Am I gay straight or bi?

Unless you have sex with a woman, you are still heterosexual based on the traditional (or real) meaning of homosexual.

Can't help you here, girl. That's for you to figure out when you're ready :)
But my advice? Try not to think about it. It'll just stress you out, and won't help.

well when i dont think about it i know im straight but when i think about it i get all conffused!! >.<

Well, then don't worry about it. If you think you're straight, then go with that. If at some point you realize you're otherwise, then go with that. But don't stress over it too much. Hell, I started questioning my sexuality when I was thirteen. But I was almost sixteen by the time I actually figured it out. When you know, you'll know. And that's what matters :)

It's up to you to decide who you really are. I'm bi, and very few people know. I'm totally comfortable with that. It took me a while to come to terms with myself. I was raised in a very Catholic family, and I've gone to Catholic school all my life, so to me it was almost a taboo at first. My parents don't know and only about 5 of my closest friends know. You have to fully understand what the consequences will be before you tell people. Some will avoid you, some might be curious, and some might actually try to hurt you. Don't make the decision hastily.

it's ok to be confused
just explore a bit and don't be so quick to put a label on it

I can't tell you what's in your heart. If you like this girl and she is into girls, ask her out; talk to her. What can it hurt? Date boys and girls. But, as a general rule, because you're a minor, hold off on sex as long as possible, weather it's with a boy OR a girl, because it's dangerous either way.

In time, you'll find what your true identity is. Don't be in such a rush! Knowing exactly what to label yourself is not as important as you think. Hold off on sex and be good to yourself! Good luck, girl!

I would not date a girl..ewwww

That sounds like a pretty straight response to me... lolz

:)...but I just can't get it out of my head...

hmmm... maybe speak to your parents or guidance councilor about it. Give it time, and see how you feel about this particular girl.

thats what i thought at first. the attraction might just be sexual. it turned out for me though, theres only really a few special girls i would date, and even then it would be secret.

Just be yourself, don't be so quick to label yourself if you have only started figuring this out. I came out as bi a week before my 16th birthday, so I was quite young, but you have only just started thinking about this whereas I had known for years. Don't worry about it, don't think about it, just be yourself and if you catch yourself looking at girls just know it is ok, but don't immediatly jump to conclusions and started obsessing over what you may or may not be, for now just be you everything will become clear when you stop looking and get a little bit older. Also don't do those tests, most of the questions are stupid and only relate to the physical aspects of sexuality, just don't think about it and one day you will just know. Hope this helps :-)

I stop thinking about it and I see my answer ((straight)) but then I try to make sure that I am correct about my feelings and then I get all confused. I'm like yea maybe I am bi. Next thing you know I'm like why did I say that and I start worrying!!!lol

I understand what you mean about not being able to stop thinking about it, but just try to keep it out of your mind by doing things you find fun, (dancing, painting, etc. whatever you like) I did not stop thinking about it and it caused me to become more depressed than I already was at that time, I always second guessed myself and started to feel like I didn't really know who I was, not just what me sexuality was. Thinking about it to much and keeping these feelings to yourself can cause you to started second guessing your whole life, which is not a fun experience. I just want you to know that you are not alone and alot of people have gone through exactly the same thing you are going through. Try not to obsess over the label, thats all the 'straight, bi, gay' are, a label, just be you, please don't try and label yourself yet and dont worry about it, sexuality is a normal part of life, you are not strange or different if you like girls or girls and guys or are just questioning, don't ever let anyone tell you that who you are is wrong. I really hope that you figure it out soon if that is what you really want, but don't feel pressure to label yourself. I really am trying to help, it is a tricky situation. :-)

Im really attracted to both genders, so i guess im Bi :)
The thing is, if i had to choose just one, id go for women :)

cool

:)

Same

Yh, girls are just the best <3 :P

:-)

whatever you want to be

Feel what is in your heart.

Really, I guess, undecided, but does it matter so much? Don't put any stock in those sorts of tests. Figure out who you like. I chose bi because you said that the tests said you were gay or bi, but that you currently like a girl, but really that's just a guess. Only you can know who you are, and I'd recommend figuring out your sexuality based on the PEOPLE you find attractive, not off of a label.

you tell me!

and im not reading that paragraph to give you my opinion. lol

what a lazy b

lol

:)

You are what you are, you don't have to be so concerned with labelling yourself at such a young age.
You have time to figure out who you are

But to see if I can help, first just ignore the gay tests and ask yourselves these questions-
1. Are you sexually attracted to this girl or to other girls only? Then you're gay
2. Are you sexually attracted to boys only? Then you're straight
3. Are you sexually attracted to both girls and boys? Then you're bi

oKAY

you can go a day without sex but not a day without another stupid gay thread.

thanks

You're more than welcome, Romeo. This issue hits close to home for me. I can't stand people thinking that only THEIR problems matter.