You are what you believe you are. You can change the beliefs that govern your perceptions of reality. It is your responsibility to wake up to the fact that you are much more then you think you are, and that you effect your life more extensively than you were ever led to believe.
If you think you're ugly, nothing anyone else says matters. Start thinking you're pretty and then you won't even need other people to validate what you already know.
I bet you are though
Quit being an attention whore.