Girls: If a guy said to you “If you lose about 30 lbs I might take you out”. What would you say to him?
PBUTTERBOY77
2012/09/22 06:09:44
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terrabytes 2012/09/22 06:12:25My answer is






















And I would keep it in mind, all right. My brother says I can hold a grudge until it screams in pain.
I want you to have a good look at some of the women who have been cheated on, and left. There are some gorgeous women out there who were deserted, the same as you.
Don't let his stone-cold lies make you hurt forever. There is nothing in what he said which is true or valid.
Also, I anticipate a lot of people in this thread calling this hypothetical guy a jackass. Let me tell you, even if he doesn't say this straight to your face, there's a good chance he's thinking it. Many guys date average or unattractive girls, making a gamble that it will pay off. If it's a very good looking guy and he courts an unattractive girl, she will feel flattered, but also pressured to lose weight, wear nice clothes, get a nice haircut, so she looks attractive enough to be with him. Also she'll be easier to manipulate because she probably has lower self esteem. Many guys operate this way, moulding their girlfriend to be more attractive, and if she won't pick up on the subtle pressures to look more attractive, he'll dump her.
Not many truly nice guys out there, ladies. Most are just pretending to be nice.
I believe if someone like you they should accept you as you are.