Do you care what people think about you? why/why not?

by lol on B :D Posted 2012/01/14 14:03:16

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Xerxes,Phantom of PHAET 2012/01/14 16:10:27

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No, because my self-esteem and self-worth come from me not other people
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no

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Saucy 2012/05/21 10:23:47

I have recently discovered that those who care about you the most care about you the least. They use love for you as an excuse.Life at present really does suck!

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myerves 2012/05/14 13:22:17

En realidad no me importa lo que la gente piense de mi. Porque mi autoestima es alta y ademas la gente dice muchas tonterías, a veces ni sabe lo que dice. Así que me tiene sin cuidado. Lo interesante es que pienso yo acerca de mi mismo.

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dwight 2012/01/21 21:43:53

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it depends on the situation.

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u000 2012/01/20 14:15:41

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I don't wish to care about, but sometimes i did...

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michelle 2012/01/17 22:22:29

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yes i do :)

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jmc07806-PWCM-JLA 2012/01/17 16:03:55

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I don't actually worry about what people think about me especially at this point in my life. they will either deal with me or not it is as much their choice as mine to deal with others.

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Andrew 2012/01/17 05:44:47

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Nope, because what they think if it's highly negative, and mean, I know that it's their complete ignorance, and willingness to be ass holes.

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PяєттyYσυиgTнiиg 2012/01/16 18:19:32

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Not at all.

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Michaelene 2012/01/16 13:35:16

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Yes, because my word is my oath, my honor is valuable and only the truth will be tolerated. Too often people will lie to gain friends, money and power.

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KATniss 2012/01/16 12:19:46

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no i don't care. why care? if i like myself i'm fine :p

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vetogod 2012/01/16 09:39:57

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no and i get the nasty look all the time and i just say to my self as long as they keep they're mouth shut while i hug my boyfriend it is not my problem so there is no need to care what they think of me

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Ronnie 2012/01/16 09:19:46

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Yes, because sometimes you need to make a good impression in order to get somewhere in life. However, should you change who are in order to do so? Hell no. So just be aware of the impressions you make, yet don't let others' opinions affect your whole outlook on yourself.

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gregaj7 2012/01/16 08:06:53

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Either way, I'm not in control of that. I wouldn't consider myself a "people-pleaser".

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SourDiesel 2012/01/16 06:55:19
leigh 2012/01/16 06:41:04

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i define my own self..i dont want people write my script..so the hell i care?

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Happy 2012/01/16 06:40:06

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i don't focus on it but sometimes you have to. For instance in the beginning of a semester i want the teachers to at least start off with a good impression of me.

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Crime Time 2012/01/16 05:43:12

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No cause life's too short

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Jada_Ringo 2012/01/16 05:40:34

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Sadly I do, but I wish I didn't. I try to convince myself that I don't, but deep down I know its a lie.

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MercuryZero 2012/01/16 04:28:52

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Nope. Cause I know I'm awesome and I don't give a flying f*ck if people think otherwise. What matters is that I'm confident in myself and know my true worth.

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Red 2012/01/16 04:17:35

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Depending on the situation, yea i kinda do, but at the same time the haters can go suck a d!ck, i guess i only care about what my friends think ;p

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☆ QueenAline 2012/01/16 03:23:48

xeres said it all

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AsianGirl ^0^ 2012/01/16 02:55:16

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Sometimes. It depends on the situation, but most of the time I don't really care

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richie 2012/01/16 02:47:32

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No I don't care what people think of me! The thing that matters is what I think of me. If I can look in the mirror and honestly say. There is an honest man who does unto others as he would have others do unto him. Then that is what matters!

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Yaati 2012/01/16 01:41:09 (edited)

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A select few. Like my mother, I care what she thinks of me because she's ones of my best friends and heroes.

Everybody else? Ehh...not too worried about at all.

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Juanb 2012/01/16 01:23:57 (edited)

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you cant care of what they think of you personally but you should care in a job situation or professionally. you have to throw that be yourself $#!t out the window at job interviews

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in vino veritas 2012/01/16 01:20:34

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Outside of a handful of people I am committed too,no.A lot of people are in denial about this very thing,I was once too.

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Lucky. 2012/01/16 00:01:56 (edited)

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Depends. If it's someone I respect or care about yes. People with whom I work with or for, yes. Doesn't necessarily mean I have low self-esteem or low self-worth if I care what some people think. Sometimes it just means you value their opinion. I'm not a "people pleaser" I could care less what most thinks. If someone is rude or annoying to me.. nope. Though it would be nice if people think highly of you.

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NYYankees 2012/01/15 23:09:56

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no... why should I?

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DoxieDad 2012/01/15 23:03:03

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I care but do not worry myself about it. You are simply never going to be able to please everyone. Somebody is always going to be annoyed with you. (Hey Ron Paul supporters)

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Billy Williams 2012/01/15 22:59:18

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I don't care what anyone thinks of me!

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The River Rat 2012/01/15 21:33:03

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I care about what I think about me and what a few other people think about me.

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Brother Bo 2012/01/15 21:24:02 (edited)

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If they don't sign my paycheck or potentially sleep with me, then I couldn't care less what most people think of me.

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dogs voice 2012/01/15 20:50:24

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No. I am my own person and that is that.

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Riobhca 2012/01/15 20:13:55

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Absolutely not. If you are always trying to please others, you will never find out who you are meant to be. Also, others are always criticizing and trying to dissuade you from your true path. You can't be true to yourself if you worry about what others think. Also...your real friends will want you to be who you are and accept you for that. No one who really cares about you would want you to be anything else but who you are.

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eagle8 2012/01/15 20:12:20
Invader_Ellie_Slamacow 2012/01/15 20:08:55

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nope ^_^ makes life so much easier

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Nina 2012/01/15 18:32:43

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No, because if u don't like me u have the choice to get the hell out of my circle...I am me and love or leave it ur choice

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moonsong 2012/01/15 18:29:08

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I.D.G.A.F what other people think of me :)

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Redneck Gal 2012/01/15 18:06:12 (edited)

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No, don't care cause I won't be able to please all people. As long as I'm living a good life, working hard, compassionate to others, etc...that's the important thing. If they like me then they like me, if not...my conscience is clear.

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