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  • TasselLady 2012/09/19 21:47:22
    Forgive Him
    TasselLady
    +8
    But I would not remain with him. I've been cheated on before and could never go through that ever again.
    kick to the curb

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  • Huki68 2012/09/20 21:30:00
    Forgive Him
    Huki68
    Of course if he/she really mean it and never do it again, forgiveness is the key of a everlasting love.
  • robertwnielsen 2012/09/20 20:42:51
    Forget Him
    robertwnielsen
    +2
    First off, speaking as a male, why isn't there a "Forgive/forget 'HER' option?? Women cheat, too, y'know....I see it all the time on Maury when they come on accusing this guy, and that guy, of being their baby daddy!!


    Okay...sexist rant over. Now, as to whether I could forgive my wife for cheating, even if it was a one-time thing, probably not. I mean, marriage vows are supposed to be forever...that's why they say "till death do us part," (or "all the days of my life," or some variation thereof.) So I would have a hard time forgiving my spouse if she cheated on me, and I suspect she would feel the same if I ever cheated on her.
  • Artisan... robertw... 2012/09/21 12:30:45
    Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥
    +1
    I agree. Women cheat just as well as men do.
  • robertw... Artisan... 2012/09/21 13:17:25
    robertwnielsen
    Yep. Like I said, I see it all the time on Maury...and Steve Wilkos! :)
  • Artisan... robertw... 2012/09/21 13:51:37
    Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥
    +1
    I've been hurt by cheaters, so I would never cheat on my husband if I was married.
  • robertw... Artisan... 2012/09/21 14:24:04
    robertwnielsen
    I'm sorry you've been hurt...I'm sure it sucks. Fortunately, my wife has never done anything like that to me, and vice-versa. (I've never done anything like that to her.) But my wife's sister got cheated on by the father of her kids (first husband)...so I know what cheating does to people. (Aside from seeing it on the aforementioned TV shows.)
  • Artisan... robertw... 2012/09/21 16:48:25
    Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥
    +1
    Hurrah for not being cheaters!
  • robertw... Artisan... 2012/09/21 20:59:49
    robertwnielsen
    Thanks. And, here's hoping you find someone who doesn't cheat on you. :)
  • Artisan... robertw... 2012/09/21 21:26:44
    Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥
    I think I may have already found him. He and I have been together for ten months and he makes me so happy.
  • robertw... Artisan... 2012/09/22 02:39:49
    robertwnielsen
    Congratulations! I hope things continue to go well for you. Maybe you're right, and you have found "Mr. Right." Best wishes. :)
  • Artisan... robertw... 2012/09/22 02:52:36
    Artisan Rose ☽✪☾☥
    Thank you! :)
  • robertw... Artisan... 2012/09/22 12:38:45
    robertwnielsen
    You're welcome!! :)
  • mikeeonly 2012/09/20 20:35:24
    Forgive Him
    mikeeonly
    depends on the circumstances
  • MiinaNiemi03 2012/09/20 20:29:26
    Forget Him
    MiinaNiemi03
    Not worth my time.
  • C. C. Rider 2012/09/20 20:16:08
    Forgive Him
    C. C. Rider
    lol Any man of mine of course would not confess that unless on his Death bed. Which it would be as soon as he confessed. lol woman with a shotgun
  • DP 2012/09/20 19:59:22
    Forget Him
    DP
    They broke their vows, so I can break mine.
  • bye 2012/09/20 19:53:37
    Forget Him
    bye
    +1
    I gave the same vow of forsaking other. No matter how cute they are, no matter how nice they are I'd simply look away because I was in love and trust my mate to do the same. If they break that trust then what do I have...empty love..obviously I did not do it enough for my mate, or he did not love me enough or something. No doubt he lied to the other girl also so he's done more then just lie to me. So I could not trust him after that and would always worry or wonder when I'll get dumped, gee too old, not hot enough, my body changes after kids so he want's the secretary..no sorry once trust is gone then you have little left but worry, and uncertainty not love for ever...so I'd cry, and then simply be done with him. I'm sure he'd find some other girl to cheat on.
  • Kim(: 2012/09/20 18:50:59
    Forgive Him
    Kim(:
    +2
    Im more forgiving
  • Vieuphoria 2012/09/20 18:27:13
    Forgive Him
    Vieuphoria
    Why is this just 'him'... Pretty sure women cheat too
  • bye Vieuphoria 2012/09/20 19:55:47
    bye
    Yeah I guess it's just ladies points of view but you can add yours, it said spouse but did say him...hhh good point.
  • Little Miss Monster 2012/09/20 18:23:23
    Forget Him
    Little Miss Monster
    +2
    If you cheat on me, goodbye, because I would never cheat on anyone I love.
  • bye Little ... 2012/09/20 19:56:03
    bye
    +1
    Right!
  • Jay Ford Little ... 2012/09/20 21:05:31
    Jay Ford
    Never say never . . . . .
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  • bye ♌βļąƈʞƦ... 2012/09/20 19:56:45
    bye
    +1
    Oh I'd use it if I ever blew up..cheater! So no you are a bigger person then me.
  • heartsonfire 2012/09/20 18:02:01
    Forgive Him
    heartsonfire
    +2
    Eventually I guess, not right away. And I don't know if I'd be able to stay with him. Once my trust is gone, it's hard to earn it back.
  • Samantha Green 2012/09/20 17:40:34 (edited)
    Forget Him
    Samantha Green
    +1
    ONCE A CHEAT, ALWAYS A CHEAT!!!
  • bye Samanth... 2012/09/20 19:57:01
    bye
    Yeah!
  • SlaveWaterNymph 2012/09/20 17:25:31
    Forgive Him
    SlaveWaterNymph
    +1
    but of course with my lifestyle, it is different. Most people think mine is already cheating on me, as He wants more slaves and so forth....... i guess it depends on how you take it and what your opinions are and what not.
  • Candy 2012/09/20 16:55:31
    Forget Him
    Candy
    +3
    I can do better than a man who thinks stepping out is ok. I am not a stepping stone. I'm the first and only choice.
    I expect him to feel the same way.

    Someone who takes monogamy seriously is worth everything.
  • l 2012/09/20 16:34:07 (edited)
    Forgive Him
    l
    +1
    Yes! The fact that he confessed shows that he is remorsful,at least in the moment!
    I wouldn't forget though and our relaitionship would change.
    Nobody is perfect! If it happened again the relaitionship would be over!
  • Night71 2012/09/20 16:30:40
    Forget Him
    Night71
    +1
    Only after cheating a few times myself.
  • bye Night71 2012/09/20 19:57:27
    bye
    +1
    Oh a get even guy!
  • sluggostalker 2012/09/20 16:23:00
    Forgive Him
    sluggostalker
    +2
    a couple of points first.women cheat too,it happened to me.i forgave her and its been twenty years and its still hard but i wouldnt trade her for the world.people make mistakes and i hope we both learned something from it
  • Jay Ford sluggos... 2012/09/20 21:12:06
    Jay Ford
    +1
    Good for both of you!

    thumbs up
  • Dickens 2012/09/20 16:17:00
    Forget Him
    Dickens
    +1
    ..cheaters don't cheat just once...
  • AdWhois 2012/09/20 16:13:29
    Forget Him
    AdWhois
    Why are the options only "him"? Are men the only ones who cheat....?

    Anyways, I would leave her.
  • Mike 2012/09/20 15:50:40
    Forget Him
    Mike
    +1
    actually it was my wife and I left her for it. she never had to work until that day, now she has to make a living for herself
  • Sperry23 2012/09/20 15:45:38
    Forgive Him
    Sperry23
    +1
    I would probably forgive HER, but I would most certainly not forget.
  • SOUL4REAL 2012/09/20 15:36:15
    Forget Him
    SOUL4REAL
    The reason I chose "Forget Him"! In this life you "Forgive Him" because that is for you, but if you stay with a man or woman after they have cheated on you,you are giving them permission to do it again. Some men and women are like little "Boys" and "Girls" that you have to teach them, that you will not tolerate that type of behavior and don't forget about the "Std's"!!

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