Rihanna More Concerned Over Chris Brown Than Herself: Is She Too Forgiving of Him?

I do not condone physical or mental abuse of any kind, however the public is so wrapped up in the Rihanna version that they did'nt hear what she admitted to in another interview, she said she started in on him, she would not stop, she stated she kept at him even when he started to lose it she kept going and going at him. Now i don't feel he should have lost it by beating on her, when she kept going he should have put her out of the car because he saw she wasn't going to stop like he asked repeatedly, advising her to call someone to come and get her, and waited until her ride arrived so she was safe., or she knew what she was about, she should never have went with him, abuse is not something that is displayed in one shot, there are warning signs before the abuser blows up, and truthfully its easier to walk away.What Rihanna did was nothing short of mental abuse, two wrongs does not a right make, however she was in charge of her own safety, it isn't sorrow that she feels but guilt over the fact that she was the one that escalated this incident, and now as a result the effect has snow balled in a completely diffrent direction than she thought it would, 3 years ago this happened, Chris Brown sought the help needed, he's still honoring his court demands, has not had an incident since and people having nothing to do with this are still riding him, that in itsself is mental abuse, this young man has apologized, he did nothing to no one else so he owes no one else anything, I read an article where as the writer was stating he should be grateful that we the public etc.. that young man dosen't owe the public a darn thing, his mistake was not to the public, and the public has taken this too far, one website, places comments that don't ask for his head on a silver platter in a shade of grey so light you can't really see what the author has written, another demands for him to no longer perform, well why not? there are many much older men and women out there who have abused thier spouses and male or female lovers for years while everyone stood by and said oh my thats a shame while giving them a standing ovation to thier latest acheivement, while ignoring thier other side, and its still continuing today., Enough, everyone has the right to be rehabilatated, with people constantly telling him he dosen't have that right, i don't see how he's dealing with it i'm supposing that he still maintains his psycologist which helps him through the pressures., and as far as the Drake fight goes, Chris Brown was sitting at the table with his girlfriend minding his business, so Rihanna can get unhappy thinking Chris Brown's camp was fighting on his behalf for her, it was a PA move on Drakes part and well he knows it and why. Its time to let this young man finish being rehabilatated, and grow from that, all this anger and hate spewed at him, what makes anybody any better when displaying this toward someone you've never met? People make mistakes, none of us are beyond them, some bad some even worse, what betters an individual is if they can be rehabilitated and move on, he has clearly shown a more humbled side., with all due respect, Oprah should have talked to Rihanna about why she turned around and attempted to do the very same to her boyfriend after Chris Brown, and why she's destroying her reputation, what made her do the things she did and allow herself to be photographed in those vacation pictures that were placed online., you see one individual can blamed for so much drama in another's life, after they have left that persons life, the person is left to take responsibility for thier own actions and those actions cannot be excused. The media keeps lying about thier relationship, people keep stupidly buying it and lending credit to it, and some riding on the backs of others don't even understand what's going on. mental abuse is one of the biggest examples of abuse there is, look to the masses for an example of that, its awful when someone is in your ear about something over and over again, thats enough to make anyone lose it, his psycologist is pretty good, because he's holding his own despite the pressures, that are thrown at him daily.they are equally responsible i feel, and should both be in the forgiving process!