If your spouse confessed to a one-time affair, you would:

Let's Ask America 2012/09/19 19:00:00
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  • TasselLady 2012/09/19 21:47:22
    Forgive Him
    But I would not remain with him. I've been cheated on before and could never go through that ever again.
    kick to the curb

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  • C4TSMILEY 2012/09/20 03:22:06
    Forget Him
    Haha out the window for you.
  • J.MaisOui C4TSMILEY 2012/09/20 03:46:34
  • edifyguy 2012/09/20 03:21:28
    Forgive Him
    Although I would definitely get a little worried, and I would spend some time in shock and weeping.
  • TiffanyBelle 2012/09/20 03:12:50
    Forgive Him
    but it totally depends on the circumstances!!!!
    i don't condone cheating but i DO believe that there are usually bigger problems in that relationship than sex when it occurs.
    if 1 partner isn't satisfied sexually in a long term relationship than it's their responsibility to discuss it with the other person. open and honest discussion about sex is important for any relationship to last. what you liked when you were first married/dating/hooking up may not be what you like today. The frequency or attraction to the other person may change for one person but not for both.

    If we shared a great life together and my man had a 1 time drunken fling... i might be able to forgive and move on... but if there was emotional cheating along with it and it lasted for a long time behind my back, there's no coming back from that in my book.
  • Stevethinks 2012/09/20 03:12:04
  • Linsey(: 2012/09/20 03:02:01
    Forgive Him
    If he's confessing, he obviously feels bad. I'd give him/her another chance, but I'd be cautious.
  • seahawk665 2012/09/20 02:56:49
    Forget Him
    I probably would forgive him, but I still wouldn't stay with him.
  • I<3Edward 2012/09/20 02:55:01
    Forgive Him
    and then leave him....so not worth it.
  • LadySesshomaru 2012/09/20 02:44:37
    Forgive Him
    I would try to forgive but it would be really difficult.
  • Captain Pikachu ~ CEO of HTFO 2012/09/20 02:42:30
    Forgive Him
    Captain Pikachu ~ CEO of HTFO
    Forgive HER. Besides, my wife would forgive me if I had second wife... so....
  • william.turner 2012/09/20 02:35:43
    Forget Him
    And women cheat too :)
  • Steveth... william... 2012/09/20 03:14:20
    It's another stupidly asked SH question.
  • Yoshi Bear <3 2012/09/20 02:27:04 (edited)
    Forgive Him
    Yoshi Bear <3
    I would forgive him cos I'm a dumbass and I would burn and perish than be without him. I know he would never cheat though .he respects and loves me to much
  • phil 2012/09/20 02:14:51
    Forget Him
    Bye bye
  • MlssCue =Go Blue= 2012/09/20 02:07:01
    Forget Him
    MlssCue =Go Blue=
    Number one thing I won't forgive...cheating! It breaks down so many other things, it'd be done.
  • addie 2012/09/20 01:58:41
    Forget Him
    It is a cliche, but it holds true, a cheater is a cheater, period!
  • 3414503 2012/09/20 01:55:53
  • Steveth... 3414503 2012/09/20 03:15:45
    How does a person work to earn back trust?
  • 3414503 Steveth... 2012/09/20 03:21:46
  • Steveth... 3414503 2012/09/20 04:06:36
    A person doesn't earn trust, it's a given, so once it is has been disrespected it can't be earned back. We were married for 30-years, and I left nine years ago. It was the correct decision.
  • 3414503 Steveth... 2012/09/20 04:29:46
  • Steveth... 3414503 2012/09/20 04:31:32
    I don't agree but then that is what opinions are for. So how does one earn trust?
  • 3414503 Steveth... 2012/09/20 04:32:31
  • Steveth... 3414503 2012/09/20 04:41:14
    Do you mean doing penance and groveling and begging and ass kissing?
  • 3414503 Steveth... 2012/09/20 04:59:09
  • Steveth... 3414503 2012/09/20 05:09:05
    What does going where they say they were going, or do what they say they were doing mean. it doesn't make sense.
  • 3414503 Steveth... 2012/09/20 05:17:44
  • Steveth... 3414503 2012/09/20 06:44:23
    Actually, I left 30-years ago. Then I guess we won't be discussing my theory on "Wife / Prostitute syndrome"? I have others? How about dinner? Or a movie?
  • lovemykiddos 2012/09/20 01:49:29
    Forgive Him
    I also have a problem with the gender specific answers but I would say it would have to depend on the situation and the people involved. I don't think anyone can truthfully give a cut and dry answer on this one.
  • Fluttershy 2012/09/20 01:49:19
    Forget Him
    if he doesn't seem to want my trust then he doesn't deserve my forgiveness.
  • Bibliophilic 2012/09/20 01:46:56
    Forget Him
    Why is "him" the only option?

    Does someone think that only men cheat? LOL- ask a man who knows or a lesbian- women cheat too! Not all of them, fortunately.
  • Steveth... Bibliop... 2012/09/20 03:17:08
    Don't get excited; it's another poorly put SH question.
  • Bibliop... Steveth... 2012/09/20 18:32:40
    I'm not excited, unfortunately.
  • Bob 2012/09/20 01:38:52
    Forget Him
    Hey! I never messed around on my wife but either way he or she should hit the road.
  • melissa 2012/09/20 01:29:22
    Forget Him
    A guy have an affair one time so he can do it again another time. OH HELL NO baby! is bye,bye for your ass.
  • dani 2012/09/20 00:53:13
    Forget Him
    Nope Ben there and don't want to again.
  • Harley Squiggles the God \(... 2012/09/20 00:51:21
    Forget Him
    Harley Squiggles the God \(#o#)/
    I'd just leave.
  • Crische 2012/09/20 00:41:29
    Forgive Him
    Depends on circumstances. Everyone can have weaknesses, these are strong natural urges we're dealing with and confusing times as to how we're supposed to live our lives. If they're telling the truth now it should show that they've learned at least a little courage to tell you and have realized the error of their ways/gotten it out of their system and realized they really DO want to be with you and you alone. Just have to read the situation.
  • The Colorful Vampire 2012/09/20 00:37:00
    Forget Him
    The Colorful Vampire
    Apparently, he forgot me so I will forget him. I will forgive, but you will be forgotten.
  • life.of.insanity 2012/09/20 00:27:49
    Forgive Him
    Depending on what he says it was, the lenghth, and other factors.

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