With what their parents spend to send them to us, it's no surprise. And I hear that from many people I went through grad school with who teach in the public schools. I earn less, but there are trade-offs.
Yes, they will! It's sad, but there were many reasons why I chose this route. And most of those people thought I was crazy (no union, dress code, lower starting salary). Who's crazy now?
LOL-yes those questions do start up. People tend to forget and be a bit insensitive. Constantly asking a woman when she is going to have a baby meanwhile she may actually be trying and it isn't happening.
I used to get a lot of comments/questions about having another after my son. It lasted until he was about five. It's such a personal thing and sometimes I wanted to burst into tears and say to people, "my uterus exploded after I had my first child so I will never be able to have children again." Just to see the look on their faces as they realise how impertinent they have been.
Oh, they don't mean any harm, and it's a natural question of a newlywed couple. People are excited for us, but as you know-it's complicated by things that I don't have much control over. ;)
I think they are just putting things in the perspective of starting the family. Sure, I want so much to be a mother, but I'll be happy to work out some of the kinks of being a good wife first. (And the rest is out of my hands)
I don't think anybody should launch into having babies immediately after marriage unless they have already lived together a few years. You need your time together because babies and children will take up all of it.
I used to get a lot of comments/questions about having another after my son. It lasted until he was about five. It's such a personal thing and sometimes I wanted to burst into tears and say to people, "my uterus exploded after I had my first child so I will never be able to have children again." Just to see the look on their faces as they realise how impertinent they have been.
[You have to read it with an accent]