Fantasy implies something that cannot happen. I want so much more than vanilla. I want to please my sweetie in every way. There is nothing I wouldn't do for her. She is my everything. She gets my all.
I like a bit of both. There are times when fantasy is really fun - and then there are times when just being with the one you love is all that is necessary...
but whips and chains excite me.
So throw me down and tie me up,
and show me how much you like me.
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