Look some people are popular: they just are. And some people aren't. But being popular isn't what life is about. It takes all kinds to make a world. You have a purpose, and you will one day figure out what it is, and embrace it. When you are happy with yourself and what you choose to do, you will be admired and respected and will find true friends. Just concentrate on yourself, find out what you are good at and work in that direction. That way you will become your own best friend and will be happy and fulfilled. These things fall into place: you can't wish them upon yourself. You will attract them with no effort, when you become the true, glorious you.