It's up to you to decide who you really are. I'm bi, and very few people know. I'm totally comfortable with that. It took me a while to come to terms with myself. I was raised in a very Catholic family, and I've gone to Catholic school all my life, so to me it was almost a taboo at first. My parents don't know and only about 5 of my closest friends know. You have to fully understand what the consequences will be before you tell people. Some will avoid you, some might be curious, and some might actually try to hurt you. Don't make the decision hastily. For me, I am a girl, so I'm mainly attracted to guys, and it takes a REALLY special girl for me to date her. Honestly there's only been one. Just be yourself.
There better be labels because some people like to hide their true identity. How many times have you heard of a person dating what they thought was one sex and later found it just was not the case? As an example the transgendered boy that passed as a girl and was slain by a group of youth that found the truth after one fell for him/her. The story is portrayed in A Girl Like Me, a true, made for TV movie. While it was horrendous what was done to this person, as none should be killed for such a thing, the example speaks for what the outcome was of being fooled.
If a person is homosexual then that is the label they place on themselves and should not be surprised when others think of it as a perversion. They have the right to their own sex life but they don't have the right to acceptance.
People can change if they want. They may not be able to change what is inside but they can put an end to abusing others with their actions. Pedophiles are who they are but it is immoral by nature to abuse children sexually or any other way.
I've seen people that were gay that were not homosexual. What is so "gay" about having a penis probing your anus? {:<( OUCH! It used to be called sodomy but now it's just an alternative lifestyle????
My dictionary does not get around to referencing "gay" to homosexual until the seventh definition. This goes to show how people take a word that has spirited meaning to make a perversion sound nice.
Yes, I know what people mean by the term but that still does not make it correct. Perversion is still that, just as a man putting his penis in a female anus is perverted and against the law of nature.
Dream threesome :D
If a person is homosexual then that is the label they place on themselves and should not be surprised when others think of it as a perversion. They have the right to their own sex life but they don't have the right to acceptance.
Yes, I know what people mean by the term but that still does not make it correct. Perversion is still that, just as a man putting his penis in a female anus is perverted and against the law of nature.