While I disagree with the sexual nature of a lot of the processions at pride parades - as they strongly promote the belief that homosexual relationships are all about sex rather than about romantic love and attraction - a parade, any parade, is about SPECTACLE. When you're trying to visually convey - and in an exciting, quick-to-grasp manner - the idea of acceptance of homosexuality, bisexuality, and transexualism not a lot comes to my mind OTHER than blatant displays of a sexual nature. I still think it's perpetrating the wrong image however.
Pride parades are not very sexual, and your posting makes me think you have never been to one. I march every year in Chicago's Pride Parade with the Illinois State Bar Association. I have never seen anything sexual taking place at the parade.
As a bisexual, this is the reason I don't go to these parades. It achieves the opposite reaction that we want from many heterosexuals who already have this idea of what we're like and events like these just reinforce those conceptions.
Hey, Pixie... what in the world are you talking about? Have you EVER read or heard me "bitch" about this topic. All I wrote was an honest question and you're jumping down my thoat like a wild pig getting his balls chopped off.
Smokey I see all the time maybe not you, but someone saying. Where is our straight pride parade. And if you want one start one. No one is stopping you. Get the permits the sponsors and start one.
So, if you're married, did you choose to marry your wife for financial benefits, rather than just 'live together forever'? What makes most straight people decide to marry as opposed to live indefinitely in a defacto relationship? I can't discern any ulterior motive for marriage that is exclusive to heterosexuals. Please enlighten me.
We lived together for 15 years, and got married because my employer said I could not take advantage of a employee benefit (that gays could take advantage of WITHOUT being married) unless I could produce a marriage license.
I'm sure if homosexual marriage was legal in the state you worked in that would be reflected in your workplace's policy. You didn't make it clear exactly but I imagine that this benefit was available to gay people who could prove they were in a defacto relationship - or perhaps had a civil partnership, if that exists there -, not just any old single gay person, surely.
It isn't fair that a straight employee is required to show a marriage certificate to receive whatever benefit when a gay employee isn't - but when the gay employee can't possibly provide a marriage certificate the only alternative to this situation is to deny all gay employees, regardless of their relationship status, that benefit whilst still providing it to straight, married employees. I don't think that would be fair, either. Now, if gay people could marry in your state that would remedy the situation.
...They want you to taste what they taste. Hence, the reason they have the need to shove 'it' down everyone's throat. But mostly because they have zero respect for the rest of humanity as well as themselves.
Iv never watched one, ive always just seen pictures. And I as a person have never taken ANYONES rights away...assumptions...Gay people have just as many rights as a straight person.
I'm not saying that, i'm saying that everything about gay parades are centered around sex, sexual things. I'm asking why? Why can't it just be a bunch of guys or girls holding hands share a kiss or two? That is showing pride, not laying all the things you do in the bedroom on public streets, children could be watching for God's sake.
Children may not be offended, but they will forever have penis's, vagina's guys and girls rubbing on each other ingrained in their mind. Even if it was a straight pride event with the crap gay pride parades do I would bar my child from watching. Your profile says your a proud parent, hmm makes me wonder how much you look out for your childs psycological well being.
How dare they see public displays of affection! We don't watch gay parades like you.... but my kids would probably act more responsible than you would in the situation.
Public display of affection is not bad. But there is a limit on how much you can show. I have never watched one so stop twisting words. And sure they would...
Having a bad day?
Smokey
And the "marriage" thing? That all boils down to money. If it was just "love", they could just live together forever.
Imagine that, bias against straight people.
It isn't fair that a straight employee is required to show a marriage certificate to receive whatever benefit when a gay employee isn't - but when the gay employee can't possibly provide a marriage certificate the only alternative to this situation is to deny all gay employees, regardless of their relationship status, that benefit whilst still providing it to straight, married employees. I don't think that would be fair, either. Now, if gay people could marry in your state that would remedy the situation.
Why do you watch gay parades?
We don't watch gay parades like you.... but my kids would probably act more responsible than you would in the situation.