Pink Says Her Marriage Is 'Never Going to Be Perfect': Can a Marriage Ever Be 'Perfect'?

If you find a perfect guy or girl ...

They both have to try. It takes two to form a relationship

Yes, with the right match.

Not perfect as in "Perfect" but perfect in the eyes of the couple, yes :)

People are not perfect so neither is marriage. If you can stay married it's because you just accept that as a fact.

When the 2 individuals are truly Committed. Give & Take

It depends on your definition of "perfect". If perfect to you means no arguments or issues, then no, that doesn't exist. But if you can strike that balance between loving and respecting each other and working through the issues that are there, than you have a functional relationship. That ability to work through obstacles that come your way with your love for each other as your motivation is "perfect" to me :)

For some yes and others no. A perfect marriage is decided by the two individual married couples.

You can think your marriage is perfect and the partner might not think so.

A spouse wil not always tell you the troubles in your marriage. Sometimes he/she will consult with others, never bringing the troubled marriage issuse to the spouse.

Sometimes the spouse doesn't listen when trouble is lurking. He/she will continue on with plugged ears.

Remember the Tony Braxtons' mom saying her marriage was perfect, and the ex hubby said, no

... and I think people need to see that. If you expect a "perfect" marriage, your expectations are way too high... and the higher your expectations, the higher your risk of disappointment.

So far, there's no machine called "Build Your Dream Spouse".

There is absolutely no one on this planet who is going to agree with you 100% on absolutely everything and do all the things you want to do. Especially when divorces are at about 50% of anyone who gets married.

But you know what? I think everyone can live with that. You don't HAVE to agree on EVERYTHING with a significant other to be in love. If you did... that'd be kind of boring, if you think about it.

The key question to ask yourself in a relationship is: Can we compromise to find solutions and still stay true to what is our individual highest values?



If the answer is yes, then you have the "perfect" relationship. Any relationship, marriage, parent/child, ect will always have conflicts, disagreements, but as long as they are healthy conflicts/disagreements then they're okay.



When you get to mudslinging and name calling over weight, cooking style, fashion, or how a person eats a sandwhich, you're in a toxic relationship and you need to get out. No matter what the argument or situation there should always be a level of respect between two people. If there is not, serious work needs to be done or the relationship left.

Nobody's perfect, unless you're a robot... in which case, I am slightly jealous..

when I get married, I will make it perfect..BY FORCE!

If you believe that your marriage is perfect then it is, It only matters to you and your spouse. To me my husband and I have the perfect marriage because it works for us, we play world of Warcraft together ( while our son sleeps )unless I don't feel like it then I sit and play with our son or read. This works great for us and is perfect to us but might not work for some other people.

Perfection is all in how you see things. I am happy so I see my life as being perfect, I have a loving husband and to me that makes my marriage perfect.

she is right

no a marriage is never gonna be perfect there are always gonna be problems even in a relationship before getting married

no human is perfect. each person is different. therefore, there will always be differences in opinion between spouses.
as long as the good overshadows the bad, a marriage can last. But can never be perfect.

But one can only try for the best to come and happen.....

a lot of masking goes on in marriage in front of people but behind closed doors it's way different, luckily some find perfection but the vast majority do not.

JUST THIS ONE.

I just wish she had pink hair again.

People aren't perfect. You just have to make it the best it can be.

I'm willing to bet those who voted yes are either not married or totally clueless. They are the type that get blindsided by divorce papers....or keep getting divorces looking for perfection. No marriage can be perfect because no person is perfect. It will always be a work in progress.

Nothing can be perfect

With that reasoning given (why even try) of course it won't be perfert, but try and it will be perfect because you tried (falling short, well ok, try again).

Two imperfect people. In an imperfect world. Dealing with imperfect problems. Why of course SodaHead it is completely possible to have a perfect marriage....

NOTHING is perfect.......marriage is like everything else, you both have to work at it!

Marriage is hard and a 24/7 a day job! Hope anyones marriage works!! Too easy to say F it...biulds character to stay and WORK THINGS OUT. What brought you together to begin with ??

there's no such thing as a perfect relationship...
but you got to work hard to make it right...

Ain't no such thing as a perfect marriage....LOL!!! Where is the excitement??

I think its always going to take effort even after years. My parents have been married 28 years and they still argue all the time but just because it isn't perfect doesn't mean they aren't happy.

There is nothing perfect and marriage comes into that category, you can have a happy marraige without it being perfect. The truth is that wherever more than one person shares a life, then arguments will develop.

Thats is how you see these adorable old couples that have been married for 40 and 50 years that bicker.... Hard, but possible.

No, i don't think that any marriage can be perfect or there wouldn't so many divorces!

Nothing on earth can be perfect.

Don't get married.

And that's what's so perfect about imperfections. They can never be as long as there's acceptance of those imperfections. It's like the old saying goes, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

I met this person who told me and my mate that he had been married for 50 years to his wife and had not had any arguments, my mate replied "thats a long time to be with corpse" he just looked at us and stormed away.
Everyone has disagreements in marriages, its how you agree to disagree there lies the problem!

Nothing is perfect. That would just be boring.

Nothing is perfect, even marriage. It's all a compromise. You'd be surprised of the things you would let slide due to love. My wife hates my smoking with a passion but tolerates it because that's what i do. and she loves me. It's a compromise.