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Parents Protest Lady Gaga Anti-Bullying Video: Understandable or Absurd?

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An anti-bullying video produced by David Lloyd George Elementary and Churchill Secondary in Vancouver, Canada is under fire from a civic group called Burnaby Parents' Voice. The video in question depicts groups of students from nine schools dancing to Lady Gaga's "Born This Way" while wearing pink shirts with the word "acceptance" on them, meant to mimic the success of a recent anti-bullying flashmob. Burnaby Parents' Voice is concerned about the implications of the message, and the incorporation of Lady Gaga's music, in particular.

One Parents' Voice member said in a press release, "Will this project reduce bullying? Not likely. They claim this sends a 'positive social message' of acceptance of self and others. Not for overweight kids, anorexic kids, or those who don’t dance well. Not those who resist their school's promotion of Lady Gaga's 'sex sells' worldview." Last year, the group explain that it "questioned the legality and the educational purpose of posting students' images on the Internet, as well as the appropriateness of Lady Gaga as a learning resource in public schools." Are these concerns understandable -- or just plain absurd?

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  • Wolverineland 2012/03/01 21:54:17 (edited)
    Absurd
    Wolverineland
    +23
    If Lady Gaga stops one kid from packing a gun off to school or from contemplating suicide because of excessive bullying, then her campaign was a success. If the pink shirts cause positive or negative controversy, then I think its stil a win-win situation for the kids. Who really cares what the parents think? Their days of being bullied by classmates are behind them.

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  • Zombiecat~Metalhead4Life 2012/03/02 02:24:00
    Absurd
    Zombiecat~Metalhead4Life
    +5
    How in the hell can teaching kids acceptance and showing them it is cool to be different be a bad thing???? These "Parents Voice" people are off their rockers. There are way too many civic and other social groups! It is sad!
  • Tigran 2012/03/02 02:20:20
    Absurd
    Tigran
    +2
    Okay, Lady Gaga represents the younger generation of gay people that want to express themselves... even though she takes back the look of the 80s and a mix of anime. Nothing wrong with that, right? But the older generations probably dont understand....
  • Jay Theyme 2012/03/02 02:19:43
    Understandable
    Jay Theyme
    +2
    Obviously, I can't blame the kids for anything. Unbelievably I recognize one of my friends daughters in the video.
    This does nothing to prevent bullying. Bullies will be happy to beat up kids in pink t-shirts next week. Or.. the popular kids who got pink t-shirts will form a clique and bully some kids who were too poor or unpopular to join them.
    Lady Gaga WILL be happy with this because it's a great way for her to get a lot of free publicity and earn much more cash. She is a elite 1% wealthy mega-celebrity who is not only extremely popular among her peers but can hire large aggressive bodyguards who can fight bullies - or bully others she doesn't want near her.

    And yeah.. you can bet the poor kids from Surrey or fat kids or disabled kids or the ones so lame they don't like Lady Gaga? I have no doubt they were not invited to the big popularity contest this became.
  • FUS RO ... Jay Theyme 2012/03/02 05:39:17
    FUS RO DAH!
    Male kid wear pink t-shirt he is going to get bullied
  • Jay Theyme FUS RO ... 2012/03/02 05:58:11
    Jay Theyme
    +1
    Probably. Or they might find kids who are from religious (or other) families that consider homosexuality a perversion. Then beat up those religious kids. Justifying it as 'fighting bullies'.
  • Awwmandawashere 2012/03/02 02:11:01
    Absurd
    Awwmandawashere
    +2
    I don't understand what's wrong with it? I don't really see the message of anti-bullying it's just a bunch of kids dancing lol They are having fun and at least they will learn something actually good from Gaga, I think that is the only thing that you can learn from Gaga's song to accept people for who they are and to not only yourself but others too:D A senior that went to my school committed suicide because people were picking on him mostly the football team. He rode my bus and was so funny and nice to everyone. He even helped with boyscouts. He was on the football team but because of his grades he couldn't play and people on the football team were mad because he would wear his jersey to school to support the team. Too many kids are being bullied to death and we need to make a change. I wish I could have saw the signs and told him that there are people out here that love him and that he deserves to be happy. It was his first year at my school he came from Maryland and that's so sad and appalling that my school tried to say he wasn't bullied and that he was a messed up kid. The boys on the football team should have been suspended and kicked off it wasn't like our football team was that good anyways. He hung himself in the backyard of his house because of the things that people said which makes me mad. He didn't deserve that. R.I.P. Jarrod Nickell you are greatly missed and you will never be forgotten<3
  • RastaFan Awwmand... 2012/03/02 04:01:28 (edited)
    RastaFan
    ~"Too many kids are being bullied to death and we need to make a change."~

    That is exactly where you steer away from truth on two very important fronts.

    1) Being bullied to death would be being clubbed or beaten to death. If a person decides to commit self-murder because some a$$hole makes fun of them, that is a horrible crime that unfortunately the murderer doesn't live to be punished for committing.

    2) 'We' don't have to do anything about it. Socialism has utterly removed individual responsibility from the equation. Life sucks at times baby, and it's every single person's responsibiltiy to grow up and learn how to deal with the rotteness of people, situations, random circumstance ... whatever. If we, as a nation, forfeit to the government, our responsibility to face up to our challenges, we will certainly become the sappy, useless dependents this world has already witnessed in such fully socialist/communist countries such as the former USSR, Red China, North Korea, Kampuchia, Cuba, and now the developing Venezuela.

    That type of behaviour was EXACTYLY the opposite of the type of behaviour our Founding Fathers encouraged when they created the utterly unique societal design displayed in our very precious US Constitution.

    ps ... I'm sorry to see the pain you obviously feel for that young man. Wasted life is a tragedy and when it's a young one, it only makes it worse. My condolences.
  • Awwmand... RastaFan 2012/03/02 15:47:55
    Awwmandawashere
    I hear you on that but I don't see where the government has anything to do with an anti-bullying campaign. My school has a anti-bullying program but our teachers and staff don't enforce it. Jarrod was bullied so much that he thought the only way to stop the pain was to kill himself and that is wrong. No one should feel like their life isn't worth living. I know everyone gets bullied but not to the point where they kill themselves. One girl was getting bullied so much that she shot herself in the head in front of her tormenters and they egged her on to pull the trigger. I do believe people who bully people and to them to kill themselves should be punished. Our Bill of rights has a right in their called the pursuit of happiness which a person has the right to find happiness in his/her own way as long as he/she does not interfere with the rights of others. His parents told the school he was being bullied and they did nothing about it. The football players try to act like they were his friends and that they are sorry for what happened. If we don't teach people to respect each other then how will this ever end? Jarrod didn't deserve that and it was his senior year. I wish more people would teach their children it's not right to bully other kids for any reason.
  • FUS RO ... Awwmand... 2012/03/02 05:40:19
    FUS RO DAH!
    They should be in class.
  • Awwmand... FUS RO ... 2012/03/02 15:51:23
    Awwmandawashere
    It was for one day people act like schools teach us so much half the stuff we learn is stuff we will never use. I would rather teach children the harsh reality of bullying then teach them some pointless things that they will never use in life. We go to elementary to be taught and to get prepared for high school in highschool you are getting prepared for college and in college you prepare to become something of yourself. More than half of high schoolers are not ready for college so you tell me if we are actually learning anything.
  • Old Nellie Bones 2012/03/02 01:57:20
    Absurd
    Old Nellie Bones
    +8
    No wonder there are so many Bullies they get it from their parents.
  • Pixie·Ÿ... Old Nel... 2012/03/02 03:35:03
  • RastaFan Old Nel... 2012/03/02 03:48:44
    RastaFan
    In what part of the parents expressed concern do you see a condoning of bullying?
  • Old Nel... RastaFan 2012/03/02 04:34:23
    Old Nellie Bones
    +1
    Thank You for helping me drive home my point.It's the attitude That the parents take passing it on to their children.
  • RastaFan Old Nel... 2012/03/02 05:18:59
    RastaFan
    And yet, you avoid answering my question.
  • Old Nel... RastaFan 2012/03/02 05:36:56
    Old Nellie Bones
    I'm just saying saying if the parents have attitudes like that it's no wonder that there are a lot of bullies.They may not condone it openly but in an underlying way they may not even be aware that their attitude can pass on to their children.Who in turn get a feeling of superiority.
  • Elz 2012/03/02 01:52:44
    Absurd
    Elz
    +1
    what is wrong with these parents man? it's like they don't appreciate anything. when their child is getting bullied and going through things, they either do not do a damn thing about it. but now that someone is trying to help they want to protest. they protest about anything! "my child wakes up too late. "(protest) " my child plays in the dirt. (protest) my child walks backwards with a book on their head. (protest). but you get what I mean.
  • jenny.bryan1 2012/03/02 01:49:01
    Understandable
    jenny.bryan1
    Why not? :D whoo I like this song yeah lol ha ha haa :P :D
  • Juanb 2012/03/02 01:44:40 (edited)
    Absurd
    Juanb
    i meant to click UNDERSTANDABLE.................. its one thing to talk about anti bullying its another to take children and brainwash them with subliminal messages any1 who skips to 2:40 can say she went a little over the edge.having little kids dance to this this doesn't help at all
  • Nat™ 2012/03/02 01:42:18
    Absurd
    Nat™
    +3
    So, they're protesting something that she can actually help stop slowly? Wow.
  • Caedus01 Sith Lord of the P... 2012/03/02 01:36:01
    Absurd
    Caedus01 Sith Lord of the PHAET
    +1
    damned if do damned if you don't
  • Love Sick Edwin 2012/03/02 01:30:33
    Absurd
    Love Sick Edwin
    +2
    these parents hv 2 think of their kids and not themselves
  • RastaFan 2012/03/02 01:28:25 (edited)
    Understandable
    RastaFan
    +3
    When it gets understood the latest 'anti-bullying' is designed as simply the most recent vanguard tactic for leftist promotion of homosexuals, as a 'special' rights sub group of society, it makes alot of sense.

    The current 'Anti-bullying' waves means 'Anti-bullying of Gays', nearly exclusively. It's designed to once more portray homos as 'special victims' ..... FAR more bullied than anyone else. Further, it fully intends to make the casting of a sideways glance, by a conservative toward a homo, as a hate crime. ( exaggeration intended, but you get the point )

    George Lukacs was the father of the Frankfurt School's modern design for using Gays as one of the Four Prongs of destruction in the Marxist 'Long March Through Western Institutions'. This is nothing new, folks. Marxist long range planning, in action.

    Nobody supports bullying. Nobody thinks bullys are cool. However, yet again, the 'progressive' approach removes personal responsibility (ie, growing a spine and learning how to stand up to bullys YOURSELF) in favor of sweeping government induced laws which redefine what constitutes bullying, and elevates homos to a favoured class.

    It intends to remove a person's ability to express the fact they consider homos abnormal, which they are. Considering homos as abnormal is ...

    When it gets understood the latest 'anti-bullying' is designed as simply the most recent vanguard tactic for leftist promotion of homosexuals, as a 'special' rights sub group of society, it makes alot of sense.

    The current 'Anti-bullying' waves means 'Anti-bullying of Gays', nearly exclusively. It's designed to once more portray homos as 'special victims' ..... FAR more bullied than anyone else. Further, it fully intends to make the casting of a sideways glance, by a conservative toward a homo, as a hate crime. ( exaggeration intended, but you get the point )

    George Lukacs was the father of the Frankfurt School's modern design for using Gays as one of the Four Prongs of destruction in the Marxist 'Long March Through Western Institutions'. This is nothing new, folks. Marxist long range planning, in action.

    Nobody supports bullying. Nobody thinks bullys are cool. However, yet again, the 'progressive' approach removes personal responsibility (ie, growing a spine and learning how to stand up to bullys YOURSELF) in favor of sweeping government induced laws which redefine what constitutes bullying, and elevates homos to a favoured class.

    It intends to remove a person's ability to express the fact they consider homos abnormal, which they are. Considering homos as abnormal is simply rational. It doesn't condone ill treatment of homos, but rather it acknowledges that regardless of your worldview, (ie, creationist or abiogenesist) homosexuality is just not normal. It just isn't. Penises were not designed to be stuck in bums for any reason.

    When a person feels disgust toward homosexual behaviour, that is very much a personal issue and that person has every right to feel that way. They also have every right to express how they feel. Feeling disgust is NOT the same as feeling hatred. Expressing disgust is NOT the same as expressing hatred.
    (more)
  • Nightmusic RastaFan 2012/03/02 01:45:08
    Nightmusic
    +2
    This is covert bullying by the gay lobby. Let us teach your kids that gay marriage is normal, that having 2 Daddies is normal, etc... Or Else. Or else the next time one of us kills himself we blame YOU. They never leave room for questioning that maybe gay kids kill themselves because they have depression and low self esteem as a result of the issues that prompted them to be gay in the first place. Issues like sexual abuse, for instance. And don't tell me this has nothing to do with that.

    I belonged to a group of incest survivors years ago and about half the people who attended were gay, far in excess of their percentage in the general population. And from the stories I heard from them of their abuse, it left no doubt what they went through had something to do with it. Some of them said as much themselves. Cause they were more interested in understanding themselves than in some political agenda.
  • RastaFan Nightmusic 2012/03/02 03:42:28
    RastaFan
    The elevation of every single one the Frankfurt School's designated minoritiy groups to the status of 'Victim Supreme' has led to the ridiculous habit of having discussion immediately shut down by crying 'Hatred'!

    The funny thing is a cursory study of their tactics will identify the four groups:
    *Gays
    *Women
    *Blacks
    *Student Youth
    All identified and all planned, to be used as tools in the Western Institution meltdown by Marxists. They were all programmed to have a common enemy too, something obviously 'evil' they can focus their venom on. ~The Man~

    ~The Man` was the 1960's equivalent of today's ~ 1%~ That nebulous, ethereal opponent who is rich, white, male and straight .... the four opposites of the designated Victim sub-groups. An enemy all 'progressives' could hate, but who was ok to hate. The Man/1% is the official subgroup toward whom hatred has become not only politically correct to direct, but in fact is the subgroup toward which hatred is encouraged.

    Bloody sheep.
  • Aly Hart RastaFan 2012/03/02 01:55:38
    Aly Hart
    +2
    "Penises were not designed to be stuck in bums for any reason." Would you say that for straight couples too? I bet not.
  • RastaFan Aly Hart 2012/03/02 03:27:26
    RastaFan
    You can bet whatever the hell you want but it doesn't reflect anything more than what you hope to be true.

    I didn't say anal sex wasn't pleasurable or that I don't do it. I do and I love it. That fact doesn't make it normal.
  • Monolith RastaFan 2012/03/02 14:26:52
    Monolith
    +1
    Yes actually it does!
  • sio 2012/03/02 01:19:55
    Absurd
    sio
    +2
    So are these parents pretty much trying to say that bullying is acceptable?

    Does it matter whether the message of tolerance is leaning towards homosexuality? Bullying is bullying when all is said and done. It's wrong in any form.

    I know I will probably get slated for this, but it is an opinions site and that is my opinion.
  • Odinsown 2012/03/02 01:08:55
    Absurd
    Odinsown
    +2
    Better Gaga, than a law.
  • Andrea 2012/03/02 01:07:58
    Understandable
    Andrea
    +3
    Gaga promotes homosexuality, something that not all parents believe in or agree with. Why should parents be forced to accept perversions that they do not promote or agree with? They shouldn't. Any why is Gaga suddenly any school's role model?
  • sio Andrea 2012/03/02 02:32:45
    sio
    +2
    I see where you're coming from on the role model terms. She's not a fabulous one to be fair. I just think that she's trying to highlight bullying as a whole, but using homosexuality as one example out of many as to why people are bullied. I feel that protesting against the general message is sending out a negative message that bullying towards someone for what ever reason is acceptable. It isn't and it should never be for whatever reason, whether it's sexual orientation, race, financial, etc. I apologise if none of that made sense and just seems like mindless rambling. There is a point in there somewhere...I promise =)
  • Andrea sio 2012/03/02 04:13:23 (edited)
    Andrea
    I personally have a problem with a gay promoter using a gay song to 'help stop bullying'. Homosexuality is a very small part of the bullying problem. Her song would have been appropriate for a gay rally not a bullying video. Twisted Sister's We're Not Gonna Take It would have covered it. In my opinion of course.
  • Whizzy Andrea 2012/03/02 04:31:25
    Whizzy
    Although I have no problem with the song from Lady Gaga or with Lady Gaga herself and what she stands for, I agree this would have been a better choice if you fight bullying in general and not just gay bullying
  • sio Andrea 2012/03/02 04:37:06
    sio
    I don't think we're not gonna take it would be appropriate either as the meaning behind that is parental dictatorship. Not letting your folks tell you what to do and being in control of your own destiny. Maybe That Christina Aguilera song you are beautiful. In the video it covers most reasons for being bullied.
  • Andrea sio 2012/03/02 14:41:36
    Andrea
    You only get the parental thing because of the video. Had you never seen the video, you would get the whole meaning, which is allowing NO ONE to dictate you or control you.
  • The Potato Princess 2012/03/02 01:00:05
    Absurd
    The Potato Princess
    +2
    Why don't they think it sends a positive message to anorexic or overweight children? Like, where's the reasoning? And why not the kids who don't approve of Lady Gaga's supposed 'sex sells' worldview? It's not like they're even close to sexual in those videos so... what's the deal?
  • Andrea The Pot... 2012/03/02 01:08:50
    Andrea
    +2
    Because the song has nothing to do with bullying and everything to do with homosexuality.
  • The Pot... Andrea 2012/03/02 01:12:37
  • ☠ Live ... Andrea 2012/03/02 01:56:56
    ☠ Live Free Or Die ☠
    +1
    Yeah, that's why the song says outright that your race and over all appearence doesn't matter.

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