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Gwyneth Paltrow Tweets the N-Word: Insensitive or Overreaction?

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Gwyneth Paltrow found herself in the middle of a media storm on Monday when she tweeted a photo of herself standing next to Jay-Z and Beyonce with the caption "Ni**as in paris for real." She was, of course, referencing a song by Jay-Z and Kanye West, but the media immediately jumped on it. Watch the video below for more.



Some were obviously offended by Paltrow's use of the word, stating that people who are not African American should never, under any circumstances, use it. Others argued that Jay-Z and Kanye are to blame for including the word in the name of the song. Still others felt that her use of the word was harmless. It's an intricate issue, and Gwyneth Paltrow's tweet sits in a complicated spot. Do you think it was insensitive -- or an overreaction?

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  • Kwaku Tuffour 2012/06/06 18:30:08
    Overreaction
    Kwaku Tuffour
    sigh....unless Jay-z and Kanye West say something whats the point in even arguing about it, if they're not offended not a single offended persons comment truly matters. I honestly don't care and I'm black.. maybe its just me. Idk i just feel like im wasting my time even caring about things like this.
  • John T. 2012/06/06 18:24:09
    Insensitive
    John T.
    +2
    Both the “N”-Word and the “F_ _k”-Word should be deleted from our vocabulary.
  • me 2012/06/06 18:17:46
  • Tony 2012/06/06 18:01:05
    Overreaction
    Tony
    +2
    It's Jay-Z's damn song! Lighten the hell up World!
  • tori 2012/06/06 17:56:26
    Overreaction
    tori
    +1
    Please. The double standard is ridiculous. If black people can use it, everyone can. If its negative, it needs to be negative no matter what.
  • tori tori 2012/06/06 18:03:59
    tori
    +2
    Also, what I don't understand is why some black people feel that term is ok to use. It's not a term for brotherhood just because you decide it is. The meaning doesn't change because a white person uses it.
  • Salonje 2012/06/06 17:48:32
    Overreaction
    Salonje
    It was the title of the song!!!!
  • ancientmath 2012/06/06 17:38:11
    Insensitive
    ancientmath
    +1
    There should be a 'Both' option.

    Yes, insensitive because some people ARE offended by it, whether referencing the song and/or the writers of the song. I'm 'white' and offended by it, not because "they/you can say it and i cant" but because it's simply negative....to heritage on both sides in first person or third. There is a lot of history behind the word. I'm from the northwest and don't like to be called 'cracker bitch' or 'whitey' (yes, it gets used still) because any hate towards white should be at those that participated, all long dead and gone (fyi, cracker is the person that used the whips on slaves for those that don't know). North-westerners weren't even in that silly war much less the trade.

    I also don't call myself the C-word on behalf of womanhood...much too negative. That said, I don't mind being called "bitch" because it means i was effective at pissing someone off...man or woman are allowed to call me that any time. Still, some women would slap me silly for using the C-word....and should. While men in the UK call each other the C-word, in jest or anger, but would never think of using it on a woman. In my opinion, they shouldn't use it at all either.

    Over-reactive because suddenly there is a stir over its use, but only because Gwyn is white. I'm s...
    There should be a 'Both' option.

    Yes, insensitive because some people ARE offended by it, whether referencing the song and/or the writers of the song. I'm 'white' and offended by it, not because "they/you can say it and i cant" but because it's simply negative....to heritage on both sides in first person or third. There is a lot of history behind the word. I'm from the northwest and don't like to be called 'cracker bitch' or 'whitey' (yes, it gets used still) because any hate towards white should be at those that participated, all long dead and gone (fyi, cracker is the person that used the whips on slaves for those that don't know). North-westerners weren't even in that silly war much less the trade.

    I also don't call myself the C-word on behalf of womanhood...much too negative. That said, I don't mind being called "bitch" because it means i was effective at pissing someone off...man or woman are allowed to call me that any time. Still, some women would slap me silly for using the C-word....and should. While men in the UK call each other the C-word, in jest or anger, but would never think of using it on a woman. In my opinion, they shouldn't use it at all either.

    Over-reactive because suddenly there is a stir over its use, but only because Gwyn is white. I'm sure if Jay-Z, Kanye, or Beyonce tweeted the same, they might even be heralded or given the "right on" thumbs up. I saw a comment below that had Gwyn not used a song reference and outright used the slur, she wouldn't lose any fans "because they're mostly white"....I emphatically disagree with this.
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  • stevie.luplow 2012/06/06 17:37:54
    Overreaction
    stevie.luplow
    It's a song title...If they don't want anyone but african americans using it, they shouldn't put it in their songs or anything else.
  • ROCKER 2012/06/06 17:37:11
    Overreaction
    ROCKER
    +2
    Open question: An African American overhears a white person singing along with music that uses that word. ..is he offended?
  • Ang74 2012/06/06 17:28:41
    Overreaction
    Ang74
    ...as usual.
  • Gddyupn 2012/06/06 17:23:28
    Insensitive
    Gddyupn
    Is there a category for just plain stupid? Because whether it's your right or not (and obviously it is, based on that little principal we call freedom of speech), some things are just so stupid and unnecessary that they are better left unsaid. Yes, it's the name of the song, yes, black folks use the term as endearment for some stupid reason all of the time, but all of that aside, to use it in that picture was just plain dumb. Why get the backlash if you don't have to. Would you tweet a pic of yourself and Ricky Martin and his lover and say "fa** for life!" No, of course not. If for no other reason than you are not a f**. Nor are you a N****. Gracious folks, let's use a little common sense.
  • Nimara 2012/06/06 17:19:26
    Overreaction
    Nimara
    But she should have known better. It doesn't matter if you happen to have friends that are black, that word isn't acceptable, period.
  • jc 2012/06/06 17:16:28
  • Ang74 jc 2012/06/06 17:30:23
    Ang74
    +1
    Bam! That was a bit of a head shot! LOL
  • BlackSouth jc 2012/06/06 17:36:14
    BlackSouth
    +1
    So what you are saying is all blacks allow ignorance govern their lives?
  • Undercover Broad 2012/06/06 17:03:55
    Overreaction
    Undercover Broad
    Whatz up !!![...]
  • Mary Ann 2012/06/06 17:01:54
    Overreaction
    Mary Ann
    The fact hat blacks use it regardless of the intent, brother hood etc, but others are attacked for it's use - is on it's own merits cause for concern. Until EVERYONE stops then using the vulgar term then don't pick up that rock! It's hypercritical.
  • Kebby 2012/06/06 16:59:40
    Overreaction
    Kebby
    I understand that its the context in which it is used and that it is a song title (really?) but I was raised in a house where it was considered disrespectful to use this word. The original meaning for the word was derived from the Latin word Negro meaning the color black then turned into a word that means stupid & lazy to a word that now means many things brother, family, ect. So for me the word will always be a word that is not used because of the way I was raised. Not to mention locally a white school officer thought he was in good with the "homeboys" at school and used the word one day when speaking to them - He was fired. So I may be old fashioned but it will not be a word that becomes a part of my vocabulary.
  • rosebud 2012/06/06 16:58:55
    Overreaction
    rosebud
    It is time for those offended by its use to grow some armor. If they can use words like "cracker" about those of European descent then it is time to let those they call "cracker" in turn use the "N" word that they find so very offensive.
  • Gddyupn rosebud 2012/06/06 17:15:42
    Gddyupn
    Seriously dude? Who's using the word "cracker" these days? Are you sure you aren't stuck in a 1970's episode of The Jefferson's?
  • Ang74 Gddyupn 2012/06/06 17:31:41
    Ang74
    hahaha...I loved that show
  • rosebud Gddyupn 2012/06/12 14:39:37
    rosebud
    Well I do have it on good faith that it was one of the slur words used against my brother when one of the black homeless slugged him in the head in 2003 right here in San Diego, California at 14th and G streets. This testimony was upheld in a court of law.

    So, better get up to date on the slang still used out there against those of European descent.
  • Gddyupn rosebud 2012/06/25 14:24:26
    Gddyupn
    Okay, just did an informal poll of 40 white people. Did a cross section of parents from my kids schools, coworkers, and friends. Not a single one has ever been called cracker, nor do they know anyone else in their circle who has been called a cracker. All have daily contact with black people of various socioeconomic levels. Obviously this isn't a scientific experiment that would hold up in a journal submission, but it probably paints a lot more realistic picture than your one brother who got called that by one person, who probably was mentally ill (as are most homeless), 8 years ago. One incident does not a trend make!

    Perhaps you might want to get up to date on slang used by people in 2012 against white people, who may, or may not be of European descent.
  • rosebud Gddyupn 2012/06/26 16:59:24
    rosebud
    Have you polled those street people who live in your town? Or did all those you bothered with your poll live in better neighborhoods and attend nice schools, have good jobs?

    Ans when you dispute what was held up in court you might not be on solid grounds with your informal polls.
  • Gddyupn rosebud 2012/07/11 15:23:27
    Gddyupn
    I'm not disputing that a black homeless man called your brother a cracker 8 years ago in California. I am disuputing that this is a widespread practice amongst black folks everywhere. I simply refuse to believe that white people are routinely being called crackers by black folks across the spectrum. If it was a trend, and not an oddity, then I would have found someone who encountered it. Even if I only polled rich and middle class white folks who attend my kids schools and work with me. After all, I am black, and not only have I never used that antiquated word, I've never even heard any friends or family members, or even acquaintances use it to refer to white folks who weren't around. So if black people aren't using it in private, where there are no reprecussions, then they most likely aren't using it to people's faces. Black people do talk about white people in a derogatory manner, just as whites talk about blacks, Chinese talk about Japanese, etc. I'm just saying very few folks use the word cracker in 2012. Oh, but wait, you don't know about 2012, you're talking about your brother in 2004. You know, back before Justin Beiber was famous, iPads were created, and Frasier was still on the air!
  • rosebud Gddyupn 2012/07/17 16:18:26
    rosebud
    Yeah, but I first heard the term at my work and that word came out of the mouth of a woman who was a Union Steward when I arrived in San Diego and she was telling me that some of the people at this particular location were "crackers". Never having heard such a term until then and then learning the meaning I was absolutely shocked. True, it is far less used in America these days and has almost gone out of fashion, but it is still used.
  • Saye Saye 2012/06/06 16:52:11
    Overreaction
    Saye Saye
    I am so over this 'hit. come on people, grow up. Too much "racial" crap breeds more & inflames unneccery.
  • poetdog7 2012/06/06 16:40:53
  • mikeyllo 2012/06/06 16:39:16
    Insensitive
    mikeyllo
    +2
    Personally, I'm not offended, but I do think people need to put more thought into some of the things they do and say. Yes, it's the name of a Kanye and Jay-Z song, but her reference is referring to Jay-Z and Beyonce being in Paris--not the song. She probably meant no harm by it, and if Jay and Beyonce aren't offended, that's what matters. However, as an African American who doesn't use the word in any form, I find it weird when others--especially those that aren't Black or African American--insist on using it and find it OK to do so based on whatever logic.
  • Nimara mikeyllo 2012/06/06 17:16:48
    Nimara
    I so agree with your comment.
  • Ang74 mikeyllo 2012/06/06 17:33:19
    Ang74
    The only people should be offended, if they choose, is JayZ and Beyonce. If they aren't then people need to drop it.
  • RyanHayes 2012/06/06 16:25:45
    Overreaction
    RyanHayes
    +2
    Its really not that big of a deal. Plus, it's just a song reference
  • catbirds 2012/06/06 16:20:31
    Overreaction
    catbirds
    it is worse to take offence than give it ...also its prob all the white people who are more offended than the (got to be careful here as could offend billions of people who are soooooo insecure ) people who are not white.... anyway its a ref to a song isnt it ,what happened when they sang about the world being a great big onion ,did all the root veg take up arms against marvin and tammie .....anyway i digress
  • clevela... catbirds 2012/06/06 19:19:18
    cleveland elliott
    Are you sure you sound a little out of it
  • Aksana 2012/06/06 16:10:14
    Overreaction
    Aksana
    ugh
  • PaulBot415 2012/06/06 16:05:29
  • Nimara PaulBot415 2012/06/06 17:17:11
    Nimara
    lol a damn shame
  • PaulBot415 Nimara 2012/06/06 22:50:07
    PaulBot415
    so ridiculous
  • Nimara PaulBot415 2012/06/07 16:43:14
    Nimara
    Mhm

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