Do you think people change for someone they love?

by Assassin~ Badass Buzz Guru Posted 2012/06/09 13:19:59

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	Yes	90 votes	72%
	No	35 votes	28%

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Eusebio 2013/02/13 03:10:29

Yes

No one can change another person, but a person can change for the one that we love. I change, I change my way of being my behaviors because I wasn't happy with my self because my wife made me realized what was important to me in life and my priorities when I realized what was important to me I then want to change. The only thing you have to hope is that it's not to late.

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joshshaneross 2013/01/31 23:59:25

Yes

Yes they do. Not by being forced but by being forced to live without something they hold most close...the one they truly do not want to lose. I changed for my woman for myself and to be with her.... they say nobody should need to change for someone but if the habit or behavior is not right in the first place.

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Tentimesinfinity 2012/06/17 18:57:38

Yes

I think. Honestly I have no idea :/

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Mike 2012/06/13 15:05:13

No

you cannot change anyone, you can only learn to put up with who they are

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Pretty Girl 2012/06/11 22:30:07

Yes

Yes cause if a boy likes fooling around with girls and he found the girl he loves and want her to be his forever, he would have to change for her to be his

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☂cinderella.dress.in.yellow☂ 2012/06/11 20:48:50

Yes

sometimes they go out there way just to be with them

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Sailorboy 2012/06/11 12:49:44

Yes

A person is quite capable of changing but it always depends on how much change is required or requested and how committed the person is towards the relationship and if & when that change does take place, it is recognised by the other partner and is given due credit instead of complaining that there is more change required cos change does not happen over-night it takes time!

However the number of instances in which people truly do change for someone they love are few and far... and most only pretend to change... and that is the reality!!!

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Red_Horse 2012/06/11 05:48:40
Lobster Man 2012/06/10 23:52:59

Yes

+1
some do some don't it's a gamble you take when you get involved with a person when you know they have ways about them you disapprove of, Love don't always conquer all.

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Pilot337 2012/06/10 19:48:52

Yes

Yes, I do. And I can tell you from personal experience, it's absolutely the wrong thing to do. And it rarely ends well. It didn't in my case.

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starguide 2012/06/10 11:49:55

Yes

but not completely

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Jim in SC 2012/06/10 11:41:21

Yes

+2
My wife and I have both changed for each other over the years. It's part of growing closer as we grow together in our relationship.
However, if someone has to change in order to get someone to love them, that is not good. That is selfish of the one demanding the change. It is also not good if the change is one-sided all the time.

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justnotsaying (: 2012/06/10 10:59:31

No

Which is why people should accept someone for who they are(and not try to change them), or just don't be with them at all.

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Guido 2012/06/10 10:30:07

Yes

+2
We always change little things about ourselves to keep others happy or intrested.
If you don't try the love will never last

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sarahbearer 2012/06/10 09:36:31

Yes

+1
Well yeah if someone really likes someone then they'll try and be a better person just to please them thats how u know u really love someone u try and be great in their eyes but if they really like u they would think ur perfect anyway:-)

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Pops 2012/06/10 08:07:45

Yes

yes

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lady blue 2012/06/10 07:59:44 (edited)

Yes

+5
If someone loves you they will do whatever it takes to make the relationship work.
I believe that love is the strongest emotion known to man and it's a passion that drives
us to do the impossible to be with the person we love. When you truly love someone it changes you for the better and that's a beautiful thing.

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VintageLys to lady blue 2012/06/11 05:18:12

+1
I hope you felt this way in real life like I have been blessed with =)

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lady blue to VintageLys 2012/06/11 05:24:55

Hi my new friend ! Thanks so much for accepting my request and I look forward
to our friendship. We are both from New York, how great is that ? XD
I have felt this way, that is how I am able to relate to love and how it changes us.
Knowing love and being in love is the most beautiful thing in the world !

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FJ to lady blue 2012/06/11 06:18:09

+1
I believe so too! Especially the first line :)

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⚜3rd Street Boss⚜ 2012/06/10 07:48:51

Yes

+1
The only good change is that that "rubs off" positively, not something that is felt the need by being more similar to one another. I actually fight more with people too alike myself

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Brynn 2012/06/10 06:57:08

No

People do it all the time but I would never advise changing for anyone but yourself.

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mrdog 2012/06/10 06:10:11

Yes

Unless they are stupid.... bark

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Shawna 2012/06/10 04:48:55

No

+1
I"m madly in love with my gay boyfriend but I'm still straight.

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rockyjr5 2012/06/10 04:47:27

Yes

Most people pretends to be someone that they're not just so get that guy/ her, because they heard it from the expects.

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greeneyesblondy 2012/06/10 04:34:57

Yes

ppl do but nobody should change for anyone, if they truly care then they will like u just as u are

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lm1b2 2012/06/10 03:55:57

Yes

+1
If they truely love someone,but love is a two way street.

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Jerry 2012/06/10 03:41:50

Yes

+2
I've met a girl who did that for her husband, she went from being a partier to being very religious, her husband almost left her, but she changed for him. She was my co worker & a very good person & attractive too, but she was pentecostal. She was really cool to work with too, I think she was helping me in my area of the work place once & she told me about it, I thought it was so good of her to change for her husband.

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'Zedd 2012/06/10 01:23:42
namoor07 2012/06/09 22:34:10

Yes

yes and big yes if you find the rite one

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Lorax 2012/06/09 22:30:16

Yes

+1
Yes, if both people are in love they will take the neccessary steps to make the relationship work.

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Funboy 2012/06/09 22:05:08

Yes

Happens a lot

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Curmudgeon 2012/06/09 21:42:18

No

Some people can change and become better people for someone they love but it has has to be of their own free will. Taking someone on a guilt trip to change whereby you try and mold them into someone they are not will only lead to trouble down the road.

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peaches 2012/06/09 21:26:16

No

Some people try to change to create love between themselves and their partner.
But if you really, truly love someone, you will change WITH them (:

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aeroshock 2012/06/09 21:20:15

No

No/Yes/Maybe/I don't know. I'd say people can adapt as well as change if that makes sense.

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Boris Badinov 2012/06/09 21:11:14

No

+2
I do not think so..

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caius madison 2012/06/09 20:53:58 (edited)

Yes

I think at times people do, although I think if it's love, change usually is unnecessary.

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Steve 2012/06/09 20:45:00

Yes

Sometimes they do, but that isn't always a good thing. I found myself loving someone so much that I forgot who I really was.

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Laurenn:D! 2012/06/09 20:41:49

No

AKA Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater.
Once A Bitch, Always A Bitch
Once A Prep, Always A Prep..
Get The Point.? l:

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the judgebigdogeagle 2012/06/09 20:31:02

Yes

+2
Some change is good but a complete overhaul. Might be pushing it there.Someone lose their identity.

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