Is it bad to date someone 3 years older then you?

☆LesSly☆....☮ツ♥ 2011/04/09 01:57:10
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  • Roberto Hernandez 2015/03/01 03:30:44
    yes ..why?
    Roberto Hernandez
    3 years older is not too bad at all couple years
  • jesus_zubiate 2014/07/09 04:20:08
    yes ..why?
    Can someone tell me if its bad to date a girl if she's older than you 3 years ??? Please
  • Zerrie 2013/09/06 16:58:29
    No I actually dated a 17 years old and Im 20 we had a great relationship but A guy I had scratch that Have a crush on wants me! =D So I said would he like to break up he was actually great with it! We are now great friends!
  • boys_and_girls_love 2013/07/17 05:26:09
    Heck no.
  • ciera 2013/07/08 22:31:35
    I am 10 and the guy I like is 14 but he only turned 14 about 8 or 9 days ago and I am turning 11 at the end of August . I don't know if he likes me but I think he does but the age is kinda a problem because I am still in primary school and he is going into 3rd year in secondary school and we haven't really ever talked and we only knew who each other was around 2 months ago .plz give me some advice on how to talk to him too thank you
  • ikhan ttnop 2013/07/02 20:11:05
    ikhan ttnop
    i am 13 and he is going to be 16. What to do in this situatation?
  • liz 2013/06/23 05:05:00
    Love is lovr
  • chau.tang.12 2012/12/05 00:08:38
    No it isn't bad really.As long as you love him/her it doesn't matter how old you are <3
  • Zane Kiriakos 2012/05/01 04:49:19
    Zane Kiriakos
    Im in the same situation im 14 but my girl is 17 i used to think it was questionable but as long as you love them for who they are I wouldn't see any reason for why it matters.For the first time in my life I am truly proud.
  • jesus_z... Zane Ki... 2014/07/09 04:17:14
    So its not bad ?? If i date a girl 3 years older ?
  • SpecialOne 2012/02/29 05:20:26
    because im in the same situation as u too ;]
  • StarGirl 2011/04/09 08:08:30
    no it's not bad
  • Loki 2011/04/09 06:13:09
    I say a lot of stupid stuff on here, but in all seriousness, you have the right to date whoever you choose. Just make sure that you choose someone right for you.
  • Paloma 2011/04/09 04:07:13
    it depends on...
    It depends on your ages.
  • lolly.j... Paloma 2012/08/28 09:53:00
    im 11 and he is 14 and my mum says not to date anyone how is older than 13 should i let her see my Facebook messages or should i just tell him that u have to lie about your age
  • boys_an... lolly.j... 2013/07/17 05:25:27
    Never tell him to lie. Just tell you mom the truth. Things will go alot smother
  • chau.ta... Paloma 2012/12/05 00:09:26
    Not really...
  • Dngerasou 2011/04/09 03:32:30
    It's much of a normal dating process age. At least it's not 3 years YOUNGER.
  • TonyDahlinVenice 2011/04/09 02:04:52
    it depends on...
    It depends on how you define, "bad"? Teenage, "bad" is good. Adult bad is actually literal. If you are a girl dating a guy three years older. You can learn a lot. If you are a guy dating a girl three years older. You will learn a lot. If you are 17 and date somebody three years older than you, you could go to jail!
  • ☆LesSly... TonyDah... 2011/04/09 02:08:17
    well actually im 16 lol and his 19 nw
  • User Deactivated 2011/04/09 02:01:38 (edited)
    User Deactivated
    3 years seems quite trivial to me. It really only matters on how you fit with the other person. Your goals, your dreams, what you wish to do with your life, etc. So long as you're on par with them regarding the important things, age is just a number.
  • ☆LesSly... User De... 2011/04/09 02:13:20
    i always tell him that...age is just a number :) but if your under age does that change?like 16 and him 19 but both mature ..and we both love each other, and have plans for the future, but people thinking or talking in a negative way, kinda hurts my feelings.
  • User De... ☆LesSly... 2011/04/09 02:17:10 (edited)
    User Deactivated
    Well the only thing in that scenario is, technically if you ever had sexual relations, he would be branded as a rapist. Statutory rape involves sex between a minor and an adult,(even if consensual) so I can see why some would look down on your relationship. They're probably just looking out for you though, especially if they do not know the guy well. *hugs* Don't let others dictate how you feel about yourself or your relationships sweetheart. What matters is that you're happy and the guy you're with makes you happy=)
  • ☆LesSly... User De... 2011/04/09 02:25:02
    true but why would they say that if they don't even know if we are or not?..that's none of their business don't you think?. and yeah im just happy i have found someone who actually matters :)
  • User De... ☆LesSly... 2011/04/09 02:39:44
    User Deactivated
    People are often afraid of the unknown >.< It's what they don't know about that they fear the most. I was in a relationship at 20 with a 16 year old...Neither of us meant for it to happen, it just did. And it was love, so we didn't pay any mind to those who knocked me for being a 'perv' In fact her family was really accepting of me and loved me cause I made her happy. I'm glad you're happy=)
  • ☆LesSly... User De... 2011/04/09 02:51:25
    aww thats the same thing with me :) wow u helped me a lot! thank you..
  • User De... ☆LesSly... 2011/04/09 02:55:17 (edited)
    User Deactivated
    Don't know how I helped, but I'm glad I did and you're welcome XD Just remember not to let others influence your happiness. Though at times others need to be listened to for our benefit...But when they have nothing useful to say, just shut them out XD
  • cali 2011/04/09 01:59:51
  • ☆LesSly... cali 2011/04/09 02:04:02
    but what if u get negative opinions ...like if your under age ..like 16 and his 19?
  • cali ☆LesSly... 2011/04/09 02:11:01
  • ☆LesSly... cali 2011/04/09 02:16:18
    yes we are :) and no i dont plan to get marry that young lol but yeah people say negative stuff or make fun since his older then me and it hurts my feelings i dnt know how to deal with that.
  • cali ☆LesSly... 2011/04/09 02:23:26
  • ☆LesSly... cali 2011/04/09 02:26:12
    alright well thanks :) that really helped me.
  • cali ☆LesSly... 2011/04/10 01:57:35
  • UNEEQ 2011/04/09 01:58:51
    No way, so what, as long as you like each other. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me!
  • ☆LesSly... UNEEQ 2011/04/09 02:02:26
    wow ..i have a question...do you ever get negative opinions about it? ..
  • UNEEQ ☆LesSly... 2011/04/09 02:06:34
    I have had a few but I just ignore them. I think the negative comments are from people who maybe jealous. I have been dating this guy, on and off, for a little over a year, don't worry about what other people say, have fun and enjoy yourself.
  • ☆LesSly... UNEEQ 2011/04/09 02:17:11
    alright thanks :)

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