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PUBLIC OPINION > 'The New Normal' Is Not Harmful to Society

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One Million Moms has a bone to pick with NBC's newest sitcom, "The New Normal." The show depicts a single mother who agrees to be a surrogate parent for a gay couple, but OMM is calling it "harmful to our society" and "damaging to our culture." OMM has been known to take issue with things that promote homosexuality as "normal," such as a lesbian kiss found in an Urban Outfitters catalog earlier this year. But is "The New Normal" really harmful for society? We asked the public.

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One Million Moms are not without their supporters, but "The New Normal" has them out-numbered. Nearly twice as many people agreed the show would not be damaging to our culture. But this particular poll was extremely divided across several different demographics, so before we get into the reasoning behind the results, let's break it down.

Hesitant Men

Some of the demographic responses were predictable, and to some extent we could expect male voters to be more resilient to the show. Typically, the male vote is more hesitant when it comes to promoting homosexuality. However, they were especially resistant to this one. They were more than twice as likely as women to think "The New Normal" is harmful to society.

Kids Don't Care

The age breakdown was a little bit more predictable, but even here the proportions were surprising. The difference between the oldest age group (65+) and the youngest age group (13-17) was more than 60%, and its support dropped off pretty consistently throughout. That seems to lend credibility to the show's title -- it is becoming more "normal."

Modern Families

One of the more interesting juxtapositions wasn't even within a single category. Given the age breakdown, it was obvious that single voters would respond to the show more positively than married voters; likewise, voters without kids responded more positively than parents. However, there was a notable difference between parents and married voters. Parents actually responded more positively to the TV show by about 12%.

If you'd like to vote on this question, dig deeper into the demographics, or engage in existing discussion about the topic, visit our poll about "The New Normal." We'd love to hear from you!
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  • iamco2000 Crische 2012/08/10 21:23:04
    iamco2000
    uh....have you ever heard the expression "Look to the source"? Just because something may qualify as information does not mean it qualifies as GOOD information or ACCURATE information.

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
  • bleep 2012/07/26 05:44:34
  • Crische bleep 2012/07/26 15:25:56
  • Of Thee... Crische 2012/08/01 00:53:01
    Of Thee I Sing...
    I think you're right........you may be an animal.
  • Crische Of Thee... 2012/08/05 20:42:49
    Crische
    I am a life form. Whatever you call it makes no difference, I exist, and am happy to be part of such a POTENTIALLY wonderful world. It is far more exciting and glorious than most organized societies would have you believe. A product of light and atoms.
  • Of Thee... Crische 2012/08/05 22:58:32
    Of Thee I Sing...
    perhaps a genetic misfire then...they have atoms, light etc...??
  • Gahnzo bleep 2012/07/26 18:55:11
    Gahnzo
    +1
    NO the next "normal" will be Pedophiles and their demand for the rights same as GBLT folks. They will say they are "born that way" and that to not accept them is discriminatory. And don't say it can't happen. Talk all you want and say that it's wrong, but you hear the GBLT crowd saying that society needs to be tolerant of GBLT kids...and that's ok... so what would make it not ok for a kid to have a relationship with an adult.. Just saying keep your eyes open people, that one is the next thing down the pipe.. I think it's way way wrong, but the handwriting is on the wall and I can see it starting in the next couple years... if in doubt, google what the Swedes are proposing on the subject....
  • Random Gahnzo 2012/07/27 04:33:37 (edited)
    Random
    +1
    That would never happen (with or without gay rights.) Our offspring is helpless, as a tribal/social species, it is often in our nature to protect children from harm. We know from all the studies on brain development that sexual, physical, emotional, verbal abuse and/or neglect often cause numerous side affects, regardless of a child's intellect. These include but are not limited to, impaired sexual development, impaired memory, inability to focus, inability to trust and oddly enough, can even impact their ability to solve maths problems.
    Sure, the pedophiles will use gay rights as a tactic, but that's because they are opportunistic. And they will always try to find some loophole, any loophole, to legitimize their sexual orientation, but unless everyone starts to consider children as little more than a resource (like in Victorian England), I don't see that happening.
    As a survivor myself, I am sick of people using me as a weapon against gay rights, I find it insulting and downright ignorant to suggest such a correlation.
  • LunarRain 2012/07/26 05:38:55
    LunarRain
    +1
    I think it will help people be more accepting of new ideas and don't see how it can make things worse, an open mind is what people should aim for.
  • MorbidC... LunarRain 2012/07/26 14:42:17
    MorbidCynic
    But there should be limits.
  • LucidLoon MorbidC... 2012/07/26 15:07:20
    LucidLoon
    +1
    True. If something is actually harmful. Which homosexuality is not.
  • iamco2000 LucidLoon 2012/08/06 16:30:54
    iamco2000
    That's a woefully inaccurate statement of personal perspective. Every sin is harmful and requiring of repentance...homosexuality is not any different than any other sin in that respect.

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
  • ZB iamco2000 2012/08/13 20:53:29
    ZB
    I'll ask...Is homosexuality harmful to YOU personally? If not, don't worry about it.
  • iamco2000 ZB 2012/08/13 20:56:38
    iamco2000
    I rarely answer a question with a question, but it's warranted here....Is Murder harmful to you personally? How about rape? Or Pedophilia? How about drunk driving?

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
  • ZB iamco2000 2012/08/13 21:05:49
    ZB
    Everything you listed directly affects another, non-consenting person. Homosexuality does not. Bad examples. Is a gay man moving into my area gonna make me or my kids gay? No
  • iamco2000 ZB 2012/08/13 21:22:51 (edited)
    iamco2000
    You didn't answer the exact question you are expecting me to answer, you changed the focus in attempt to fit within the confines of your initial question...how do they effect YOU personally?

    If you can't be asked to answer the question I'll help you out.....Murder, Drunk Driving, Rape, Pedophilia, etc may not directly effect you but we can all agree they aren't good for society either....it always comes back to moral standards, what is moral and what is not. A great article from a favorite site of mine wraps it up like this...

    "When we look at the question again, we can see an implied moral standard; namely, that morality is determined by how people are personally affected. But something is not right or wrong merely because of the effect an action might have on someone. Something is right or wrong because there is an inherent nature to moral truths."

    ...who then wraps up with this, "As history too often demonstrates, when a society's morality frays the wicked prosper and they soon turn their attention to the morally conservative and persecute them." Sound familiar? This is what is occurring right now in America.

    Grace to you, Glory to God!

    *Edited to add reference* http://carm.org/homosexual-ma...
  • ZB iamco2000 2012/08/14 01:56:14
    ZB
    Like so many Christians I know, you avoided answering the question by shifting it around to suit you. My question was very plain and you turn it into a much larger issue. I didn't ask how it affect society or if it was moral or ethical or whatever. I asked if it was harmful to YOU Personally, not society as a whole. Try answering the question instead of changing it around. The basic response to this should be "No". Unless you have been raped by a gay person.
  • iamco2000 ZB 2012/08/14 16:35:52
    iamco2000
    You completely ignored my retort because it's an inconvenient truth to your argument. My responses to you do not have to fit inside the box you keep trying to force me into...Society does not opperate (nor do morals) on an individual basis and to make the presupposition that they can is dilusional and false!

    The problem with those who make the argument or assessment that homosexuality doesn't effect an individual person is as oversimplifying as it gets. Did our forefathers make laws (constitutional laws at that) because they only "affected THEM personally",? The answer of course is no!

    It affects me as an individual person who belongs to the collective whole of society and who gets to suffer or receive reward in the direction society goes....society changes directions based on what is permitted to occur and what is not. Homosexuality is a sin, it's an abomination of the flesh, has absolutely nothing to do with civil rights (or any other for that matter) and has already (and continues to) cause a knock-on effect in the downward spiral of society. It directly affects me as it directly affects all aspects of our culture and our society to which I am inseparably a member.

    It also affects me on a personal level when I have childeren who will start asking questions about what is...

    You completely ignored my retort because it's an inconvenient truth to your argument. My responses to you do not have to fit inside the box you keep trying to force me into...Society does not opperate (nor do morals) on an individual basis and to make the presupposition that they can is dilusional and false!

    The problem with those who make the argument or assessment that homosexuality doesn't effect an individual person is as oversimplifying as it gets. Did our forefathers make laws (constitutional laws at that) because they only "affected THEM personally",? The answer of course is no!

    It affects me as an individual person who belongs to the collective whole of society and who gets to suffer or receive reward in the direction society goes....society changes directions based on what is permitted to occur and what is not. Homosexuality is a sin, it's an abomination of the flesh, has absolutely nothing to do with civil rights (or any other for that matter) and has already (and continues to) cause a knock-on effect in the downward spiral of society. It directly affects me as it directly affects all aspects of our culture and our society to which I am inseparably a member.

    It also affects me on a personal level when I have childeren who will start asking questions about what is normal and what is not, why certain people are certain ways and when personal choices are right or wrong. This issue is inexorably a part of our destructive media, our public education system, music, sports, gyms, politics and virtually every aspect of our publically visible culture now...teaching my childeren to have morally correct values is complicated when this kind of sin is in your face where and whenever you go.

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
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  • LunarRain MorbidC... 2012/07/26 17:35:42
    LunarRain
    Well ya in a way not like maybe not have vulgar things or make it to much of an adult show, that always turns me away from a show that could be good.
  • Gahnzo LunarRain 2012/07/26 18:55:42
    Gahnzo
    See my post above... it's a new idea.. is that acceptable to you?
  • LunarRain Gahnzo 2012/07/26 19:41:25
    LunarRain
    +1
    Well I don't see the kids wanting to be with pedophiles and most pedophiles trick kids into things scince they have knowledge way beyond the kids and can trick easily. I don't see how GBLT are tricking people and doing unwanted things to another person. So no I do not find it acceptable because it is unwanted by one person in the "relationship".
  • shaltov72 2012/07/26 05:16:18
    shaltov72
    +2
    Anytime immoral activity is introduced it causes confusion and there is no base as to what normal is, this devalues marriage between a man and a woman. The government did not create life, it did not create marriage it is what GOD wanted to bless people and nations.
  • zeldama... shaltov72 2012/07/26 08:32:07
    zeldamaster17
    +2
    You're imaginary friend doesn't tell anyone what to do, especially not people who don't follow that ridiculous collection of fairy tales called the bible. The Grimm Brothers' stories were more credible than that.
  • Of Thee... zeldama... 2012/07/26 21:05:25
    Of Thee I Sing...
    spoken like a true LOG
  • zeldama... Of Thee... 2012/07/26 21:09:07
    zeldamaster17
    Log?
  • Of Thee... zeldama... 2012/07/26 21:19:23
    Of Thee I Sing...
    +1
    you're just another LOG on the fire in Hell.........
  • zeldama... Of Thee... 2012/07/26 21:23:22
    zeldamaster17
    +1
    Ah, I see, I'd rather suffer than be a mindless sheep. Besides, the chances of you being right are...astronomical.
  • iamco2000 zeldama... 2012/08/06 16:36:57
    iamco2000
    Don't you understand that by choosing a prideful and sinful path that you already ARE a mindless sheep...you have absolutely no base for your ridiculous claims against the Bible (which you clearly don't understand in the first place) and Satan is content having you be his little puppet. The irony to your argument is that actually you are both and you don't even realize it...not only will you suffer but you are also Satan's (and clearly) mindless sheep.

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
  • zeldama... iamco2000 2012/08/06 16:43:34
  • iamco2000 zeldama... 2012/09/01 12:54:40
    iamco2000
    "But the bible is set up so you will sin" Wrong, the Bible is historically and factually accurate and has been confirmed so thousands of times (as I've outlined to you previously). It has not been "set up", but what HAS been set-up is salvation. Things are not painful or wrong because they are a sin, they are a sin because they are wrong and painful.

    God knew before he created us that we would sin, that we would rebel that we would reject him, his authority and even (as you have so proficiently demonstrated) his word. But.....he offers us a way to free ourselves from that cycle for both today and for eternity.

    " I lead a nice person's life" Tell me, how do you come to understand what a " nice person's life" translates to. As I've said before in example, I'm sure that every Nazi soldier was convinced he was just being a "good" (or, nice, to use your term) soldier. The long and short of it is that being "nice" doesn't take into account the fallible and erroneous ways of our lives, the choices we make. God will not permit anyone to enter heaven regardless of how "nice" they are if they reject Christ, God, the Holy Spirit or the word of God.

    "according to you I will finish last, no matter what" That is not what I've said, I want nothing more than for you to accept Christ! T...







    "But the bible is set up so you will sin" Wrong, the Bible is historically and factually accurate and has been confirmed so thousands of times (as I've outlined to you previously). It has not been "set up", but what HAS been set-up is salvation. Things are not painful or wrong because they are a sin, they are a sin because they are wrong and painful.

    God knew before he created us that we would sin, that we would rebel that we would reject him, his authority and even (as you have so proficiently demonstrated) his word. But.....he offers us a way to free ourselves from that cycle for both today and for eternity.

    " I lead a nice person's life" Tell me, how do you come to understand what a " nice person's life" translates to. As I've said before in example, I'm sure that every Nazi soldier was convinced he was just being a "good" (or, nice, to use your term) soldier. The long and short of it is that being "nice" doesn't take into account the fallible and erroneous ways of our lives, the choices we make. God will not permit anyone to enter heaven regardless of how "nice" they are if they reject Christ, God, the Holy Spirit or the word of God.

    "according to you I will finish last, no matter what" That is not what I've said, I want nothing more than for you to accept Christ! That is the only way to eternal salvation and is the only way to "come in first".

    "because I wouldn't be able to take other people suffering" Listen to this, when Jesus returns there will be no more suffering. There will be no pity, there will be no war, there will be no hate or hurt....in fact, Jesus can offer you that peace RIGHT NOW! The only way to ensure that anyone you know who is suffering can be freed of their burdens is to bring Christ in their life! Jesus has the power to end all suffering only for the price of a simple prayer to accept him into your heart, that's it!

    "Pain I can deal with, guilt is much more difficult to deal with." God permits us to experience pain to teach us (think about it, how many lessons have you learned in your life through pleasure? How many of those do you remember? How about pain?) God is so large and his love so great that there are literally no sins a man can commit that are unforgivable because of the sacrifice of Jesus (barring only the exception of rejection of that freely offered salvation).

    Eph 3:17-19 explains "That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God."

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
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  • zeldama... iamco2000 2012/09/01 15:03:34
    zeldamaster17
    By pain I meant your hell. No, it hasn't been proven factually accurate. The hell are you smoking? Even if your VENGEFUL god is real, I would never respect him. Sorry, just tellin ya how it is. A cruel god deserves no respect. How do I determine what is nice and what is not? The wiccan crede. I've adopted it as my life motto. Do whatcha want as long as it doesn't harm anyone.
  • iamco2000 zeldama... 2012/09/01 19:56:30
    iamco2000
    Sorry brother, you got it wrong. God is not vengeful because he wants to be, he is vengeful because he HAS to be AND he is only vengeful to those who reject him...hell isn't the pitchforked little red man that pop-culture makes it out to be, it is literally a consciously aware state of eternal separation from God with no chance of redemption!

    "A cruel god deserves no respect." God is entirely love, not cruelty, it is not cruel to punish children who reject the authority of their parents and assert their own will over their parents even though they've been warned not to and it is only out of love that same said parents scold, reprimand and take corrective measures to instruct their child...God works in exactly the same way!

    "The wiccan crede" Good Lord, the ol' "do no harm" shtick...active passivity exposes you needlessly to a spiritual war that has plagued this earth since it's creation, it also only serves as an enablement and a trap for you to effectively bow out of having to take an active participant role in your own life. This "new-age" "anything goes" is a lie from the pits of hell that only desires to keep your soul eternally in the hands of Satan, who of course wants you to revel in complete disregard for God. So to goes the way for anything else "wicca", a deificat...



    Sorry brother, you got it wrong. God is not vengeful because he wants to be, he is vengeful because he HAS to be AND he is only vengeful to those who reject him...hell isn't the pitchforked little red man that pop-culture makes it out to be, it is literally a consciously aware state of eternal separation from God with no chance of redemption!

    "A cruel god deserves no respect." God is entirely love, not cruelty, it is not cruel to punish children who reject the authority of their parents and assert their own will over their parents even though they've been warned not to and it is only out of love that same said parents scold, reprimand and take corrective measures to instruct their child...God works in exactly the same way!

    "The wiccan crede" Good Lord, the ol' "do no harm" shtick...active passivity exposes you needlessly to a spiritual war that has plagued this earth since it's creation, it also only serves as an enablement and a trap for you to effectively bow out of having to take an active participant role in your own life. This "new-age" "anything goes" is a lie from the pits of hell that only desires to keep your soul eternally in the hands of Satan, who of course wants you to revel in complete disregard for God. So to goes the way for anything else "wicca", a deification and worship of nature, worship of the creatED instead of the creatOR...the Bible has two terms for this, idolatry and blaspheme.

    When you combine this statement with your other declaration of God being vengeful it says to me that you are aware of the fact that you are clearly operating in contrast to God's will, you clearly know you'll pay for this if you don't change your ways and you are completely out of touch with the fact that God only wants to give you better than you have! It also says to me that you are completely Unaware of the fact that you are a pawn of Satan right this very minute. You have chains on your soul you can't feel and your eternity, whilst changeable, has been foolishly handed to an entity that wants to destroy you!

    Grace to you, Glory to God!
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  • Luna Wren zeldama... 2012/07/27 15:30:06
    Luna Wren
    That made me laugh...
  • zeldama... Luna Wren 2012/07/27 20:38:27
    zeldamaster17
    Okay, glad I could help someone I suppose.
  • addie 2012/07/26 04:51:25
    addie
    +4
    They have their hate flag flying over a show depicting something loving, like a woman, a single mom, being a surrogate so a couple can have a child?

    Who is this OMM? They need to check themselves because people who are angry and judgmental do more harm to society than anything else! Can I get an Amen?
  • Inquisitve Kat 2012/07/26 04:45:32
    Inquisitve Kat
    +4
    OMM is a joke.
  • addie Inquisi... 2012/07/26 04:53:19 (edited)
    addie
    +2
    Is the gay couple married? I wonder if their being married would make this is better or worse for this OMM. lol
  • Inquisi... addie 2012/07/26 06:07:06
    Inquisitve Kat
    +1
    Oh, I'm sure they'd find something wrong with it, either way. ;-)
  • mikeeonly 2012/07/26 04:10:34
    mikeeonly
    +1
    I think kids are too mixed up already
  • LucidLoon mikeeonly 2012/07/26 15:08:15
    LucidLoon
    +1
    Yeah, kids really need to stop being indoctrinated with hate.

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