Would you allow your homosexual son to bring guys over to have anal sex with in your home?

if i had a son i wld have no probelm wth him being gay and having guys over its just i wldnt want him engaging in sex wth anyone while he lives at home

I wouldn't allow him to have sex in my house even with the damn cat. Get a room.

wouldnt let him if it was a girl either though

When they get married we could talk about it. :-)

I was expecting nothing but homophobic comment with the "not under my roof" one but i find it hilarious parents are saying anywhere but at home....
i think thats the worst advice to say to a teenager who might be sexually active,have sex anywhere but in the house...
I am laughing at some of the responses there so lawls worthy....i can admit i secretly had sex in my mothers house..i do think parents should say use protection & so the kids know to be safe thou....

anal es nasty

This has nothing to do with homosexuality. If I had a son that wanted to have sex, AT ALL, it wouldn't be under my roof.

No thanks, nothing that abnormal in my home.

I don't care who they're having sex with just as long as it's not in my home....nothing but trouble ever comes of it. Old enough to have sex then rent a room, backseat of your car, just not my house.

I would support a gay son with all of my heart, but idk if I would want to listen to that kind of stuff happening. It would be very awkward especially if I get turned on I'd just be like okay MAJORLY AWKWARD O_O

If I had a son I'd allow it. Homosexuality is fine with me. I have no problem with gay people, probably because I'm also gay and I know what they go through. Discriminative people /: Support them, don't bring them down.

The same if I had a daughter. I dont care if your gay or straight, the only one having sex in MY house is my wife and I

He could do whatever he wants

I wouldn't even allow my heterosexual son to bring girls home to have vaginal or anal sex, or whatever. Even in his 18+ years, I'm still saying 'No'. When he moves out, he can bang whoever he wants, wherever he want to.

i was supposed to click on the *not under my roof* opinion , and it wouldn't be bacuse of being gay or anything , it's because i just wouldn't condone any of my children to have sex in my home unless they were in a steady long term relationship, and i couldn't hear LOL

if hes of a reasonable age i might discorage the sex part but i fully support homosexuality

None of my children will be having sex under my roof no matter thier sexual orientation! If you want they want to have sex find a bathroom stall, a backseaat of a car, a spot in the woods to do it in because it's not happening under my roof. Also they aren't going to be allowed to have anyone in their rooms with the door shut period because as long as they are under my roof their privacy is limited because I as thier mom need to know what's going on in my house especially when they have someone over. Also no one that they are dating or any friend of the opposite sex is permitted to stay overnight and in the case of a bi/gay child no friends of any kind are permitted to stay overnight.

if you did have a bi or gay child they would be really misserable you really should have more trust than that i understand no opposite sex friends and no gfs/bfs but noone at all? no offense intended

I never stated how I feel about THEM (no matter their sexual orientation) staying at OTHER people's houses though so let me state that. I also never said they couldn't have friends over either. They could have opposite sex friends over or who they want (as long as they behave in a civilized manner and obey the house rules while thier at our house) but who is allowed to stay overnight is something I'd be alot more strict on (as I stated previously). I'd never let them stay over at an opposite sex friends house or anyone that they are dating and that's it. So I'd let (if I had a gay or bi child) stay at a same sex friend's house as long as they weren't dating. See I'm a little less strict about other people's houses then my own because as parents my husband and I are compleately responsible for knowing what is going on in our house and I'd rather avoid as many possible problems as possible when the have friends over with my kids.

Also in the situation of my kids being straight but have gay/bi/trans friends would I let them I let those friends stay overnight? Yes I would as long as they aren't the opposite sex or they aren't dating.

Yeah, let them do it in public where they can get caught.

Look in the case of a straight, non trans child I'm not going to approve of my kids having sex under my roof because one of the parties could get pregnant (even with the use of protection or birth control) or get an STD (even when using protection). In the case of a gay/lesbian child there is the risk of STDs even with the use of protection. The case of a bisexual child I will not condone it because their is the possiblity of pregnancy (if they have sex with a natal member of the opposite gender) or getting an STD (no matter who they have sex with). With a transgender child there is the risk of someone hurting them because they aren't the man/woman that they appear to be/are living as, pregnancy (if they are have sex with the gender they are living as & the hormone therapy haven't sterilized them 2 impregnate someone else/become pregnant themselves), or STDs (no matter who they have sex with). So I won't approve of any of my children having sex under my roof. What they do out of it I have limited say over.

True if they are still in high school and/or under the age of 18. However here's something to consider, what they do under my roof I (and my husband) is 100% my responsibility and 100% under my control whereas what happens outside our house we're responsible for (if they are still in high school and/or under 18 years of age) but we don't have the same amount of control over what they do outside of it because not everyone has the same values we do and we can't stop everything from happening out there.

no, though i don't have anything against homosexuality, i wouldn't want to know that my kid was having sex

if i ever wanted to adopt ad the kid turned out to be gay then i would make sure he used condoms when doing so, i am gay so i would have to adopt so thats why i put that part in there

It would depend on his age of course.

However...I dont have a sick puppy as a son....moot question for me...bark

I dont have a son but if I did yes I would let him have sex with another guy

I don't have a son, but I'd respect his choices.. any teenage couple would sneakily do it under their parents roof, what's the difference?

But, this also depends on a few things. How old is my son? How old is his boyfriend? How long have they been going out? Do I think they are mature enough to handle such a step in their relationship?

Oh God No, I'm not a homophobe but that's just not right like how would you feel if you heard your son in the other room calling another boys name. Like just picture that for a moment, picture your in your own room and out of nowhere you hear your son scream out "OH DANIEL!!!". How would you feel? I just wouldn't be able to do it. I don't know if I'm that strong as a theoretical mother.

Gay or straight, I say use the backseat or the woods or the cemetery like I did when I lived "at home"!

the cemetary?????

LoL... yeah, it was a memorial garden. People were buried there but there weren't any tombstones. A road ran thru the entire place. As teenagers we'd park towards the back. It was one of the few quiet places you could go and know if another car around (of specific interest, police cars).

wow thats slightly creepy....but i also beleive in ghosts so yeah

Yeah, I can't argue w/the fact it's a tad on the creepy side. I think the complete lack of tombstones and the garden/park type appearance allowed you to ignore the "people are interred here" aspect. Also, teenage hormones are mighty powerful at overcoming alot of good judgement! LoL