If your Son was Gay, would you still Love and Accept him?

by ZeldaFan13 Posted 2012/05/18 05:16:40

Loading Demographics... Click an icon to see demographic results Display unknown and private
	Yes	162 votes	93%
	No	12 votes	7%

More polls by ZeldaFan13

☠megan_massacre☠ 2012/06/12 01:04:56

Yes

I will love my children no matter if they're gay or straight :)

reply
yvee l'unico 2012/05/29 03:23:44

Yes

heck yes...no matter what he will always be my son and i will love him despite his sexual preferences :b everyone deserves to be loved.

reply
Mamaknows 2012/05/22 00:14:27

Yes

I would still love my son but I would not accept his homosexual tendincies or that lifestlye as heathy and normal...because it's not. It would be disappointing....but not the end of the world...or us.
You raise your children the best you can, give the tools to live a happy, healthy, and productive life but when it comes down to it they are the ones that make their choices that effect their soul not me. Loving the person does not mean you accept the sins the commit.

reply
ZeldaFan13 to Mamaknows 2012/05/22 02:56:57

Umm, Homosexuality isn't a lifestyle. It's a sexuality (Same as Heterosexuality). A Sexuality is NOT a lifestyle. Also, Homosexuality is just as Healthy and Normal as Heterosexuality. And you say since it's a "Sin", it's WRONG!? Umm, take another look at the bible! ALL people commit sins EVERYDAY! And Homosexuality isn't any bigger a sin than any other. So, if you don't accept your son for his "Sins", then you shouldn't accept ANYONE. Cuz we ALL sin everyday! And Sexual Orientation isn't a Choice either. No one chooses what or who they're attracted to.

reply
Mamaknows to ZeldaFan13 2012/05/22 04:11:19

I did not say I did not accept him...but I do not accept the sin. Just as if he were doing anything that was Unhealthy and wrong. My love would be just as strong for him but he would that and know that is not something we would accept or encourage.
You are right in that everyone sins but we should strive to not to:) Not say oh well everyone sins so we shouldn't worry about it.

reply
ZeldaFan13 to Mamaknows 2012/05/22 04:34:47

So we should strive not to get haircuts, not to eat shellfish, not to get tattoos? The bible says to stone your children if they're rebellious... Would you do that? The bible also says slavery is okay. It says a woman is not allowed to speak in church unless her face is covered. See how ridiculous it is to follow the bible? Also, there shouldn't be any "Accepting" or "Encouragement" when it comes to the sexuality of people, becuz it's NOT a choice to be Gay or Straight. It's something a person is born with. What you should encourage (If your son ever did come out) is telling him you love him and that he should just be himself and not let anyone make him think he's something he's not.

reply
replyin... to ZeldaFan13 2012/06/30 06:45:55

+3
A person is not born gay or homo they're have a choice to be that way it's redicilious how people say Ohhh there gay cause there born that way wrong it's a choice just like most people choose to be hetero being gay is something that people accept and it's wrong I'm pretty sure you have pet peeves of your own that you hate that you cannot stand

reply
ZeldaFan13 to replyin... 2012/06/30 09:20:44

Umm, being Gay Myself... No It was NOT a choice... -_- I don't choose to be attracted to guys, it just happens. I knew I liked males since I was 5 years old. I always had crushes on other boys in my class. And I always knew I was different from most boys. It most certainly was NOT a choice. And there's nothing wrong with being Gay. It's natural. It occurs among thousands of animals.

reply
Torchmanner ~PWCM~JLA 2012/05/21 11:41:34

No

+1
YES, I would love him.

NO, I would not accept his deviant behavior.

YES, I would get him mental health treatment.

NO, he would not be allowed to live at home.

NO, he would not be invited to family events.

NO, I would not allow him to come in contact with children in the family.

reply
ZeldaFan13 to Torchma... 2012/05/21 23:49:40
DeejaySpaniel 2012/05/21 06:48:17

Yes

How could you not? He's still your son and I would love him more for the courage it takes to come out.

reply
JenSemPa 2012/05/21 03:46:33
mwg0735 2012/05/21 02:56:27
DeejayS... to mwg0735 2012/05/21 06:49:30

Why not?

reply
mwg0735 to DeejayS... 2012/05/21 09:16:55
DeejayS... to mwg0735 2012/05/21 09:41:38

It's sad to think that if he had been gay that you would not love him.

reply
mwg0735 to DeejayS... 2012/05/22 02:10:24
DeejayS... to mwg0735 2012/05/22 09:25:16
ZeldaFan13 to mwg0735 2012/05/21 23:51:36

Being Gay is normal and natural. Even if it wasn't, he's still your son and you should love him no matter what.

reply
mwg0735 to ZeldaFan13 2012/05/22 02:10:04
ZeldaFan13 to mwg0735 2012/05/22 02:59:54

Explain to me how it isn't natural. It occurs in thousands of species of animals. Homosexuality is the attraction to the same sex. No one chooses their attractions. They're feelings and feelings are NATURAL! Also, I never said people are born that way. However, now that you mention it... THEY ARE! Who would "Choose" to be gay? Gays are bashed, beaten, and discriminated against everyday! Yet, you think someone would choose that!?

reply
mwg0735 to ZeldaFan13 2012/05/22 05:16:28
ZeldaFan13 to mwg0735 2012/05/22 08:25:28

Are you actually saying to Repress the Feelings and Attractions we get!? Wow, you have issues. You'd rather have people live an unhappy life than a happy one? Just so you know, your beliefs aren't the only ones out there. Not everyone thinks the way you do. In fact, most people disagree with you. Homosexuality is completely natural and normal. There's nothing wrong with it. And FYI, I am a proud Liberal! And I KNOW Homosexuality is okay. And it IS natural!

reply
Balladeer-PWCM-POTL 2012/05/20 23:14:33

Yes

YES...my parents' love was never there...mom wanted a girl when i came out with something extra the relationship went 'south'...Pop's love died when he realized I wouldn't be a chemical engineer that plays pro Foo'ball on weekends...so yeah if I had a gay son i would love him will all my heart

reply
alex hilson 2012/05/20 18:18:16

Yes

yea why not im bi so i can take it i be happy l0l

reply
SuSu 2012/05/20 18:12:46 (edited)

Yes

yes coz it's not his fault God made him this way

reply
♥Almost_Alyssa♥ 2012/05/20 11:33:52

Yes

Of course!

reply
beach bum 2012/05/20 05:45:05

Yes

yes

reply
Bob S 2012/05/19 18:50:57

Yes

Blood is the most essential of bonds. For life so help me God.

reply
wcpjams 2012/05/19 11:44:26

Yes

+1
If he's my child then of course I would love him and I guess I would have to accept it, but I would never like it.

reply
↓←↑♣→NVL←♣↑→↓ 2012/05/19 04:50:38

Yes

+1
Of course, he is my son, my blood, part of my creation. Blood is thicker than water. I wouldn't care if he is gay, straight, bi. I only care if he is happy.

reply
Karasu the Neko Vampire 2012/05/19 03:32:46

Yes

+1
I dont see why not. He was my son when he was born and he will be nothing less than that.

reply
sjalan 2012/05/19 03:16:17

Yes

+2
One is and so is a grandson and yes we love and accept them both.

reply
Deliciously Melicious 2012/05/19 01:35:27

Yes

+1
Of course I would. He is my son, and I love him unconditionally. My wish for him is to be happy in who he is.

reply
me being me 2012/05/19 01:03:25

Yes

+1
You bet!

reply
Kibbles 2012/05/19 00:40:03

Yes

+2
He's my son, I'd love him and if he was gay nothing would change, hell the only thing that would be different would be that I meet his boyfriend instead of girlfriend.

reply
CAROLYN NTARWNJBS 2012/05/19 00:37:50

Yes

+1
Of course and without hesitation.

reply
Jackal 2012/05/19 00:23:20

Yes

+1
With all my heart.

reply
aidet 2012/05/19 00:23:01

Yes

+1
of course..its stupid that just because one thing about your child is a something you don't like then you think less of them or you stop loving them. you're ignorant and it means you never even loved them in the first place because if you love someone you accept who they are. that's my opinion at least...

reply
David K 2012/05/19 00:14:33

Yes

+1
might not agree with it, but i'd still love him the same.

reply