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Do you think girls/guys can't check people out if they are in a relationship?

waternymphxD 2012/06/30 19:03:08
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I've been with my boyfriend a day and he's already acting clingy. I just commented on a guy today and he took the head off me...:S
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  • Quazimoto 2012/07/05 17:16:50
    I think they can...:S
    Quazimoto
    +1
    This piece of headgear shouldn't be used to tell someone you are in a relationship with a extremely jealous person.
    blinders
  • KrSpo 2012/07/03 16:55:38
    I think they can...:S
    KrSpo
    +2
    They aren't property.. This is the reason why we have so many relationship issues. Just because you're dating someone, doesn't mean you own them.
  • BBCoach 2012/07/03 14:45:20
    I think they can...:S
    BBCoach
    +1
    Just checking someone out isn't bad...its not like you are going to act upon it, right? lol
  • waterny... BBCoach 2012/07/03 15:28:03
  • BBCoach waterny... 2012/07/03 15:29:09
    BBCoach
    +1
    hahaha...or maybe you will ;)
  • Sinister Ken Doll™ 2012/07/02 17:11:37
    I think they can...:S
    Sinister Ken Doll™
    +1
    just cuz you're in a relationship doesn't mean the whole world has to turn ugly

    if my gf was zeroed in on me and wouldn't look at anyone else; i'd think she was crazy

    as long as there is no physical contact or cheating it's perfectly ok and normal
  • jon 2012/07/02 16:59:30
    Other...:)
    jon
    +1
    Depends on what you mean, eye ball...OK , drool ... not so good in front of your other and not so good an indicator of the relationship, try them out .... not acceptable.
  • gmiing 2012/07/02 13:00:00
    Other...:)
    gmiing
    +1
    Really!!? Just because they are married or in a relationship - you think either sex doesn't notice anymore. Get real.
  • YourGurll<3 2012/07/02 06:53:46
    I think they can...:S
    YourGurll<3
    +2
    Guys should know..girls are going to look at other guys now & then, but their heart will always belong to them :)
  • sally 2012/07/02 05:42:04 (edited)
    Other...:)
    sally
    +1
    Well we're all imperfect human beings, it's not like we can stop looking at other attractive people. Besides I don't think your boyfriend should have anything to worry about it's not like you're going to cheat on him.
  • sexyvgirl6969 2012/07/02 04:59:04
    I think they can...:S
    sexyvgirl6969
    +2
    Sure, why not?
  • ajracestables1 2012/07/02 01:24:10
    Other...:)
    ajracestables1
    +1
    It is human nature to look. It is up to individuals to be discreet when looking. I don't think one day gives him the right to be a dick.
  • Watts 2012/07/01 19:18:06
    I think they can...:S
    Watts
    +1
    it's human nature, we all look, there's no harm in looking, you can look just don't touch
  • ☮ Ron ☮ Paul ☮ 2012! ☮ 2012/07/01 18:20:44
    NO!!! They should focus on their bf/gf...
    ☮ Ron ☮ Paul ☮ 2012! ☮
    +1
    If you respect the one that you are with you will curb yourself accordingly. Temptation is all around us and is not bad, in itself, because when you avoid it you show that you love that person all the more!
  • jere.chievres 2012/07/01 15:35:39
    Other...:)
    jere.chievres
    +1
    Most of us do!
  • tywon.smith 2012/07/01 14:37:54
    I think they can...:S
    tywon.smith
    +3
    It never hurts to look at the menu as long as you dine at home!
  • Kozmo 2012/07/01 06:00:12
    I think they can...:S
    Kozmo
    +2
    It's up to each partner to define the peripheral bounds of association. But I think on the 1st day or so shouldn't be commital.
  • TuringsChild 2012/07/01 05:48:34
    I think they can...:S
    TuringsChild
    +3
    Like my pappy always used to say, "I'm married, not dead!" Looking does NO HARM.
  • Aqua Surf 2012/07/01 05:23:17
    Other...:)
    Aqua Surf
    +3
    My then future husband said this-"You can look but don't touch". I agree. We're human, ya know?
  • Arianne 2012/07/01 04:39:28
    I think they can...:S
    Arianne
    +2
    So as long as all they do is "check out." Looking at others is perfectly fine.
  • me4ever 2012/07/01 04:37:12
    I think they can...:S
    me4ever
    +2
    its not like you are going to go out with the guy
    so what checking a guy in front of him better than going out with one behind his back :)
  • art1ej 2012/07/01 04:18:45
    I think they can...:S
    art1ej
    +3
    Of course its human nature...
  • geneticmistake 2012/07/01 04:11:41
    I think they can...:S
    geneticmistake
    +3
    Sure as long as they're just looking. Acts as a primer for later on when just the two are together. This assumes the couple is monogamous. If not invite the one(s) being looked at.
  • Debowman 2012/07/01 03:46:34
    I think they can...:S
    Debowman
    +2
    No problem with looking at all I am not insecure, if fact I problably would tease you about it.
  • Dynasty Fighter 2012/07/01 01:21:00
    Other...:)
    Dynasty Fighter
    +2
    eh they going to to do it ayways
  • ZB 2012/07/01 01:03:16
    I think they can...:S
    ZB
    +3
    I know I do and so does the wife.
  • Wonder Woman 2012/07/01 00:46:23
  • ready46xwu 2012/07/01 00:31:48
    I think they can...:S
    ready46xwu
    +2
    we will all "LOOK"!
    but there's a difference in 'looking & staring'!
    don't act like a teenage perv and make noises! lol
  • P. Sturm 2012/07/01 00:31:10
    I really don't know...:D
    P. Sturm
    +2
    It depends on their relationship and expectations, and culture to a large extent.
  • The River Rat 2012/07/01 00:22:45
    I think they can...:S
    The River Rat
    +1
    Kick him to the curb! If my girlfriend made a big fuss over some guy, I might be a little jealous but I'll be damned if I would ever let her know. I know she knows I love her and I know she loves me and that's all that is important.
  • Just me ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞ 2012/07/01 00:21:26
    Other...:)
    Just me ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞
    +4
    If you have only been with someone for 1 day and they are already acting clingy and are acting jealous, END IT NOW!! It's only going to get worse!
  • Tenness... Just me... 2012/07/01 01:57:28
    Tennessee3501
    +3
    Would you be saying that if it was Brad Pitt or Paul Newman doing the clinging?
  • Just me... Tenness... 2012/07/01 02:01:10 (edited)
    Just me ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞
    +3
    YES and yes. I cannot stand Pitt and Newman is too old, but I do like his salad dressings!! Sam Elliott? Now that's a different story!!

    I'm married to a very controlling jealous hubby. I thought that when I married him he would lighten up, but he only got worse and here I am almost 25 yrs later...*sigh*.
  • Debowman Just me... 2012/07/01 03:47:28
    Debowman
    +2
    Poor you
  • Tenness... Just me... 2012/07/01 03:50:33
    Tennessee3501
    +3
    I wish I could say that Sandra Bullock was "clinging and acting jealous" after one day with me! LOL !
    Sorry, I did not know about your husband. I could joke and say that he needs a good spanking, but I know that the problem is serious and that counselling is the only permanent solution to the problem. He has to be willing to go and explore why he is insecure and jealous. Now I understand why you gave the original answer to the question posed that you did. Good luck and we will all be here for you!
  • Just me... Tenness... 2012/07/01 03:55:50
    Just me ∞ijm♥G☮F♀U∞
    +2
    Sandra Bullock! LOL....everytime I see her in a movie, I think of you! :P
  • jere.ch... Just me... 2012/07/01 15:39:19
    jere.chievres
    +1
    Time to leave.
  • jules 2012/07/01 00:13:56
    NO!!! They should focus on their bf/gf...
    jules
    +2
    Otherwise it could lead into a "straying" situation.
    Also what I am against is if you are with your bf/gf, it's disrespectful and a low blow if a guy checks out another girl when he is with his gf. That's bad.
  • Alexis 2012/06/30 23:44:13
    I think they can...:S
    Alexis
    +5
    Look but don't touch.
  • Alli 2012/06/30 23:23:04
    I really don't know...:D
    Alli
    +3
    Depends on the relationship

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