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Do you ever forget that you're not as young as you used to be, and then get depressed when you remember that you're not as young as you used to be?

Tom R 007 2012/08/06 10:33:43
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I feel like the same person now as I did when I was 17, until I look in a mirror. I'm seriously thinking of breaking every mirror in my house. Obviously this question doesn't apply to teenagers, you lucky bastards who still have your whole lives ahead of you! Still feel free to answer though. Maybe you feel like you're a six year old?
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  • Chris- Demon of the PHAET 2012/08/06 12:01:29
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    Chris- Demon of the PHAET
    +3
    LOL.."weird little man child". Good one. O.k. here's my reply:

    Oh boo hoo. I turn 50 in a few months. Wait until you wake up with a sore back. Not because you did anything unusual. Just normal sleeping made you sore, LOL...No THAT is a shock.
    I'll let you on a secret though. All in all my 40's have been the best part of my life. You're old enough not to care what anyone thinks but you have the experience and wisdom to deserve to feel that way. I looked better at 40 than I did at 25 though that is changing these days. As for feeling 17? That doesn't go away. Some of that joy and insecurity stay with you no matter how old you get.
    I'm curious to see what my 50's bring. I'll let you know. :-)

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  • Katfish 2012/08/07 15:33:46
    Yes. Why am I getting old? Life isn't fair!
    Katfish
    +1
    Thats the thing about time, it only moves in one direction. When your young you want it go go faster, so you can hurry up and get older.
    I personally have worked a hell of a lot for what I have, even paid my house off a few months ago but sadly would give it all up to go back to being a teen with nothing but youth.
  • JanHopkins 2012/08/07 14:52:13
    I've had it with these motherf--kin snakes on this motherf--kin plane!
    JanHopkins
    +1
    60 here. It bothers me sometimes. I am the same person inside that I always was but I can't move as fast, lift as much, keep my balance like I used to. Inside though, I'm still rockin'and rollin'.
  • Tom R 007 JanHopkins 2012/08/07 14:53:11
    Tom R 007
    +1
    Glad to hear it :-)
  • william raggett 2012/08/07 10:31:35
    Yes. Why am I getting old? Life isn't fair!
    william raggett
    +2
    It seems to me the body ages faster than the mind
  • Tom R 007 william... 2012/08/07 10:32:31
    Tom R 007
    +1
    Couldn't agree more!
  • Katherine william... 2012/08/07 20:16:55
    Katherine
    +2
    That was concise.
  • Yankee Traveler 2012/08/07 09:24:15
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    Yankee Traveler
    +1
    I do forget how aged my body is getting at times and have to remind myself of that! The mind and heart are way much younger so my approach to things need to be calculated first and then approached.
  • Katherine 2012/08/07 08:28:00
    I've had it with these motherf--kin snakes on this motherf--kin plane!
    Katherine
    +2
    Eh... I really wouldn't want to do all of that over again. It's just unsettling being that much closer to death and watching all those people from my youth dieing. I really don't want to outlive the familiar and my usefulness. Also the knee and hip problems, freaking nostril hairs. What the hell is that? This is your future, kids. Be afraid, be very afraid.
  • sky blue pink - American 2012/08/07 04:32:03
    Yes. Why am I getting old? Life isn't fair!
    sky blue pink - American
    +1
    I feel my age, aches and pains and would love to be your age again.
    Have a nice day !
  • Walt 2012/08/07 04:09:53
    I've had it with these motherf--kin snakes on this motherf--kin plane!
    Walt
    +1
    Do what it takes to remain young if it bothers you so much. Junior high school was just yesterday. I can recite conversations I had with people from 30 years ago verbatim. You're still the person you always were. Just do what it takes to feel good about yourself.
  • MandaLynne 2012/08/07 03:09:52
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    MandaLynne
  • tommyg - POTL- PWCM-JLA 2012/08/07 03:03:53
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    tommyg - POTL- PWCM-JLA
    +1
    It use to bug me.

    But the older I get, the less it bugs me.
  • sglmom 2012/08/07 02:47:13
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    sglmom
    +2
    Sheesh!

    That half-century mark was passed some time ago ..
    and nowadays ..
    the fact is .. I wear my Grey Hair proudly ..
    and although the body is a bit slower in moving ..
    a tad more aches and pains .. (some pops and clicks too from age!)

    Needless to say ..
    we are as YOUNG as we feel ..
    the mind is active ..
    let the mind ROAM .. (and lead you to fascinating thoughts and ideas .. )
    and now ..
    in my Retirement ..
    I'm having fun indeed ..
    (Especially since the children are all grown .. out on their own and I'm FREE to enjoy the REST of my life!)
  • ☮ Ron ☮ Paul ☮ 2012! ☮ 2012/08/07 02:42:37
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    ☮ Ron ☮ Paul ☮ 2012! ☮
    +2
    I don't feel like I'm in my teens anymore, but I wish my body didn't feel like I was in my 50s though... *sigh*
  • Nay ॐ ‏ 2012/08/06 14:25:33
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    Nay ॐ ‏
    +1
    First, I believe that you're not a weird-little-man-child haha. I mean, you might feel that way, but you're probably wrong, uh. Because, we're only as old as we feel. :-)
    And me, I've been living in this world for 17 years. Hm I'm not really proud or even lucky to be young. I wish I could be as old as my Mom now. Yeah, it's so damn weird. I dont know why, maybe because I'm lil bit dissapointed with my generation and I keep thinking that I'm more mature. But, it's okay right. Let's just try to be thankful for everything we all got. Stay young, Tom R 007 <3
  • Tom R 007 Nay ॐ ‏ 2012/08/06 14:41:31
    Tom R 007
    +1
    Haha. The problem with me is that I do feel young but then I look in the mirror and get depressed because I don't look how I'm imagining myself to look. It's really weird. I go into the shop and I get called sir now. I HATE that! Haha :-) I feel like saying "dude, forget about that sir crap. I ain't your dad". I may only be 10 years older than these kids but it feels like more sometimes when they call me "sir".
    Having said that, I am thankful that I grew up in the 80s and 90s where we actually had some really decent music. I feel sorry for you kids with the crap that's produced nowadays.
    Thanks for your comment :-)
  • adeenmckenziekennedy 2012/08/06 12:30:42
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    adeenmckenziekennedy
    +2
    I am turning 17 this year and this doesn't imply to me. I guess I am lucky to be young person but I hate these horrible economic times and most of the popular music today sucks.
    I hope it gets better for this current generation.
  • Tom R 007 adeenmc... 2012/08/06 12:33:21
    Tom R 007
    +1
    I couldn't agree more about the music. I'm glad that I grew up in the 80s and 90s, when popular music was actually great! Thanks for your opinion :-)
  • adeenmc... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 15:40:48
    adeenmckenziekennedy
    +2
    You are so lucky you grew up in the 1980s and 1990s. You are probably around my mother's age then.
    I am a huge Michael Jackson fan as well as a Queen fan. I love Led Zeppelin. Those are my top three artists as well.
    I can't stand most of today's music. I have to deal with girls my age going gaga over Justin Bieber(eew, hate his music and he is overrated), One Direction(another eew,an overrated talentless boy band that girls my age love because of their ''looks''), Nicki Minaj(more like *****y Minaj to me. Her music has way too much profanity and negativity), Lil Wayne(another one of those talentless rappers whose songs degrade women and has profanity), Taylor Swift(not a fan) etc.
    I only like Adele, Katy Perry, Bruno Mars, Eminem, and a few others of MY musical generation. There is good music out today but it isn't as popular or mainstream.
    P.S. You are so so lucky that you grew up in the 1980s and 1990s.
    I want to be a famous author one day and I am making my story set in the 1980s
  • Tom R 007 adeenmc... 2012/08/07 08:39:51
    Tom R 007
    +1
    I'm a huge MJ fan too. I can dance like him because when I was a kid I used to copy his moves while I danced to my Thriller cassette! Haha :-) It was harder then because we didn't have things like YouTube, so I had to wait for MJ to come on TV to copy him. I was born in 1980, so I was very young in the 80s, but I still remember quite a lot from about '86 onwards, especially the music and film and television that was around then.
    Unfortunately almost all mainstream music these days is overrated. Back when I was a kid I listened to the bands you mentioned (Led Zeppelin, Queen etc) but also bands like The Beatles, which was music that my dad listened to when he was younger.
    I hope you have success writing. I'm a writer, although I mainly write poetry and play scripts.
  • adeenmc... Tom R 007 2012/08/07 14:11:36
    adeenmckenziekennedy
    +1
    Cool. I write stories. I hope I do too.
    Yes,most of today's mainstream music is overrated and most of the singers lack talent. Adele, Bruno Mars, Eminem, 3 Doors Down and Train are exceptions as well as a few others.
    But none of them hold a candle to Led Zeppelin, Queen and Michael Jackson.
  • Chris- Demon of the PHAET 2012/08/06 12:01:29
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    Chris- Demon of the PHAET
    +3
    LOL.."weird little man child". Good one. O.k. here's my reply:

    Oh boo hoo. I turn 50 in a few months. Wait until you wake up with a sore back. Not because you did anything unusual. Just normal sleeping made you sore, LOL...No THAT is a shock.
    I'll let you on a secret though. All in all my 40's have been the best part of my life. You're old enough not to care what anyone thinks but you have the experience and wisdom to deserve to feel that way. I looked better at 40 than I did at 25 though that is changing these days. As for feeling 17? That doesn't go away. Some of that joy and insecurity stay with you no matter how old you get.
    I'm curious to see what my 50's bring. I'll let you know. :-)
  • Tom R 007 Chris- ... 2012/08/06 12:25:38
    Tom R 007
    +2
    Great answer. Thanks for your input :-)
  • Chris- ... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 12:31:36
  • MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/08/06 11:11:32
    No. I don't care, and you shouldn't either you weird little man child.
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +2
    First of all "you weird little man child" LOL I gotta get my laughs out, so I can answer in a serious way!

    Ahem, ok, ready. No, I don't ever forget how old I am. Yes it gets damn depressing when I look in the mirror (no need to go into details about what I see in that scary reflection). When I go to stand after sitting for a while, I feel like the tin man who needs to be oiled to get the old joints moving. And if I didn't have those two as reminders, I always have my daughters' as back up voices reminding me that I am not so young. But I quickly remind them that I may be old(er) but I still got it going on! To which, they roll their eyes and laugh. Not sure why, but anyway....

    I'm very young at heart & I refuse to let that go. Once I, or any of us let that go, we might as well throw in the towel. It's the one thing that helps to keep me from feeling completely terrible about it. And besides man child, you're only 31! You're still very young!
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 11:18:20
    Tom R 007
    +1
    I have a birthday a month today though :-(
    I always forget how old I am because (apart from being a little wiser and more confident in myself) I feel no different than I did when I was in high school. Might have something to do with the fact that I play for a living?
  • MlssCue... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 11:23:56
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    But think about that...you forget how old you are & don't feel any different than you did when you were in HS, that's awesome! The age that's just a # but that doesn't define how you feel. Perhaps the acting does help with that. Whatever it is, welcome it & try not to think too much about it. Go with how you feel :-)
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 11:25:12
    Tom R 007
    +1
    True. Maybe I'll just break every mirror that I come across. That'll fix it! :-)
  • MlssCue... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 11:29:55
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    No, you can't do that, that's bad luck (maybe that will work) lol What is with the mirror? This picture of you, your avatar is recent correct?
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 11:35:08
    Tom R 007
    +1
    Reasonably. About a year old.
  • MlssCue... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 11:39:51
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    And what's wrong with it? Because from what I've seen on any of your pictures you look far from old. Mind you, when we all look in the mirror we se things that others don't see. But that's because we are all up close & personal :-) But you look like a kid, no offense...ok a young man, ok this doesn't sound right. You get what I'm saying....?
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 11:42:57
    Tom R 007
    You'll notice that I don't really have a big smile on any of my pictures though. That's when all the lines show up! Haha :-)
  • MlssCue... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 11:49:41
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    Oh is that why? Any grey hair? wrinkles? sagging skin? No? See you're fine ;-)
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 11:52:54
    Tom R 007
    No grey hair, but the hair around the temples has thinned a bit :-)
  • MlssCue... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 11:54:27
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    You know what you're going to make me do, don't you?
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 12:26:01
  • MlssCue... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 12:31:13
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    Perform a closer Inspection! It's been done. Be afraid, be very afraid lol
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 12:35:54
    Tom R 007
    +1
    It's really only noticeable when my hair is slicked back, which is why it never is!
  • MlssCue... Tom R 007 2012/08/06 12:38:44
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    +1
    Well then that's not an issue :-)
  • Tom R 007 MlssCue... 2012/08/06 12:39:43
    Tom R 007
    +1
    Not YET...

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