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D you ever feel like your not part of the family?

OrihimeROckz 2010/05/25 20:56:35
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like they judge and criticize everything you do and you just dont feel part of the family or you just feel like you dont belong there?
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  • sarahlizx3 2012/11/11 22:44:12 (edited)
    YES
    sarahlizx3
    +1
    i'm 21 and my sister is 20. my sister has always been daddy's little girl and my mom's golden child. she can do wrong, even when she had her drug addiction. she was always smarter, skinnier, and a better competitive dancer. i never really dwelled on it though because my sister and i were pretty close, she was my best friend. ever since i turned 21 back in april my sister has been nothing but rude to me. i can't even remember the last civil conversation we've had. i'll go to sit next to her on the couch without even saying a word and i will see her out of my peripheral rolling her eyes. her and my mom are bffs now. they are always going to lunch together and the movies and don't ever invite me or tell me. when my whole family goes out to dinner they sneak out without me and when i do go with them my mom complains about paying for me the whole time even though she's also paying for my sister and brother. my parents never hesitate to tell me how lazy i am and how ii dont do anything even though i work full time as an assistant manager at claire's and i'm in school for pharmacy. my dad the other day had no problem telling me i look like i'm gaining weight and need to start watching what i eat. yes, i'm a little big but i've been working out non stop the past couple of weeks and have already lost weight. plus i was eating a banana and had just gotten home from the gym when he decided to tell me this. and my 16 year old brother is always calling me a bitch and a whore.
  • colepickle 2010/11/21 20:34:36
    YES
    colepickle
    +1
    ALL THE TIME! It's sad and heratbreaking and I am trying to come to terms with it this time in my life (38 now). It is not easy at all. This Thanksgiving I made the decision to stay at home with my husband and 2 dogs. Haven't been able to have children of our own.....which makes it more difficult. No one really speaks to us or cares about what we say.............and when my mom and 3 other sisters get together, they act like a highschool click. Thats the best way I can explain it. Ilove them very much and quite frankly this is hurting me much more becasue I am trying to except the situation. My mom has never cared for me ever since I was born, and I never received acceptance from her, I think its just something that happens. I think she loves me because I am her child she just doesnt at the same time. I am forgiving her and will love her always just dont want to take on the unacceptance. Every time we are around we hear about all the things they do together, that we are never invited to......Trying to figure out how to deal with this...........hope I made the right decision for Thanksgiving....we have to get up early and got to work next day.
  • psycholove 2010/10/30 07:30:45
    YES
    psycholove
    +1
    Definitely! I feel so alone here. They didt even recognize what's my worth. Fccckkk.
  • ..... 2010/07/27 05:45:51
    YES
    .....
    +1
    absolutely!
    never have fit in, and I don't plan on it in the future.........
  • Orihime... ..... 2010/07/28 18:09:34
    OrihimeROckz
    good
  • nat 2010/06/20 03:40:05
    YES
    nat
    every1 will judge and critcize u but ur family should never do that
  • Orihime... nat 2010/06/20 04:19:28 (edited)
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    familys are da onez who do it da mmost
  • emolover<3 2010/06/06 17:24:00
    YES
    emolover<3
    WHEN IM WITH MI MOM AND MI BROTHER BECUZ IM JUST LIKE MY DAD AND WHEN MI DAD ISENT AROUND IM ALONE!!!!
  • hatshepsut123 2010/05/31 21:31:50
    NO
    hatshepsut123
    most parents do that, trust me, they think that that would help you, but they are wrong. don't listen to them, they don't know better.
  • keenan ... hatshep... 2013/01/03 22:28:25 (edited)
    keenan savage
    +14
    every time i do some think i do it wrongly and my mum mones ar me like i'm am a dog
  • quickchem 2010/05/31 04:53:11 (edited)
    NO
    quickchem
    +1
    sometimes but i think its because we aren't very open to meaningful conversation, at least with my father.
  • keenan ... quickchem 2013/01/03 22:31:19
    keenan savage
    well i think you should the smash his car up
  • birdie1224 2010/05/31 04:50:49
    YES
    birdie1224
    all the time
  • gwennygirl 2010/05/30 12:13:37
    YES
    gwennygirl
    +1
    i was adopted
    i always had the feeling that i never fit in, not at school or at home
    my bestfriend, Kate lives with foster parents
  • abs44 2010/05/28 20:00:16
    YES
    abs44
    Sometimes it's just ridiculous how they make me feel but then other times I don't even want to be part of the family. Blah. lol.
  • عهود عوايص 2010/05/28 07:17:53
    NO
    عهود عوايص
    And hope i won't face that
    ^_^
  • Kyou 2010/05/27 14:26:40
    YES
    Kyou
    I don't get it. I can see clearly that they do show love toward me...but everything they do to me is just wrong...and I can't take it
  • Orihime... Kyou 2010/05/27 22:48:30
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    same here
  • [...] 2010/05/27 07:20:43
    YES
    [...]
    yes at times i do
  • ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~ 2010/05/27 06:53:57
    YES
    ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~
    but I don't really care since I'm moving out as soon as I graduate.
  • Orihime... ~Roxy~N... 2010/05/27 07:18:17
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    iwish i could say the same im burly a freshmen
  • ~Roxy~N... Orihime... 2010/05/27 08:40:47
    ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~
    im almost in 10th
  • Orihime... ~Roxy~N... 2010/05/27 22:57:10
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    o well skul just ended so im now a sophmore
  • ~Roxy~N... Orihime... 2010/05/27 23:18:50
    ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~
    I got to wait 3 years about but if I really need to I could more then likely move out sooner.
  • Orihime... ~Roxy~N... 2010/05/27 23:21:25
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    well me too i could go live with my dad...but than things get a little awkward
  • ~Roxy~N... Orihime... 2010/05/27 23:21:59
    ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~
    why is that?
  • Orihime... ~Roxy~N... 2010/05/27 23:24:04
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    because he lives with another woman who i cnt stand and it would end upa disater
  • ~Roxy~N... Orihime... 2010/05/27 23:27:32
    ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~
    ah well that would not be the best idea, I would get emancipated(sp?)
  • Orihime... ~Roxy~N... 2010/05/27 23:28:49
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    watz dat?
  • ~Roxy~N... Orihime... 2010/05/28 03:43:39
    ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~
    when you are legally separated from you parents & are basically seen as an adult....like when you turn 18
  • Orihime... ~Roxy~N... 2010/05/28 03:50:15
    OrihimeROckz
    +1
    im burly 15
  • ~Roxy~N... Orihime... 2010/05/28 18:12:27
    ~Roxy~Navy~Brat~
    yea
  • SimsNerd 2010/05/27 02:28:59
    NO
    SimsNerd
    nah
  • YES
    ✩Angel in the Night✩~Cobalt❤
    sometimes
  • Hideki Ryuuga 2010/05/26 22:17:51
    YES
    Hideki Ryuuga
    Mostly. YEA!!
  • Heavenlb 2010/05/26 20:55:53
    YES
    Heavenlb
    THEY'LL TALK ABOUT ME LIKE I'M NOT THERE EVEN WHEN I'M IN THE GOSH FOR SAKEN ROOM! IT MAKES ME SSSOOO MAD!!!!!!!!
  • EmoKidBecauseYouThinkIAm 2010/05/26 17:17:27
    YES
    EmoKidBecauseYouThinkIAm
    Frequently.
  • xFALLENxISOLATIONx 2010/05/26 16:45:09
    YES
    xFALLENxISOLATIONx
    my dad used to call me kid-o or son. but not anymore.
    i really sucks
  • freaky 2010/05/26 16:26:04
    YES
    freaky
    rarely but yes
  • The Amazing Gir 2010/05/26 15:48:18
    YES
    The Amazing Gir
    I don't fit in with my family, my mom is like Lois in family guy and my stepdad is like Peter, my sister is like Meg and Chris combined and my little brother is like Stewie. family guy stepdad peter sister meg chris combined brother stewie

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