at would you do if you found out your best friend, who you have known for four years....and are really close to and are like sisters......is a lesbian....and is in love with you?
Well this has happened to me three times in my life.
You love her , and you care about her so if your intrested in going that route with her
Tell her but if not talk intensely about your relationship with her.
She's your best friend and I think u guys should remain that way.
kind of but im straight and am NOT going down that path .....well...atleast not with her..but she won't give it a rest...she's still trying to get me to like her and go out with her till this very day....and i wanna be friends with her and wouldnt mind it if she's a lesbian but i do mind it if she constantly tries to trick me into going out with her.....
I get your point but the thing is i do love her...just not that way.....i love her as a sister......and shes been my best friend for almost 5 years now.....and she wont stop.....even though i straight up told her no...and i dont want this to end our friendship....
i did try to piut a stop to it...im not a lesbian...im straight AND have a boyfriend...but she wont put a stop to it...no matter how manny times i talk to her...
I had a best friend I loved dearly; like a sister. If I felt that way I'd tell her but I would have to bust her bubble as I personally love the Male body. . . more to the point my husband. Muff diving is NOT in the cards for me!
Well, I'm not a female, so... as a guy, I am open-minded and really wouldn't have a problem with a male friend being in love with me as long as it wasn't an obsession... I have nothing against gay/lesbian folks in any way, shape or form...
Ya don't have to answer my nosey question BUT. . ..how open minded? Would you be the "Do er" or Do ee? I am pretty sure the question in this case is about sexual attraction and loving that way. . so would you let him do you or you do him?? Hey, this is the Smart Ass club and aren't smart asses also nosey??? Just asking?
i experienced this and now she's now moving away....and im gona miss her..but i dont know how to approach her..cuz the last time we talked was when that happened..
It has to be very clear that you don't like her. But you can't just totally shy away from her because she'll get upset and you'll lose a friend. You have to carefully talk it over with her and be honest about it. I've liked a straight guy before and that's what I would have wanted him to do.
tried ...she still tries to get close to me..like....after that happened....i went over for a sleepover at her house...and i made my own bed out of sheets...and she insisted in sleeping with me....and she did even though i told her not to...but god advice though..
Tell her that if she's friends with you only for aforementioned reasons, then you are not friends anymore. If you are a lesbian, too, then give her a chance!
i DID experience this, but it wasnt like she told me....after 3 years of us being best friends someone else told me that she might be a lesbian and that they thought she liked me.....then a couple weeks later...she kissed me...but im not a lesbian, and i have no idea what to do,shes like....in love with me...
ummmm.... I have a feeling that you should ask her if it started being just a regular friendship, but she thought it could be more and took the chance? you should ask her...
You love her , and you care about her so if your intrested in going that route with her
Tell her but if not talk intensely about your relationship with her.
She's your best friend and I think u guys should remain that way.
Not there!
A little lower
Please stop
Oh God
Don't stop and so forth
Tell her that if she's friends with you only for aforementioned reasons, then you are not friends anymore. If you are a lesbian, too, then give her a chance!