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Would you ever go to a gay wedding? If invited.

pepper5419 2012/06/24 15:45:16
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What if out of the blue you get an invitation to a gay wedding? A man marrying another man or a woman getting married to another woman? Is it something you would have to discuss with your kids if you took them with to a reception?
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  • Willie 2012/06/24 16:31:50
    Willie
    +10
    Of course I would go. If you are invited to someone's wedding, that's an indication that you are, in some way, important to that person. Who would refuse to go to the wedding of someone to whom they are important?

    I was best man at a gay wedding a couple of years ago. Or maybe I was matron of honor - I didn't ask. In any case, of course I went, and I brought all three of my children. What did I tell them? I told them that Uncle John was getting married, so they should comb their hair and shine their shoes and get ready for a great celebration. Children aren't born bigots. You have to teach them that. If you don't teach it, they'll grow up just fine.

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  • Staind_wolf94 2012/06/24 16:49:49
    Staind_wolf94
    Probably. I mean, as with any wedding, it would depend on who they were. I don't go to weddings for strangers.
  • ☆Snapefangirl☆ 2012/06/24 16:48:21
    ☆Snapefangirl☆
    Sure, why not?
  • crazy:) 2012/06/24 16:46:41
    crazy:)
    Of course I would go to a gay wedding, I got friends that are gay and i would attend there wedding its it something that I would have to discuss to my kids (later on in life) maybe, I'm pretty sure they would be curious to way a man and man or women and women are getiing married to each other but it wouldnt be a big issue!!
  • Xerxes,Phantom of PHAET 2012/06/24 16:46:31
    Xerxes,Phantom of PHAET
    Yes, been to several both friends and family.
  • ♌βļąƈʞƦơșƐ3033♌ 2012/06/24 16:44:25
    ♌βļąƈʞƦơșƐ3033♌
    +1
    It's just a wedding.
  • silverandgold21 2012/06/24 16:40:35
  • Aly Hart silvera... 2012/06/24 17:00:20
    Aly Hart
    Why?
  • Lydecho Rain (Лидия) 2012/06/24 16:38:34
    Lydecho Rain (Лидия)
    Sure, why not? I would go if I know them at least, and if it's not too far away. I've been to a gay wedding before and it was so fun and romantic. Why should I be prejudiced about it?
  • Deliciously Melicious 2012/06/24 16:37:32
    Deliciously Melicious
    Yes I would go. No, I wouldn't have to discuss it with the kids, as they are aware that some women love other women and some men love other men and some women love men and some men love women. There wouldn't be any issues.
  • Willie 2012/06/24 16:31:50
    Willie
    +10
    Of course I would go. If you are invited to someone's wedding, that's an indication that you are, in some way, important to that person. Who would refuse to go to the wedding of someone to whom they are important?

    I was best man at a gay wedding a couple of years ago. Or maybe I was matron of honor - I didn't ask. In any case, of course I went, and I brought all three of my children. What did I tell them? I told them that Uncle John was getting married, so they should comb their hair and shine their shoes and get ready for a great celebration. Children aren't born bigots. You have to teach them that. If you don't teach it, they'll grow up just fine.
  • RawRsaurus Willie 2012/06/25 02:13:28
    RawRsaurus
    I am loving this answer.
  • 0cean3yes Willie 2012/06/26 02:42:20
    0cean3yes
    One of the greatest answers I've seen here on SodaHead.
  • Rocky 2012/06/24 16:30:00
    Rocky
    Yes, I would go and I don't have kids so there wouldn't be an issue with that.
  • rawrimamoocow 2012/06/24 16:26:35
    rawrimamoocow
    Of course. I have a few gay friends. Im bi and some of my vestfriends are bi or gay my kids will probably grow up around people with a sexual orientation other than straight. My kids will grow up learning to accept everyone for who they are.
  • Bastion 2012/06/24 16:25:37
    Bastion
    Friend or family? Sure. Why not? What's this question about?
  • Sammi </3 2012/06/24 16:19:47
    Sammi </3
    yes i would go
  • kyle 2012/06/24 16:18:18
  • Midnite12 2012/06/24 16:15:29
    Midnite12
    Only if I knew them. If not, I would mail them back asking if they got the right mail address. I'd feel very awkward being at anyone's wedding without knowing who the people getting married are.
  • Red_Horse 2012/06/24 16:14:07
  • doctorwhofan~Tatae~BN-4 2012/06/24 16:13:38
    doctorwhofan~Tatae~BN-4
    sure
  • Pixie·ŸŸMzAwesome♠ƤĦĂĔŢ♠
    +3
    Already have been to one. When I was 13 it wasn't legal but it was still a wedding. I would go to gay wedddings most my friends are gay
  • Willski 2012/06/24 16:07:19 (edited)
    Willski
    i wouldn't not go out of an opposition to homosexuality, but out of an extreme dislike of crowds, large groups of people and public displays of emotion or affection.
  • Sister Jean 2012/06/24 16:06:27
  • DeborahLakeHelen 2012/06/24 16:02:15
    DeborahLakeHelen
    +3
    No way. I don't support the "legal union" between homosexuals and lesbians. I think it's an absolute disgrace to the sanctity of marriage. I also believe it's a disgusting atrocity to expose children to this, and to encourage them to accept this despicable practice.
  • Aly Hart Deborah... 2012/06/24 17:07:42
    Aly Hart
    +3
    Oh yeah, just look how miserable these kids are:

    yeah miserable kids

    We should make way for SHINING characters like these:
    yeah miserable kids shining characters
    2 months..

    yeah miserable kids shining characters 2
    55 hours.
    yeah miserable kids shining characters 2 55
    9 days.
    yeah miserable kids shining characters 2 55 9 days
    18 days

    miserable kids shining characters 2 55 9 days 18 days

    miserable kids shining characters 2 55 9 days 18 days

    Mmmhmm.
  • Deborah... Aly Hart 2012/06/24 20:36:46
    DeborahLakeHelen
    Those Hollywood satanists might be heros to you, but they aren't to me. THIS is a family. SEE? Mom, Dad, kids. Not Dan and Stan and Renee and Shanay.

    family
  • Aly Hart Deborah... 2012/06/25 02:37:56 (edited)
    Aly Hart
    Cool, except that's only a stock photo.And one of those isn't even really a famous person, it's a politician who cheated on his wife.You really think a stock photo is a good representation of every single hetero family out there? A gay or lesbian couple raising kids in a loving environment > a deadbeat dad and/or alcholic abusing his wife and kids.
  • Deborah... Aly Hart 2012/06/26 00:18:53
    DeborahLakeHelen
    It's a representation of a FAMILY, not of some twisted Hollywood freaks, or some twisted homosexual couple holding a baby between them.
  • Herbtheman Deborah... 2012/06/25 01:27:50
    Herbtheman
    +1
    you are dead on im with you.
  • Deborah... Herbtheman 2012/06/25 01:41:03
    DeborahLakeHelen
    +1
    Thanks!
  • Yosyp 2012/06/24 16:01:54
    Yosyp
    +1
    I would attend
  • KarenInKenoshaWisconsin 2012/06/24 16:01:40
    KarenInKenoshaWisconsin
    +2
    I've trained myself to pay strict attention to words spoken, choices made and behavioral patterns and what they do and don't mean or indicate about a person. This tells me "who" a person is more than their sexual or other "identity." My religion focuses on ethics and virtues (right words, right actions), but has no scriptural prohibitions regarding homosexuality but does prohibit abuse (including prejudice).

    Yes, I'd go to a gay wedding, if invited. No, I wouldn't have to explain it away to my grown children. They were brought up right.

    Hate is not a family value. Prejudice doesn't make a good axis of morality or anything else (other than abusive paradigms).
  • Nadrasta 2012/06/24 16:00:49
  • FrancheskahMae:) 2012/06/24 16:00:47
    FrancheskahMae:)
    +1
    I would go ^-^
  • Booッ 2012/06/24 15:58:43
    Booッ
    +1
    I would! It would be really cute!
  • 1wickedwitch 2012/06/24 15:57:45
    1wickedwitch
    +3
    I would love to go ..and I`m the kid ..people need to let go of all the B.S and let people love and live for them selfs Not for a bunch of up tight Bigots
  • ☼ Supersonic Jocy 2012/06/24 15:55:45
    ☼ Supersonic Jocy
    I would go only if I'm really close friends with that person of if it's a family member. Otherwise, no.
  • alex 2012/06/24 15:55:44
    alex
    +1
    Of course, no question.
  • ☣Master Gothika☣ ™ 2012/06/24 15:55:02
    ☣Master Gothika☣ ™
    +1
    Why not?...free food.
  • tommyg - POTL- PWCM-JLA 2012/06/24 15:53:59
    tommyg - POTL- PWCM-JLA
    +4
    Yes, I've been. My wife's cousin. It was a party!

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