Do you think im crazy or just in love?

by Soviet Revolution Posted 2012/07/04 17:22:07

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	Crazy	59 votes	63%
	In love	5 votes	5%
	Both	29 votes	31%

I really love this girl who moved here from Russia and we became friends but she said no but at the time I barely knew her right its Summer and she blocked me on FBlacebook probably got annoyed but she unblocked me but hasn't addes me back. She smokes,drinks and does drugs but is very accepting and doesn't judge and very sweet. So even though her birthdays the same month as me next month a week before mine. So I decided to save up money to buy her a Christmas present she doesn't celebrate Christmas so we should be able to hang out that day.

The present is a $2,000 Diamond Necklace(I think its Diamond)
Though its only $1,200 2 weeks ago when i found it online and Christmas sales should help but still a lot.

Im also been told she wouldn't sell it for drugs or alcohol so thats not a problem.

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Jersey Roze ♥Jwon's Cyar'ika ♥ 2012/07/04 17:39:33

Crazy

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Crazy. I'd advise you not to buy her that necklace. It would be foolish of you...
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Soviet ... to mandyin... 2012/07/05 08:23:15
mandyin... to Soviet ... 2012/07/05 18:01:57

sounds like a lose-lose situation; you might want to abandon the efforts to avoid getting in trouble... If nothing else, at least you've learned something from this :)

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Soviet ... to mandyin... 2012/07/05 18:31:09

I'm trying to switch schools but either way idk.

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Frank 2012/07/05 02:17:09

Both

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She blocked you- leave her alone. If she really loves you- she will come to you. That is not happening- don't force the issue.

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Soviet ... to Frank 2012/07/05 05:02:32

Update she is now in an "open relationship" on Facebook
I'm really upset but it don't last long with her.

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akhippie to Soviet ... 2012/07/05 07:31:28

If "it don't last long with her" is that what you want? If all you want is a boot call, don't spring for the diamonds. If you are looking for a relationship I might look some where else, with someone who has many things in common with you, like habits, tastes, dreams and likes and dislikes. Before you spend that kind of money on anybody make real sure they feel the same way towards you that you feel for them. And if you ever get lucky enough to find that person, then go nuts.

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Frank to Soviet ... 2012/07/05 10:59:30

You are like 16-or 17? Don't spring for the diamonds. When you are 25 you will be glad you didn't persue this relationship. Chalk this one up to dating / relationship experience.

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Soviet ... to Frank 2012/07/05 11:04:42 (edited)

Me and her are both 16 in August but she's not the girl I thought she loved she said she really loves her boyfriend yet she doesn't like Americans nor want anything with them yet she's dating one? She found out I tell people about her and even though I begged her and poored every feeling for her i had she said she wants me to forget about her forever she wasn't worth it with the contradictions she makes and others say she still loves a guy in Russia this all makes no sense she is not the sweet little Russian like I thought she was. Sad really past her cute accent she's just another drugee I gave up instantly when the reason I love her I realized was a lie.

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Frank to Soviet ... 2012/07/06 22:09:24

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You are both very young and a little confused. Don't condemn her because she is not what you thought. She sounds really mixed up. And you got a little too involved a little too fast. Just leave it alone and move on. And take your time next time. Make friends first- friendship is the core of any relationship.

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Mj PINK... to Soviet ... 2012/07/05 19:07:58
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Frank to Mj PINK... 2012/07/06 22:06:32 (edited)

You are a little extreme, and judgmental

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Erok to Frank 2012/07/08 11:44:24
art1ej 2012/07/05 02:07:37 (edited)

Crazy

All i can say is wtf are you thinking....it doesn't sound like love at all more like you have an obsession......
Spend the money on private tutoring.....

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TrudyGirl 2012/07/05 02:06:12

Crazy

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I am pretty sure from your words that 1. You are crazy 2. You are not in love but in lust 3. let it go she has already said no..buying her will not be good for your side.

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akhippie to TrudyGirl 2012/07/05 07:35:44

Very good advice.

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TrudyGirl to akhippie 2012/07/05 20:53:52

:D

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Raphy 2012/07/05 01:54:09

Crazy

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I say let it go man. Just try to be her friend. That's too expensive of a gift to buy too. Money is not going to buy her affection. Sometimes it the little things that count..

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Rod 2012/07/05 01:19:34

Crazy

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Get over it and grow up. She is not the only fish in the pond. If she is giving you that much grief why would you keep trying? Are you that hard up? Goodbye diamond necklace. If you have to "buy" someones attention, what happens when you run out of money?

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David Hussey 2012/07/05 01:08:09

Both

Love is a form of insanity.

Be careful, I would recommend caution in pursuing her and i would definitely hold off on the necklace. That is the sort of gift for a girl you are in an established relationship with. You may scare her off with such a lavish gift. Before doing anything so extravagant, see if you are even going to get the opportunity to spend time with her. You wont be able to buy her affection with trinkets.

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Jack 2012/07/05 01:03:26

Both

You're as mad as a March hare, my friend! A $2,000 present for someone you barely know, who's probably not interested in you?
If she's the kind of girl who would date you because you spent $2,000 on her, then she's not worth dating in the first place! Either she likes you, or she doesn't, regardless of money.

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umapathy Krishnamurthy 2012/07/05 00:32:37

Both

I think so am I right

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brittany 2012/07/05 00:11:01

Both

well i think your more in love. some people just fall in love with the wrong people but only you can love who you love.

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caius madison 2012/07/04 23:51:08

Both

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Love is irrational, so you must be both friend. Still, if not for it, why live at all? Best of luck.

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Temlakos~POTL~PWCM~JLA~☆ 2012/07/04 23:47:03

Crazy

You're crazy to let your infatuation--for, sadly, that is all it is--so get the better of your judgment. She is not even comfortable in her own skin, or she would not dissipate herself so.

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Michael Hertel 2012/07/04 23:20:31

Crazy

Find someone else, never buy diamonds.

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Call me Mark willya? 2012/07/04 22:22:13

Crazy

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It's lust. And apparently she does judge, she judged you to be unworthy of her time... do you smoke or drink or both? because if you don't it can be a real problem for you. Her kisses will taste like an ashtray to you if you don't smoke.

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Soviet ... to Call me... 2012/07/04 22:34:14

Her lips will taste like love I don't care if she smokes or not.

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Call me... to Soviet ... 2012/07/04 22:36:54

Good luck my friend... I hope you can deal with it, I never could... Oh, and her lips will taste like love, if she loves you, if you can't even get her to re-friend you on facebook how are you gonna get close to her IRL???

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Soviet ... to Call me... 2012/07/04 22:41:43

I will and she seems to care about me to some extent.

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Call me... to Soviet ... 2012/07/04 23:00:56

Well, that's a start anyway...

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bmxschoolbus 2012/07/04 21:16:45

Both

your crazy in love but hey russian girls are hot

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rebecca to bmxscho... 2012/07/05 06:12:26

ew yeah they also are good in fashion

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me4ever 2012/07/04 21:10:27

Crazy

she said NO
just give it a rest

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Sweetness 2012/07/04 20:51:59

Crazy

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Don't buy it for her.. There's a lot of other girls out there...and there is one for you. Don't chase someone who does not give you the time of day. Just my opinion.

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Lydecho Rain (Лидия) 2012/07/04 20:50:27

In love

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I don't think you're crazy.

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Steve 2012/07/04 20:22:04

Crazy

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Being in love IS a form of insanity. It's programmed into our species to help bring about the next generation.

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FAWKES' NOOSE ~ ΔTX 2012/07/04 19:52:40

Crazy

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Back in the days of the Soviet Union you could woo a girl with 5 gallons of insecticide.

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