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  • Resp 2012/11/19 21:14:45
    Asking to split the check
    Resp
    "I forgot my wallet."
  • heartsonfire 2012/11/19 21:12:48
    Showing up late
    heartsonfire
    None of these actually. My biggest dealbreaker is being rude and obnoxious.
  • wow-really 2012/11/19 20:23:40
    Monopolizing the conversation
    wow-really
    Sloppy, or aggressive drunks are not attractive, at all. But happy go lucky, tipsy ones aren't so bad.. LOL!
    Tardiness is never attractive... But even more unattractive is a person so filled with themselves the only words that came out of his mouth the entire coversation is, "ME, Myself, and I",
    I'd have to be the one to get drunk, if I had no other alternative means of escape. LOL!
    Another deal breaker, belching & farting, loudly, with a schmuck grin on his face, and wanting to fist bump afterwards...LMAO
    And the other most obnoxiuos intolerable first date behavior, is the creepy guy, who very obviously, and creepily, ogles every single woman that walks by, while also managing to constantly check his phone...The only thing worse is if you had a date with all these behaviors at once. ROTFLMAO!!
  • Tattoo Nana 2012/11/19 19:44:42
    Showing up late
    Tattoo Nana
    Being late wouldn't send a good message, if you don't care enough to be on time, it may well indicate you won't care much about other things in the relationship. I also think that talking of long term issues, such as marriage or having kids - WITH the person you are on the date with is a definite turn-off.
  • tredzwater 2012/11/19 18:56:22
    Getting drunk
    tredzwater
    And boring me...
  • Sarah Alexander 2012/11/19 16:50:09
    Getting drunk
    Sarah Alexander
    +1
    Monopolizing the conversation is another big one. If they show up late and don't apologize, that's an issue and if they don't call/text to tell you they're running late. Splitting the check is fine to ask, I go in expecting that.
  • top-shot 2012/11/19 12:56:23
    Asking to split the check
    top-shot
    +1
    i always pay the whole check for my chicks
  • Margaret Jacobson 2012/11/19 09:56:55
    Getting drunk
    Margaret Jacobson
    +1
    Any of the above , I don't really mind splitting the check occasionally !!
  • Cunning Stunts 2012/11/19 08:34:34
    Asking to split the check
    Cunning Stunts
    No sex.

  • Noor 2012/11/19 07:12:56
    Getting drunk
    Noor
    +1
    All of the above.

    Drooling (slobbering) is another.

    Bad language is another.

    Splitting the tab is not a deal breaker but then it is not great either.
  • MrSexyPants 2012/11/19 05:12:39
    Monopolizing the conversation
    MrSexyPants
    get drunk, that just means u have a low tolerance and ur prolly a cheap date, cool. show up late, depends on HOW late, but i'm late everywhere so, it's cool. asking to split the check, i allready expected to split it in the 1st place. but if u monopolize the conversation, that basically means all you care about is you, so why am i even here?
  • chrystal97 2012/11/19 03:49:47
    Getting drunk
    chrystal97
    +1
    Splitting the check on the first date is actually pretty safe. Getting drunk is not OK and is a guarantee there won't be a second date. Talking all about you is second, but still not as bad a getting wasted.
  • Greenbay 2012/11/19 03:10:35
    Getting drunk
    Greenbay
    +1
    That's a bad sign
  • Pay me 4profile 2012/11/19 02:49:02
    Monopolizing the conversation
    Pay me 4profile
    telling her all about you. let her figure you out and always blame everything on her.
  • Just Jenn for Now 2012/11/19 02:44:37
    Monopolizing the conversation
    Just Jenn for Now
    +2
    Lack of basic manners. I'm not picky, I don't care if your elbows are on the table, but it's simple: if you burp, say excuse me, chew with your mouth closed... simple.
  • Pay me ... Just Je... 2012/11/19 02:51:38
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    the problem with manners is you always cut her of, i then kick in the multiple number one rules books, always respect her fir her mind and ugnoe her body. yes simply indulge with her noticing.
  • Tattoo ... Just Je... 2012/11/19 19:50:34
    Tattoo Nana
    +1
    Thats a really good point about manners. A LOT of people these days don't even know what proper manners consist of. You can learn a lot about a person based on their manners, or lack thereof. I was a single mom, had 4 kids, 2 boys. I made it my mission to teach my son's proper manners when dealing with a woman. They open doors, know how to use and hold silverware and put their napkin in their lap! LOL
  • Just Je... Tattoo ... 2012/11/20 03:25:13
    Just Jenn for Now
    +1
    That's wonderful! Bless your heart for taking on four kids as a single mom for one thing; that's nothing to shrug off.

    And you're absolutely right, the mannerisms of others really does say a lot about themselves. Like I said, I'm not terribly prudent and picky, just don't be a slob and/or selfish prick. I'm not asking anyone to wait on me hand and foot, but some simple courtesy isn't hard.

    Especially on a first date of all things. First impressions are a big deal!
  • Cierra 2012/11/18 22:43:42
    Monopolizing the conversation
    Cierra
    Getting drunk is a good one too. But I just can't stand when I'm trying to have a conversation with someone and they just talk too damn much and won't let me get a single word in. A conversation is supposed to be between two, not just you.

    (For those of you that don't know, this is Tre Melvin and he's hilarious! Look him up)
    tre melvin seek death
  • Nat Turner Cierra 2012/11/19 00:45:28 (edited)
    Nat Turner
    +1
    Is Tre a comedian?
  • Cierra Nat Turner 2012/11/19 04:50:33
    Cierra
    Yes. :) He's a YouTube personality, but he's funny as hell
  • Pay me ... Cierra 2012/11/19 02:52:27
    Pay me 4profile
    +1
    thats just lonlyness
  • Tennessee3501 2012/11/18 22:01:20
    Monopolizing the conversation
    Tennessee3501
    Especially whan you ask her if she has been sleeping with General Patraeus! LOL! Then you tell her to "Come home and meet my wife and 14 children." If she does not run, call Dr. Phil!
  • Pay me ... Tenness... 2012/11/19 02:53:41
    Pay me 4profile
    +1
    just give her declasification speech. ur x girl is watching out side.
  • Jaiheena Star 2012/11/18 19:23:42 (edited)
  • Pay me ... Jaiheen... 2012/11/19 02:55:47
    Pay me 4profile
    dont play ur self get her drunk safe at home, leave her a note on fridge after u help her throw up. "its morning u dont know me, call me if u need breakfast"
  • Tattoo ... Jaiheen... 2012/11/19 19:57:08
    Tattoo Nana
    +1
    One thing about drinking on a first date, especially if both of you drink. It's really easy for the relationship to wind up being based on alcohol. A relationship based on alcohol is destined to fail.
  • Jaiheen... Tattoo ... 2012/11/19 19:59:21
  • JessDeCristo 2012/11/18 18:45:10
    Asking to split the check
    JessDeCristo
    +2
    And saying stupid things.
  • Pay me ... JessDeC... 2012/11/19 02:56:48
    Pay me 4profile
    +1
    hey woyldnt it be better for her to be stupid with u instead of some one else.
  • JessDeC... Pay me ... 2012/11/19 05:30:00
    JessDeCristo
    yeah, then we would be even, je je
  • Pay me ... JessDeC... 2012/11/25 00:37:49
    Pay me 4profile
    ur totally wrong, she give u a iou for the next dinner.......
    to be contine
  • Elizabeth 2012/11/18 18:03:21
    Showing up late
    Elizabeth
    +1
    Just a sign of an irresponsible person. End it there.
  • Pay me ... Elizabeth 2012/11/19 02:57:38
    Pay me 4profile
    +1
    na show up and tell them u were doing last minute reservation and giving her chance to get ready.
  • Elizabeth Pay me ... 2012/12/22 03:33:22
    Elizabeth
    Good one. I'd probably fall for it.
  • Pay me ... Elizabeth 2012/12/22 05:50:14
    Pay me 4profile
    rule 1 of girls
    get her mad cause u respect her mind and use ure peripheral attention to admire her presence.

    kiss keep it short sexy
    respect her mind and ignore her body
    when enter a establisment say my girl out loud!!!
    first liner only work when u are100% new
    girls under age 27 are ladies
    if she poses to much talking, kedp looking at her
    passport is your wallet, password are from getting skitos
  • lamestrider 2012/11/18 17:38:50
    Monopolizing the conversation
    lamestrider
    +1
    Manners, manners, manners. A selfish man isn't a man at all.
  • Pay me ... lamestr... 2012/11/19 02:58:24
    Pay me 4profile
    selfish is pride, calk his bluff, then try not to mess with each other wallet.
  • Hidden Noname 2012/11/18 16:54:25
    Getting drunk
    Hidden Noname
    +1
    All of the above, and more. Anything that shows lack of respect is a deal breaker for me.
  • rebeccasrevenge 2012/11/18 16:36:27
    Getting drunk
    rebeccasrevenge
    +1
    Showing up late ,drunk as a skunk,gets teary eyed and calls the ex-does all the talking,sticks you with the cab fare and now expects you to pay for the entire wedding.

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