Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wishing you had?

by Raghunath Roy Choudhury Posted 2012/06/30 17:56:17

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Raphy 2012/07/03 04:56:13

u tell me

Wishing I had of said something.......

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antlergirl21 2012/07/01 15:45:48

don't know

I have wondered, but I think saying something and wishing you hadn't is worse.

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tblackb 2012/07/01 04:55:31

Undecided

now here is a really good question. the best i've seen on this site to date. if i had to choose it would be the latter...once you say something, you can't take it back

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me being me 2012/07/01 04:14:57

Undecided

+1
Both:(

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CCRNRT to me bein... 2012/07/01 06:20:44

+1
don't frown

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Alvin 2012/07/01 01:42:46

None of the above

A wise person once said: "It is better to remain quiet and be thought a fool that to speak up and remove all doubt."

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Megan's a soul collector 2012/07/01 01:41:07

u tell me

saying nothing and wishing you had.

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Justina Jackson 2012/07/01 01:26:13

All of the above

Thumper's mom would say

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Relay 2012/07/01 00:06:15

All of the above

saying something and wish you didnt..

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Sofahead 2012/07/01 00:04:28

None of the above

I don't like poll selections, most are useful.

"saying something and wishing you had not" would of be my selection if had been one.

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Blade 2012/06/30 23:58:35

All of the above

saying nothing but wish I did

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sky 2012/06/30 23:52:50

None of the above

It is better to say nothing and regret because it signifies hope;
whereas, the saying of a thing is more so absolute and
cannot be retracted and/or changed.

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Changeling 2012/06/30 23:38:33

Undecided

+1
I'm not sure which hurts more

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Sister Jean 2012/06/30 23:25:04

None of the above

+1
neither

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selena costa 2012/06/30 23:18:42 (edited)

u tell me

saying nothing, and wishing you had. i never wondered i know this iv been thought and felt both of them

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WhereIsAmerica? ~PWCM~JLA 2012/06/30 23:08:12

None of the above

There is no pat answer to that, it depends on the situation.

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Jack's Pearl 2012/06/30 22:57:19

u tell me

I think saying something, even if some is regretted, is better then saying nothing at all. Because then the frustration, hurt, sadness stays with you. You communicate it releases a bit and you can start working with the other person in a better direction.

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Cunning Stunts 2012/06/30 18:15:36

None of the above

Giving a f*ck in the first place.

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