ... 2012/07/01 20:46:31
    Skye
    Lol! They don't teach it in grade 4 anymore. They teach puberty that's it. I wouldn't know if it's in 7th, because I was online schooled, but I think they did.
  • Amelia 2012/06/18 14:38:38
    No
    Amelia
    +1
    No. is the kid married? then yeah..lol as sad as that sounds. Ive heard of 9 year olds with kids...sad
  • Lady Aiyanna 2012/06/18 09:34:40
    No
    Lady Aiyanna
    Coming from a land where child marriages are prevalent I would say its absolutely disgusting and violation of puberty as the girl is not yet grown and mature to have a family. Moreover the bone structure is not yet ready and this could mean deformities for the girl should she have to undergo forced childbirth.
    With regard to boys, they mature a lot later than a girl and for them it would only be a game and nothing more. But with those games come consequences and those consequences mean responsibilities as they are babies that are born, another life.
    I would say put the children who are playing with sex at thirteen into counselling and training and arrest the parents for not teaching their children about birds and bees. Its high time parents pay the price for not bringing up the teenagers and kids properly and then saying it openly the teens of today are going to dogs, the world is so apathetic etc. Its more the fact the we as parents need to open our eyes and train our children on what is right and wrong rather than giving it to the school and saying here teach. I know personally I was groomed with values starting from birth that it just became second nature with constant reconditioning.
    Sorry, am not supportive of 13 year old having sex and I know as a mother I have taugh...
    Coming from a land where child marriages are prevalent I would say its absolutely disgusting and violation of puberty as the girl is not yet grown and mature to have a family. Moreover the bone structure is not yet ready and this could mean deformities for the girl should she have to undergo forced childbirth.
    With regard to boys, they mature a lot later than a girl and for them it would only be a game and nothing more. But with those games come consequences and those consequences mean responsibilities as they are babies that are born, another life.
    I would say put the children who are playing with sex at thirteen into counselling and training and arrest the parents for not teaching their children about birds and bees. Its high time parents pay the price for not bringing up the teenagers and kids properly and then saying it openly the teens of today are going to dogs, the world is so apathetic etc. Its more the fact the we as parents need to open our eyes and train our children on what is right and wrong rather than giving it to the school and saying here teach. I know personally I was groomed with values starting from birth that it just became second nature with constant reconditioning.
    Sorry, am not supportive of 13 year old having sex and I know as a mother I have taught my son that it is not okay to be with a girl in bed at a young and when the time is right you will be ready for it and you will know when it is, if you are unsure, ask your parents. My son and myself have very open conversations and I know he will never hide that side from me.
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  • Red Falcon 2012/06/18 02:08:50
    No
    Red Falcon
    +2
    THE ONLY TIME TO HAVE SEX IS WHEN YOUR MARRIED OUT OF THE HOUSE HAVE A GOOD JOB AND YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AGREE ON HAVING KIDS.
  • Lydecho... Red Falcon 2012/06/23 17:05:12
    Lydecho Rain (Лидия)
    +1
    that's way too harsh. I would more say that 17 and up can have sex, but okay...
  • kat 2012/06/18 01:03:29
    No
    kat
    no no no i was raped at a young age and i have become addicted to sex so wait tell your married at least
  • Sailorboy kat 2012/06/22 10:35:19
    Sailorboy
    well they do say that those who are abused at a young age have a tendency to be affected in that manner
  • rebecca kat 2012/07/05 08:51:25
    rebecca
    how old were you
  • kat rebecca 2012/07/05 22:12:44
    kat
    i was six and i was raped by 7 men and left for dead
  • Heavy 2012/06/17 18:03:06
    Depends on age difference
    Heavy
    +1
    I had sex at that age, but it was with a girl that was my age.

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