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Jennifer Hudson Forgives Brother-in-Law for Killing her Mother, Brother and Nephew: Could You?

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Wow ... Jennifer Hudson must be superhuman. She has found it in her heart to forgive the man who killed her mother, brother and nephew, she tells "Oprah's Next Chapter."

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Asked if she forgives her brother-in-law William Balfour, who received three life sentences in July, she responded: "Yes, because I feel like for the most part it's not his fault. It's how he was brought up. We tried to offer love, but you were so far gone, that you couldn't even see that.

"A lot of things came out, that we didn't even know about, from his upbringing, which is like he never had a chance. Had you had the love my mother gave us, or the background that some have, then you would've stood a chance."

Hudson also talks about how she managed to go on after the triple tragedy. "There were so many shocks involved in it. Like, who do I grieve for first? Or, who do I start with? It's bits and pieces. It's too much. You're confused. Your emotions are confused." Could you ever forgive a man who killed three of your family members?
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  • Mini Twuby 2012/09/16 03:29:12
    No way
    Mini Twuby
    I'd forgive him, then get a restraining order :D! I'd be a little too scared..
  • Derbyhat 2012/09/16 02:59:04
    Yes, I would try
    Derbyhat
    +2
    Even if it has to be just a little at a time at first, you must try to set the anger aside or it eats you up and you change for the worst. On average we have only seventy some years to enjoy what we can of this life with others we love. When someone cuts it short, even if family, anger surges, but then the reality that there is nothing that anger cures or solves.
  • J.MaisOui 2012/09/16 02:37:30
    No way
    J.MaisOui
    she probably had way big life insurance policies on them, .
    .duh!!!
  • J.MaisOui J.MaisOui 2012/09/16 02:39:21
    J.MaisOui
    that should sell some records!
  • Smuwf, Twin 2012/09/16 02:30:31
    Yes, I would try
    Smuwf, Twin
    Nonee of the Jesaus stufif for me,Im athiest and tbh a litle drunvk but yeh I could forgive a persn..but it would tke timew.
  • J.MaisOui Smuwf, ... 2012/09/16 02:40:29 (edited)
    J.MaisOui
    +1
    ...make sure that you're plenty drunk enough, too! :0)
  • Smuwf, ... J.MaisOui 2012/09/16 08:51:22
  • J.MaisOui Smuwf, ... 2012/09/16 20:07:42
    J.MaisOui
    :0)
  • janda 2012/09/16 02:16:27
    No way
    janda
    Dont Think So
  • MOMMA THOMAS 2012/09/16 01:54:08
    No way
    MOMMA THOMAS
    JUST TOO DIFFICULT..
  • Skye 2012/09/16 00:37:35
    No way
    Skye
    NO
  • JessDeCristo 2012/09/16 00:28:57
    Yes, I would try
    JessDeCristo
    I have never met the Lady, but I know people wo know her , and I'm told she's a very religious, God loving christian. As any christian would tell you, the hardest thing to learn to do, specially if you're like me, a borned again christian, is to learn to forgive. you're not doing it for that person's sake, you're doing it for your's , because the bible states ; " IF YOU WON'T FORGIVE, THEN THE LORD WON'T FORGIVE YOU ".
  • addie JessDeC... 2012/09/16 19:05:36
    addie
    +1
    Are there any things a, "Christian," does, not for selfish reasons? I mean doing something just because it is good to do or right. lol
  • JessDeC... addie 2012/09/16 20:35:28 (edited)
    JessDeCristo
    In the case of forgiving, God will understand if you're selfish, after all, it's commanded IF you want to be forgiven on JUDGEMENT day. So rigth there and then, it doesn't really matter the reason, as LONG AS YOU DO IT.
  • addie JessDeC... 2012/09/16 21:12:40
    addie
    Not my question.
  • JessDeC... addie 2012/09/16 21:34:07
    JessDeCristo
    I can ONLY talk about me. I try and do everything for the Glory of God ( Jehovah ),but, if you read the bible, Jesus himself sated to ; " START BUILDING UP YOUR REWARDS IN HEAVEN ".
  • addie JessDeC... 2012/09/16 21:40:21
    addie
    Okay, you are not hearing me, so forget it. B)
  • JessDeC... addie 2012/09/16 22:36:59
    JessDeCristo
    Forgotten, God bless.
  • addie JessDeC... 2012/09/17 01:50:13
    addie
    Best of luck! lol
  • jc 2012/09/16 00:13:45
    No way
    jc
    No forgiveness for anyone who harms my family.I'd want to cut his head off with a chainsaw.
  • TeardropsOfBlood4The1iiLove♥ 2012/09/15 23:53:15
    Yes, I would try
    TeardropsOfBlood4The1iiLove♥
    +2
    Unless they killed me then it would be very difficult to forgive someone when im dead
  • Smuwf, ... Teardro... 2012/09/16 02:31:21
    Smuwf, Twin
    +3
    Hey jesuss aprently did it:)
  • Teardro... Smuwf, ... 2012/09/22 11:33:20
    TeardropsOfBlood4The1iiLove♥
    He did :D
  • J.MaisOui Teardro... 2012/09/16 02:43:26
    J.MaisOui
    +1
    Haaaa "!! :0)
  • Smuwf, ... J.MaisOui 2012/09/16 19:05:06
    Smuwf, Twin
    Again sorry I was at a 21st...they had WiFi lol
  • BonnieDeutsch 2012/09/15 21:49:36
    No way
    BonnieDeutsch
    +2
    She's a better person than I am. I'm afraid that I don't agree that his upbringing gives him
    an excuse. SORRy , but an adult has to take responsibility for their actions !
  • J.MaisOui BonnieD... 2012/09/16 02:45:33
    J.MaisOui
    +1
    Absolutely...he should be tortured and crucified...the bastard.
  • Stevethinks 2012/09/15 21:22:27
    No way
    Stevethinks
    Watch your mouth; you fool! YOU ARE AN IDIOT!
  • J.MaisOui Steveth... 2012/09/16 02:46:48
    J.MaisOui
    +1
    geeeeez? who let you out???
  • Steveth... J.MaisOui 2012/09/16 02:53:50
    Stevethinks
    +2
    The question is whether I could forgive someone for killing my Mother. Not even after I had killed and buried him. NEVER!
  • dwight 2012/09/15 21:22:25
    Yes, I would try
    dwight
    +1
    i'd hate him,but you must forgive.
  • Vintage Lace 2012/09/15 21:13:29
    No way
    Vintage Lace
    NEVER!!!! ....How can you forgive something so terrible??!
  • Oli 2012/09/15 20:40:00
    No way
    Oli
    +1
    No, i can't think of anything worse than 3 loved ones being murdered, let alone forgiving the murderer.
  • Playerazzi 2012/09/15 20:15:14
    No way
    Playerazzi
    +1
    She's an idiot, and is almost as sick as the dude who did the deed.
  • Dydy 2012/09/15 19:28:38
    No way
    Dydy
    I'd want revenge, which is also dumb bc it won't actually solve anything. But I would feel to upset to forgive.
  • Bill 2012/09/15 19:23:31
    Yes, I would try
    Bill
    While Jesus was hanging on the cross, he looked toward "Heaven: and prayed, "Father Forgive Them, For They know Not What They Do".
  • jubil8 BN-0 PON 2012/09/15 19:09:56
    Yes, I would try
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    But I would never forget, and I would never talk to him or see him on purpose again.
  • J.MaisOui jubil8 ... 2012/09/16 02:50:01
    J.MaisOui
    +1
    everyone knows Jesus was a schizo.
    .he knew not what He did...
  • jubil8 ... J.MaisOui 2012/09/16 03:59:00 (edited)
    jubil8 BN-0 PON
    Lol!

    Although... did you mean to reply to Bill? If so, i'm glad you missed and told me, because I LOVE it, and I might have missed it otherwise. :)
  • SlaveWaterNymph 2012/09/15 19:09:47
    Yes, I would try
    SlaveWaterNymph
    +3
    Actually ive forgiven people who have raped me, abused me and so forth. So i dont see her as a superhero really. So yes i can do this if someone killed my family and what not.

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