Ever find true love? if so how did you know it was true love?

- My definition of love : you like someone for their good traits,
but u love them for their flaws -

- You know when I said I knew little about love? That wasn't true. I know a lot about love. I've seen it, centuries and centuries of it, and it was the only thing that made watching your world bearable. All those wars. Pain, lies, hate... It made me want to turn away and never look down again. But when I see the way that mankind loves... You could search to the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful. So yes, I know that love is unconditional. But I also know that it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and strangely easy to mistake for loathing, and... What I'm trying to say, Tristan is... I think I love you. Is this love, Tristan? I never imagined I'd know it for myself. My heart... It feels like my chest can barely contain it. Like it's trying to escape because it doesn't belong to me any more. It belongs to you. And if you wanted it, I'd wish for nothing in exchange - no gifts. No goods. No demonstrations of devotion. Nothing but knowing you loved me too. Just your heart, in exchange for mine. -
(Stardust)

Notice the whole “loathing” thing? :
When you can’t seem to stop thinking about ALL of their “flaws” and how much you loath each and every one of them, yet the more you think about those “flaws”, the more, for some reason, you can’t seem to stop smiling, or even can’t help but laugh a bit, even though they frustrate you to no end… To the point that you feel like your heart just can’t contain the pent up frustration any more and you have this uncontrollable, unbearable urge to tell them, show them, and express in every way to them, how you feel. But when you think about what your going to say to them your at a loss for words…
So instead of trying to tell them how you feel, you feel the need to be what ever they need you to be, for as long as they need you to be it, whether it’s a friend in the beginning, or someone to look up to, or really just anything and anyone they need you to be; all just to see them smile. But NOT to the point that you’re a martyr…(if you become a martyr, then its not love its obsession…)
And yet at the same time because you know them SOOOO well, you can tell them what they NEED to hear, when ever they need advise, and even if they don’t like what you have to say, somehow you still end up, without even really trying all that hard, making them understand how you see them, in all their beauty, in the situation, and make them smile in the end.
And in the end, because you know them sooo well, when they start to notice you in a way that is more than just a friend, and start to act confused, shy, or just different in a way that you can tell that they are starting to like you, or even love you a little bit more and more each day, you feel the desire to subtly tell them how you feel, because now the words seem to come so very easily.

Well that’s just how I love anyways…of course I can only love one person in my whole life, (my “twin flame”). but yeah…hope this helps you ^_^

Blessings to all and,
May all be well with you ^_^