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Soviet Revolution 2012/07/04 17:22:07
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I really love this girl who moved here from Russia and we became friends but she said no but at the time I barely knew her right its Summer and she blocked me on FBlacebook probably got annoyed but she unblocked me but hasn't addes me back. She smokes,drinks and does drugs but is very accepting and doesn't judge and very sweet. So even though her birthdays the same month as me next month a week before mine. So I decided to save up money to buy her a Christmas present she doesn't celebrate Christmas so we should be able to hang out that day.

The present is a $2,000 Diamond Necklace(I think its Diamond)
Though its only $1,200 2 weeks ago when i found it online and Christmas sales should help but still a lot.

Im also been told she wouldn't sell it for drugs or alcohol so thats not a problem.
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  • Nameless 2012/07/09 19:35:01
    Crazy
    Nameless
    +1
    This is NOT love. You are stalking her and if I were her, I'd call the police. Leave her alone! You should be glad she is not my daughter...
  • mac9 2012/07/09 13:44:21
    Both
    mac9
    +1
    Be cautious...move slowly and hang on to the necklace and receipt until you have positive signals from her. You don't want her showing off the necklace for someone else.
  • Pamela Perkins 2012/07/09 11:16:01
    Crazy
    Pamela Perkins
    +1
    It seems to me that you are a fruit cake for putting this on sodahead.
  • Pamela ... Pamela ... 2012/07/09 13:17:28
  • Pat 2012/07/09 07:52:49
    Crazy
    Pat
    +1
    If you're really considering this, you are definitely crazy. Don't do it. You'll be sorry.
  • ajracestables1 2012/07/08 21:27:08
    Crazy
    ajracestables1
    +1
    She has given you all the warnings you could possibly get from a woman, if you go through with this, you only have yourself to blame.
  • Anna 2012/07/08 04:51:11
    Crazy
    Anna
    +1
    Dude, I wouldn't want a guy I'd been with for 40+ YEARS to spend over a $1,000 on jewelry for me. This girl won't even accept your facebook request. Honestly, you've gone into the "creepy stalker" realm. I guarantee you, the only reason she would want that necklace from you is to sell it. Most girls aren't even comfortable wearing things that pricey.
  • Soviet ... Anna 2012/07/08 04:57:52
    Soviet Revolution
    +1
    Long Story but its over
  • Dzeeng 2012/07/07 08:47:07
    Both
    Dzeeng
    +1
    Stupid, crazy Obsession ..........
  • Marcus Clark 2012/07/07 07:45:43
    Crazy
    Marcus Clark
    +2
    1)Crazy is too mild. More like foolish.
    2)This is not love. Lust maybe, Infatuation maybe, but definitely not love.
    3)She is not interested. Overpriced baubles will not change that.
    4)Just because she says she won't pawn it for drugs, does not guarantee that won't happen.
    5)Forget about her. She is bad news.
  • krishan chandra 2012/07/06 07:14:53
    Crazy
    krishan chandra
    +2
    really...did ya read what you typed...lol
  • sherie 2012/07/06 06:39:39
    Crazy
    sherie
    +1
    Seriously? ????
  • Mj PINKYFINGERDOWN 2012/07/05 19:05:18
  • Kat 'CARROT' 2012/07/05 18:29:49
    Both
    Kat 'CARROT'
    +1
    I ment crazy
  • Mj PINK... Kat 'CA... 2012/07/05 19:06:05
  • Kat 'CA... Mj PINK... 2012/07/08 19:58:46
    Kat 'CARROT'
    +1
    I'm no dude
  • Mj PINK... Kat 'CA... 2012/10/20 01:34:29
  • Kat 'CA... Mj PINK... 2012/10/21 00:17:00 (edited)
    Kat 'CARROT'
    WTF and i just don't beleive in LOVE DUDE
  • Mj PINK... Kat 'CA... 2012/10/22 16:46:02
  • Kat 'CA... Mj PINK... 2012/10/25 20:47:31
    Kat 'CARROT'
    dude i'm nt Suicide i just don't believe in love so get over it god it's just what i believe and if u hate it just piss off
  • Mj PINK... Kat 'CA... 2012/11/19 18:23:22
  • Jen 2012/07/05 15:47:17
    Crazy
    Jen
    +1
    COME ON!! You shouldn't even be out walking around! Due u have a drug problem?? What does the Birthday next month and yours being the same month have to do with anything? Ya know what forget it...save up your money....xmas is 6 months away knock yourself out!!
  • Soviet ... Jen 2012/07/05 15:56:18 (edited)
    Soviet Revolution
    +1
    I'm done with her I might not ever talk to her again.
    She has a boyfriend and she really doesn't want me I'm her life even as a friend.
  • Jen Soviet ... 2012/07/05 16:04:03
    Jen
    +2
    Oh THANK GOD!!!! Please move on ya can do way better!
  • oros 2012/07/05 15:21:43
    Crazy
    oros
    +2
    Does Drugs are you insane "junkies" you are being taken for a ride run boy run
  • Racefish 2012/07/05 15:01:19
    Crazy
    Racefish
    +1
    That's a pretty hefty price for a maybe.
  • Mj PINK... Racefish 2012/07/05 19:06:50
  • Racefish Mj PINK... 2012/07/07 23:52:37
  • Quazimoto 2012/07/05 13:42:23
    Crazy
    Quazimoto
    +3
    Invest in someone who appreciates you for who you are.
  • Jimbo 2012/07/05 08:12:49
    Crazy
    Jimbo
    +2
    NEVER think that buying a girl something will make her like you. It won't.
  • FELINE GESTURES IN THE DARK 2012/07/05 07:29:03
    Both
    FELINE GESTURES IN THE DARK
    +1
    They always go together . You have to risk the possibility of your small chance with her by saving the 1.200 dollars . Or you will risk losing 1.200 dollars . But , later , when you get old , you will always regret that you did not try . I know that , if she is not interested in you a bit , the diamond will not help you . Also it would not be a nice thing if she gets interested in you just because of the diamond . But she might also think that it worths to give you a chance when you are ready to sacrifice things ( precious money means sweating for it ) for her .
    Instead of biting your ass when you are old you can assume you are throwing away 1.200 dollars & give a try . If she still does not want you , you will know you have done your best . You can always earn many dollars in your life time . You have to use dollars to make you happy . Do it . Regret that you lost money . Don't regret that you lost a possible love of your life . If you don't try it now , It will grow & grow in your obsessed mind all your life long , he will look even more precious than she was .
    But you must keep in your mind that love is a form of madness but lust is something else .
  • Me 2012/07/05 07:28:26
    Crazy
    Me
    really...did ya read what you typed...lol
  • mandyinabox 2012/07/05 05:04:18
    Crazy
    mandyinabox
    sounds like she probably doesn't have the same feelings for you that you do for her; i'd let her go if i were you, i was once put in a trance by this girl at my high school, she talked to me and we spent alittle time together, but after some messages i'd left on her phone b/c she wasn't there i felt rotten & creepy...i know "they" might tell you you have to be the pursuant & she the chase, but it sounds like an awfully exhausting chase if you ask me. as for what to do or how close you want to be, hey, that's totally up to you!
  • Soviet ... mandyin... 2012/07/05 05:08:59
    Soviet Revolution
    +1
    I wanna be really close with her.
  • mandyin... Soviet ... 2012/07/05 05:36:34
    mandyinabox
    i did too...it's hard with a situation like this, but i decided i'd rather stop being with her than be perceived negatively...of course, your situation is different from mine and it's not really my job to tell you what you "should" or shouldn't do...you could just write/send her a letter explaining these feelings, even include my replies so she'll see that you are truly in emotional pain right now and want her to know you're struggling, but i'd leave it at that and let her take it from there...i hope that helps :]
  • Soviet ... mandyin... 2012/07/05 05:45:22
    Soviet Revolution
    She might be with this guy who treats me like garbage because he knows I love her too they have a past but its not for.me to tell about her life to strangers.
  • akhippie Soviet ... 2012/07/05 07:34:05
    akhippie
    It only works when the other person wants to be with you just as bad. If you are the only one that feels that way it my be infatuation?
  • Mj PINK... Soviet ... 2012/07/05 19:07:09
  • Soviet ... mandyin... 2012/07/05 07:22:04
    Soviet Revolution
    Forget it she is terrified of me my friends dad looked at the text and said he could report me to the police for stalking. She straight up told she doesn't want to.know me anymore and to leave her alone I'm talking to her now and Im trying to keep our friendship nothing else matters.
  • mandyin... Soviet ... 2012/07/05 07:25:18
    mandyinabox
    Oh...

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