Have you ever had a friend with benefits?

I don't think that is right... I believe in commitment.

Nope!

but I wouldn't call myself a hoe...just a provider of benefits to a female who also provided benefits to me - it was worth it.

My best friend is gothic zombies Emily Ryan Ashley Zane bbecca. Ryan Natalie arnon seth garraaag.d.l. Alexander my buddy

They always turn in to more... ;/ lol

im not a hoe though...it was just for a while...when i started talking to this guy (that now is my bf) i stopped doing things with my friend with benefits...he didnt like it and kept wanting to be that kind of a friend...so i ended the communication with my friend with benefits...i told everything to my bf even though he was kind of descusgted of that (i knew he would be) he decided to give me a chance and till now we still together its been 1 year 3months

Heck no!!! and I never will!!!!

I'm not a hoe ;o

Not proud of it b/c you realize that eventually it becomes more than sex, and once it does you have nothing in common to carry the relationship once emotions are involved.

I thought thats what it was but they always ended up wanting more.

No.

My benefit packages were never that generous.

I really wish there was something.... In Between marriage and FWB? The lonliness of... being alone... truly grades on the empty soul of ones' heart. However, it allows security in the fact that heart can not be further damaged as well!

It is truly a GREAT feeling to spend an entire day with a trusted woman. Walking and talking or even saying nothing at all! For I can tell the affection by the simple impulses in the touch of her hand...... and that reaches my heart! I just don't want that touch to steal from it! Why take that chance?

For I see my married friends and hear their arguments, the disrespect of each other.... Not for me! :(

No, casual sex is not my thing. And that is not being a prude, it is staying true to my belief that making love to someone, giving them that intimate part of yourself is worth more than 15 minutes of gratification.

Hell.... with ALL the family you have, where would you find the time to have FWB's anyway?:)

LOLOL,

I do put my family first and foremost, and I am not ashamed to admit that. :))

All caring moms do, yes! :)

I have four sons - the "runt" is only 6'3". "nuff said!

You and Diamond are alike in that area! :)

Many times.

Funny reading the goody two shoes responses from the prudes!

I raved you Dave, but dont you ever get into a situation of wanting MORE than just.... FUN? What happens when you're with someone that you or her seems to want something more? Those are questions I cannot answer. For it is hard for me to tell someone I want to have sex with them, then say the same thing to another woman the next day! Don't want to hurt them, and damn sure don't wish to be hurt.... again.... myself! :(

My answer was not serious, all with tongue in cheek. Over the course of years, yes I've had mutually agreeable sexual liaisons with women, it happens. In a serious relationship, much more comes into play, it's not only about the physical, but the emotional and an expression of heartfelt love, the deep bonding of two soulmates, a respect between lovers for the treasure being given to each. Far different from the lust driven flings of our youth OS. Always, sadly there is the chance once you commit to someone that pain and anguish can follow, if the decision is not carefully thought out.

Thanks for the further info, Dave! :) Knowing we're getting older seems to work against taking the "time" to find that "Ms Right," yes? Yet at the same time, men seem to get more "sexual" desires then "older women!" Not Fair! :(

no

no not me

Yes, and I absolutely luved it!!!!

It was good times. Ended for the better.

More than one time in my life...

What?

Don't judge me. lol....

...otherwise known as a non-committed relationship? (I never have liked the term "friend with benefits"). Yes. That does not make me or anyone else a "ho". There's not a damn thing wrong with it.

many throughout my live.
though i am not a hoe.
why would u post the answers like that?

Ahem. *Yes, I have*.
I'm not a hoe.
:/

I lost my virginity to a boy I was in love with and continued sleeping with him for a few months. We were friends but we didn't date. That's the definition of friends with benefits.

It sure is...

I don't think that "love" is in the definition.

Why not?

If you loved him, then at some point you wanted more than just a sex fling.

Sex is a big part of human existance .

W/O going into details ; YES . However I'm also glad to be rid of him .