Would u ever date ur ex that u fell in love with friend?

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NO DON'T !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

may i ask y

Don't ever date a friend ... it will come back to bite you.That was always a rule for me don't ever date a friends ex or a friend of an ex.

The guy n girl code? n ik but still shouldnt my happiness matter

Follow your heart

Thanks I will try

... wait whats the qustion ?

basically would u date ur exs best friend

Well I have befor with out knowing ... Its not really that bad , he told me he had premision

so its nt bad just nt good without premission?

i guess its not on me

Lol tht dnt help

srry

its all good :)

Love knows no boundaries. Done with one and take up with another that is a friend of the ex should not matter. However, getting together may prove a bit of an issue unless you talk it over first. Generally it is the ex's issue and not yours or the new one's.

The ex kinda has decided that he can date but i shouldn't n his friend hates seeing me hurt n says he wishes that he could make it so I was never hurt but he knows the ex will interfere n normally he hits my mailbox when he is interfering or getting himself hurt

Sounds like the ex has some MAJOR ISSUES that need working out. If you are no longer in a relationship, why can't YOU date? Good for the gander, but not the goose? WRONG! No interference should be done by him. If there is, then cancel the friendship. Sounds as if he still may have feelings for you and is trying to control your life when he really no longer has the right to say anything about what or whom you are doing. Ask if he is jealous. 'Green eyed monster' does not belong in a relationship.

He use to get jealous a lot and yea Ik but he made me happy n now he is seeing someone so I guess that he has feelings but doesnt know how to deal with them n he kept all the pictures of me n all the stuff I gave him

BOTH of you need to accept it is over and move on. You can still maintain a friendship, but at a distance. Neither have the right to interfere in each other's lives. As for the momentos? Not a problem. I still have pictures and small gifts from many past relationships. It was part of your life at one point and those who, in the future, demand you get rid of them do not truly accept you and your feelings. Good luck!

Thanks and Is it weird I think it means something that he kept them when He knows I didn't keep anything because it hurt to much to keep them knowing he wasn't mine... I guess I don't want to accept it is fully over bcuz we loved each other once n he still occasionally says he loves me but we have a friendship n a funny good one but its just like things r unfinished

So true and thats what I thought but not alot of people think that way

Unfortunately, I have to agree they do, but experience tells me this happens in immature relationships that have no TRUST within it. Trust is never implicitly given, but is earned as the relationship moves forward. Many need to accept that fact that a good relationship is a partnership shared between 2 people. 50/50 on all aspects or someone will feel left out and disrespected leading to a lack of trust and a breakdown of the relationship. Communication, no matter how difficult, is key to maintaining a good relationship. If ya can't talk to one another, ya may as well hang it up and move on. Just something I have seen, learned and experienced in my 51 yrs. Hope the lesson can help someone else.