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If i am lez and i tell my friend i cant be her friend because i will like her more and more than she says its okay we can still be friends wat do i do i dont want my feelings for her to come between our friendship???

babey gurl 2012/06/08 05:45:00
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  • Love Things :D 2012/06/16 13:17:53
    Undecided
    Love Things :D
    I'm sorry, but y do u like girls so much?
  • babey gurl Love Th... 2012/06/16 13:19:06
    babey gurl
    i was raped by a guy when i was 11
  • Mike 2012/06/13 16:04:23
    None of the above
    Mike
    get you some
  • babey gurl Mike 2012/06/13 20:36:47
    babey gurl
    no i cant get her drunk
  • Mike babey gurl 2012/06/16 02:21:41
    Mike
    talk to her, she might be cool about it, you never know
  • Moonage 2012/06/13 02:23:29
    be her friend and dont worry bout the feelings
    Moonage
    give her some tequila and she'll be lez for one night with you and then she will hate you and fantasize about you for eternity and you will have another notch for your bed post.
  • Idc anymore 2012/06/13 02:10:18
    dont hang with her as much till the feelings go away
    Idc anymore
    thats what i would do
  • Jay Jays 2012/06/13 01:54:32
    None of the above
    Jay Jays
    everyone wen in the realization stage goes through this they will eventually go away
  • Ryan 2012/06/12 16:55:10
    be her friend and dont worry bout the feelings
    Ryan
    +1
    If she's willing to keep you as a friend, that's a sign she's worth having as a friend.

    Not exactly the same since I'm a guy and my friend was a girl, but I've had feelings for a friend that didn't feel the same.

    It's not easy, hell, sometimes it's just painful, but it's worth doing.

    Main thing you need to understand is they don't feel the same as you do, and it takes a lot of self control to keep from crossing the line.

    She knows you like her, so if you want to keep being her friend make sure to discuss things with her. Make sure she knows how to tell you to stop if anything you do makes her uncomfortable. And you be damn sure to follow that order if she gives it.

    The surest way to end or harm your friendship would be unwelcome sexual advances.

    There will probably be an awkward period while you both figure out exactly what you are comfortable with.

    I'll add one bit, the idea of waiting until the feelings go away is naive. They may never go away completely. Mine haven't, but I've accepted that fact and moved on. I enjoy having her as a friend, and I wouldn't give that up lightly.

    So I wish you luck, it probably won't be easy, but I believe it will be worth the effort in the end.
  • The River Rat 2012/06/12 11:14:46
    be her friend and dont worry bout the feelings
    The River Rat
    If she is a good friend and she still wants to be your friend, keep her as a friend. Good friends are hard to find.
  • babey gurl The Riv... 2012/06/12 11:20:26
    babey gurl
    yer true brah lol
  • Kaimeso 2012/06/08 17:51:47
    None of the above
    Kaimeso
    Your friend is just like anyone else. Meaning unwelcome sexual advances would be just that, unwelcome. However if you have already told her how you feel and she still wants to just be friends, then be happy. If she ever changes her mind then she already knows how you feel, until then be thankful for an understand friend since they are really quite rare and valuable.
  • ♥~Ange~♥ 2012/06/08 15:59:38
    be her friend and dont worry bout the feelings
    ♥~Ange~♥
    don't worry this happend to many people. you care and like her as aclose friend , that's why you feel this way.
  • heart of love ♥♥ 2012/06/08 10:35:22
    be her friend and dont worry bout the feelings
    heart of love ♥♥
    do nothin' cuz idk
  • Jessica ♥ Nick = foreva 2012/06/08 10:24:18
    Undecided
    Jessica ♥  Nick = foreva
    +1
    I know this is mee
  • babey gurl Jessica... 2012/06/08 10:25:54
    babey gurl
    no sorry it is shania
  • Jessica... babey gurl 2012/06/08 10:27:10
    Jessica ♥  Nick = foreva
    Well your ex wana go what with shania
  • Jessica... Jessica... 2012/06/08 10:27:30
    Jessica ♥  Nick = foreva
    And I know we not friend we are nothing
  • babey gurl Jessica... 2012/06/08 10:29:26
  • Jessica... babey gurl 2012/06/08 10:31:01
    Jessica ♥  Nick = foreva
    Mhmmm I don't know Im not in a mood
  • Jessica... Jessica... 2012/06/08 10:34:50
    Jessica ♥  Nick = foreva
    We are done
  • Dark Angel AKA Hippiegirl 2012/06/08 09:41:31
    dont hang with her as much till the feelings go away
    Dark Angel AKA Hippiegirl
    also drop the term "Lez" you can remain friends as long as you're honest and control your emotions. you can control yourself if you really value your friendship.
  • james.g.mcdonald.5 2012/06/08 09:06:47
    be her friend and dont worry bout the feelings
    james.g.mcdonald.5
    Then make a move.
  • babey gurl james.g... 2012/06/08 09:07:43
    babey gurl
    like wat
  • Wanderer 2012/06/08 07:24:39
    None of the above
    Wanderer
    Let her know and see how she feels,it might surprise you...your both young and there's a long way to go yet.These things can't be decided overnight...
  • AmericanVirus 2012/06/08 06:51:05
    None of the above
    AmericanVirus
    That was such a long rant, I couldn't even follow
  • Vitalani 2012/06/08 06:36:14
    None of the above
    Vitalani
    A lesbian would not have a picture of a boy band with a caption talking about how hot they are, first of all. lmao.

    If you don't want your feelings to mess things up then don't let them, it's called will power. If you think you don't have enough then maybe it's time to discontinue the friendship before it goes sour.
  • babey gurl Vitalani 2012/06/08 06:37:34
    babey gurl
    i said i think i am but at the moment im bi so yer i dont think im lez yet
  • Vitalani babey gurl 2012/06/08 06:39:16
    Vitalani
    I see...
  • babey gurl Vitalani 2012/06/08 06:41:33
    babey gurl
    yer
  • Shade 2012/06/08 06:34:12
    dont hang with her as much till the feelings go away
    Shade
    Have you told her bout ur feelins?
  • babey gurl Shade 2012/06/08 06:34:51
    babey gurl
    yer she knows i like he
  • Shade babey gurl 2012/06/08 06:35:22
    Shade
    hmm, well is she straight?
  • babey gurl Shade 2012/06/08 06:36:44
    babey gurl
    she dosent know if she is bi she used to be bi so yer she dosent know
  • Shade babey gurl 2012/06/08 06:40:49
    Shade
    she have bf?
  • babey gurl Shade 2012/06/08 06:41:27
    babey gurl
    idk at the moment
  • Shade babey gurl 2012/06/08 06:45:37
    Shade
    ask her
  • babey gurl Shade 2012/06/08 06:53:19
    babey gurl
    okay i will when she comes online
  • Shade babey gurl 2012/06/08 06:54:34
    Shade
    what her username?
  • babey gurl Shade 2012/06/08 06:55:25
    babey gurl
    shania BEEBS look at my friends and u will find her

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