Richard Gere Flirts With Married Woman at Hamptons Restaurant: Is It OK to Flirt If You're Married?

by The Big Question Posted 2012/10/09 21:31:38

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Miss Kris 2012/10/09 21:54:19

Yes

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As long as it's harmless. If you're seriously hitting on someone while you're married, that's probably not okay.
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moknowsky 2012/11/23 03:06:48

Yes

Until the husband shows up and gives him a good. Bollocking!

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dani 2012/10/18 11:44:44

No

I don't think I would like it if my husband did that. Some are ok with. I am ok with it as a joke.

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Memnon 2012/10/13 21:10:01

Yes

Flirt does not mean do. Hell I flirt enough and mean no harm by doing so.

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sexyvgirl6969 2012/10/13 20:32:08

Yes

Yes, nothing wrong with flirting.

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Lerro DeHazel 2012/10/11 22:19:54

No

No, it is NEVER OKAY for a Married Man to Flirt . . . With a Single Woman or a Married Woman . . . Women, whether single or hitched can flirt . . . It's understood . . . But no man should flirt with a woman if the man is married; or if the woman that he is flirting with is married. It's wrong.

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ready46xwu 2012/10/11 10:23:49

Yes

I'm not 'married'!
but flirting is an ART~
to be good at it~ U must practice!

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Acacia Slocum 2012/10/11 00:42:21

Yes

As long as it's harmless, and your spouse or you (if your spouse is flirting) are fine with it.

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Andrew 2012/10/11 00:31:11

No

No it's not okay in my view at least.

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JustBeingAtPeace 2012/10/10 22:34:18

Yes

And No..depending on how you and your spouse"s relationship is.

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**StarzAbove** 2012/10/10 21:53:45

No

I wouldn't like my husband flirting with someone.

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Bronar 2012/10/10 14:51:48

Yes

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As long as it's fun and not creepy flirting is ok in my book. There is a fine line in there somewhere.

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Jerry 2012/10/10 13:52:49

Yes

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As long as he doesn't expect the flrtation to go anywhere. With the wild rumors about Rodents and small man parts, let him enjoy flirting. He's earned it.

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Ashley 2012/10/10 12:52:17

Yes

Flirting is fine.

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YourCompanionCube 2012/10/10 10:04:04

No

+1
No, no, no, and Just in case it wasn't clear, /\/○!!! :D

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kylie 2012/10/10 09:38:10

No

i don't think it's Ok... to me the intentions are still there, i'm not a jealous person, and i do trust my partner. but if one loves another as much as they say they do there shouldn't be any need to "feel attractive" to anyone else but that person!.

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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ D. Plexippus Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 2012/10/10 08:22:55

No

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If your married and most of all UGLY...

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Angie 2012/10/10 08:20:25

Yes

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I honestly don't mind if my husband flirts, we aren't a jealous couple and we trust each other. It's harmless. Besides, it's nice to feel attractive to other people after you've been married to the same person for a long time. Flirting with someone else and being flirted with back is very different from cheating. If you are in an honest, faithful relationship and you can trust your spouse, it shouldn't go beyond harmless flirting.

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AM to Angie 2012/10/10 11:00:34

Exactly

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rodrigues.lisa 2012/10/10 07:00:58

Yes

True flirting is flattery and is not cheating. I wonder how people would have reacted if he had been flirting with the husband as well.

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silverrain718 2012/10/10 06:53:48

No

Even though I'm married, Richard Gere can flirt with me any day!!!!

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Keeping It Real 2012/10/10 04:42:19

No

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That's still a form of cheating.

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Chaya2010 2012/10/10 04:41:24

Yes

I don't think there is anything wrong with it although it would depend on the how well I knew the person and the situation. It would certainly be within boundaries and in way not to be disrespectful to my significant other. Again it would depend on the significant other and if there are sensitive. Some woman/men just don't like it.

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spencerific93 2012/10/10 03:57:48

Yes

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That's up to his wife. But hey, he's flirting, not cheating. Nothing wrong with appreciating nature's beauty, even if you are hitched.

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Pam 2012/10/10 03:52:46

Yes

Only if it is okay with the other spouse. Some people are just flirts

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C4TSMILEY 2012/10/10 03:50:57

No

only cause the spouse may take offence, though...

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AM 2012/10/10 03:50:35 (edited)

Yes

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It's about trust.Being married does not include putting blinders on to sexual attraction to the rest of the world. It means yes I acknowledge another's attractiveness enjoy it toy with it but desire only you intimately. Even if a fantasy of another pops in now and then you are still monagamous and loyal to only your loved one .Does that not define any relationship worth a damn?

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Bothergirl 2012/10/10 03:44:34

No

It is never okay to flirt if you are married. It is a form of cheating. Try flirting with your spouse once in a while. Keep the fire burning.

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Moonbeams 2012/10/10 03:37:12

No

+3

Lol

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Tallulah 2012/10/10 03:25:23

Yes

To an extent. Well...maybe...yeah it is I guess.

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McCate 2012/10/10 03:13:20

Yes

There is a very fine line, if very innocent, then yes...But it could lead to dangerous ground, so it is better to keep it very light and if possible avoid it.

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LaiLaiHart 2012/10/10 03:05:36

No

yeah, and its okay to eat cheese if youre lactose intolerant

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rk to LaiLaiHart 2012/10/10 04:54:47

And if we were friends and I saw someone Flirting I would defend you and warn them . If they continued POW! Thanks for keeping it real

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LaiLaiHart to rk 2012/10/14 11:43:52

not a prob :) i would do the same

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rk 2012/10/10 02:44:43

No

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Flirt with my wife and get a warning. Continue and you'll end up unconscious

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Blueskies 2012/10/10 02:39:31

Yes

Women have always been very friendly to me, I always thought that's just the way women
are, and never considered it flirting. Just being friendly.
My wives (I'm widowed) thought VERY differently about these very friendly women and explained to me all the ways women flirt.

OMG ALL Those Missed Opportunities I was too dense to see! lol.

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sweetserinity13 2012/10/10 02:37:45

Yes

I flirt all the time and I love my husband with all my heart and soul. The man I flirt with is married and loves his wife the same. Its harmless because we both know that we have no interest in each other sexually or romantically, I would never do anything to put my relationship with my husband or my family in jeopardy and he feels the same about his wife and family.

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GeminiWolf 2012/10/10 02:35:15

Yes

I have yet to have one guy agree with me on this, which tends to lead to a lot of problems.

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darlenedoskas1969 2012/10/10 02:09:11

Yes

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flirting is not cheating... flirting isn't even trying to cheat, and if your relationship is solid, there should be no worries

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angel face 2012/10/10 02:05:10

Yes

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You can flirt but can't touch. And it has to be that innocent kind of flirting where people laugh and forget about it. That's what I'm talking about

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janice.heartbriggs 2012/10/10 02:02:38

Yes

i think it is ok, or at least i hope so

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