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For the MJ fans... A true "Christmas story"... about Michael!

Stella December 20, 2010 00:16:55

I stumbled upon this lovely story, and wanted to share it with you. We need a break from all the ridiculous lies and accusations, so what about something that's true and nice for a change... it's just a little story, but it says a lot about what kind of a person he really was...

Please tell me what you think about it... do you like it as much as I do?

A CLOSE ENCOUNTER WITH MICHAEL JACKSON IN MANILA

MANILA, JULY 11, 2009 (STAR) By Gwen Cariño - The author, a former PR officer of the Manila Hotel, writes about her experience with hotel guest Michael Jackson in December 1996.


When I was a public relations officer at Manila Hotel, I was assigned to head the annual Orphan’s Christmas Party where 300 children from different orphanages around Metro Manila were treated to a day of fun and surprises. It was one of the biggest projects on my plate and it was such a challenge to focus on work the day before the big event, knowing Michael Jackson was billeted in the hotel.


Two nights before, I had been fortunate to be part of his welcome line at the hotel lobby together with the rest of the PR and sales staff and saw him walk by.


The day before, a guy claiming to be Michael Jackson’s aide from Mamarao Productions came to the office. I couldn’t recall his name but he looked for the “person in charge“ and said his boss had read the announcement about the event in the Dear Guest flyers we had circulated to all the rooms a week before. Michael wanted to know how he could help. His aide went up to the Penthouse and down to the PR office several times after we gave our suggestions.


Michael offered to fill up the 300 loot bags with goodies and toys, candies and chocolates. But after getting close to 50 sponsors, it was actually a problem for us to dispose of everything.


So I thought hard... how can the King of Pop meaningfully join the affair? I couldn’t possibly have him be with the kids in the palayok game or the pabitin as he might end up being mobbed! And since the annual event was really all about giving, I mustered all my courage and told the Mamarao guy that the best thing I could think of was for Michael to literally be present to help distribute the loot bags, sign autographs and pose with the children for photos.


“Wow, that may not be easy. You’re talking about handing goodie bags to 300 children and I can just imagine the chaos. We’ll see. I’ll get back to you,” he said.


Lunch break came and it was the most hurried one I ever took in my life. It wasn’t until after 5 p.m. that Michael’s aide came back and said, “Michael is more than happy to do whatever you suggest. How do we go about it tomorrow?” I wanted to scream. I had to calm myself and regain composure as the Lizzie Maguire in me said, “Get real, get back into focus.”


We agreed that Michael would come in after the games, musical program and snacks, at the last part to give out the loot bags. My colleague Annette Africano and boss Dulce Agnir requested for additional security around the garden and the stage area as this was where we decided to distribute the gifts. We made sure the children would form an orderly line.


Then the moment arrived. It was at the Champagne Gardens on Dec. 7, 1996. I was surprised to see him walking towards us, guided by his aide. Michael came up to me as I had to brief him.


“Hi, how are you? Thanks so much for letting me in, I know I’m early ’cause I didn’t want to miss the program.”


I said, “Are you kidding? Thanks so much for volunteering! Here’s what Michael – why don’t you just sit here and watch the musical numbers before we get into the gift giving. I will have to tweak the program a bit.”


He replied, “Sure, anything you say... (pausing to look at my name tag) Gwen!” I was stunned at how incredibly sweet and modest he was. And in my mind it was, “Oh my God, this is really happening!”


Amazing how he patiently sat through the whole program. Carol Banawa, then an “Ang TV” mainstay couldn’t believe MJ was watching her perform. She had her red blouse signed by him right after her number.


Then followed Stefano Mori’s dance number. Later, his back up singers and dancers came up on stage followed by select kids from different orphanages who danced to the beat of ‘Billie Jean’. Oh, the smile on Michael’s face was just amazing.


Then we announced that Michael will be distributing gifts onstage. I explained to him that there’s a loot bag for the younger kids and another for the older ones and he nodded. The thrill and excitement he gave those children was incredibly touching. It was in between the gift bag distribution that I caught a glimpse of MJ, not as a performer but as a person.


It was one in the afternoon. Santa Claus (David Endriga, a friend of fellow PR officer Francis Capistrano) was with us. The heat was scorhing and I was worried that Michael felt so hot with his black long-sleeved signature attire and hat.

“Are you alright Michael? We can let you take a break,” I asked.


He said, “I’m cool, Gwen. Just imagine how Santa feels inside his velvet suit and beard. We’ll be fine.”


I never heard him complain or say a word about how hot it was or how long the line was. He had the most beautiful manners. He didn’t even ask for a drink or a towel to wipe his sweat but one of our banquet staff made sure he got a glass of fresh orange juice.


An hour passed and we were halfway through gift-giving when we noticed that the garden was getting filled up. Suddenly, there were people from media, politicians, officials and hotel guests, including those in a wedding reception at the nearby Champagne Room who deserted the newlyweds just to get a glimpse of the King of Pop.


“Oh, this isn’t supposed to be, I’m so sorry,” I said.


“It’s all right, we’ll get through it,” Michael said, smiling. As we finished giving out the last loot bag to an 11-year-old orphan, a new line of more kids and adults formed. Michael’s bodyguard, Wayne, said. “We can leave now.”


Michael replied calmly, “We can’t leave when there are still people in line. It’s Christmas, dude.”


I felt my heart beat faster and the hair on my arms and the back of my neck stood up. He wasn’t just the most electrifying performer, but the most generous person.


One of the most memorable moments was when a lady came up to him for an autograph. Laughing and holding his tummy, he said “Hey Gwen, you’ve gotta check this out.” He whispered, “It’s a blank check. The lady is making me sign on a blank check.”


We laughed hard and little did we know that it wasn’t even half of the comedy. He later showed me and Wayne other stuff people would use or pick up on the ground when they couldn’t find paper for him to sign on. One lady made him sign at the back of her elegant, designer Filipiniana gown. One teenager came up to him holding a dead leaf and another one, a popped balloon. Imagine how our laughter ballooned as well.


It was an amazing, genuine experience. At one point he asked if I was going to catch his History concert and I said, “Tomorrow night.”


“Oh, you’ll have a blast!” Michael told me.


At this point he became concerned about the stage as adults outnumbered the kids. His face had nervousness written all over it but he still didn’t complain. He tapped the wooden floor with his foot several times making sure it was sturdy enough not to fall apart.


“I’ve experienced the stage collapse and I just want to make sure we’re all safe here,” he explained.


Half of me wanted the line to finish because we were literally melting and worried about our safety, but half of me didn’t, knowing that once the line ended, Michael would leave.


At some point it did end. I managed to get an autograph for my sisters and me before our general manager, Clem Pablo, requested him to sing ‘Give Love on Christmas Day’.


Cesar Sarino, one of the hotel’s officials, addressed his thank you note to the King of Pop. Then I saw his guards and aides whisking Michael off stage. I said in my mind, “Oh man, I didn’t even have the chance to say goodbye.”


Suddenly, I saw Michael return on stage and say, “Thanks so much to you and your team, Gwen. This really means a lot.” Then he held me beside him and said, “I’ll see you at the concert.”


As Michael Jackson is laid to rest and returned to pristine condition in the afterlife, these two incredible acts of the King of Pop – volunteering for charity and unselfishly spending time with the less fortunate – will forever be the way I will remember this man.

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  • AdriMj December 27, 2010 19:53:24
    AdriMj
    +6
    I love your caring, loving and humanitarian heart Mike ♥ , spending your valuable time making others happy. We Love you So Much Mike ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

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  • Doris Gorgo December 28, 2011 02:52:47
    Doris Gorgo
    +2
    This is an absolutely beautiful story. We fans all knew how gracious and caring Michael was. The greatest humanitarian ever. He was always concerned about others and wanted to make everyone happy. He is missed so very much and will always be loved.
  • Stella Doris G... January 29, 2012 12:08:18
    Stella
    Thank you for answering, Doris! =) mj smiley
  • Nina Hamilton December 25, 2011 23:42:39
    Nina Hamilton
    +4
    Yes. I have always loved that story, which shows the world who he really was.
  • Stella Nina Ha... January 29, 2012 12:16:06
    Stella
    Thank you for answering, Nina! michael jackson emoticons
  • DENISSE October 06, 2011 23:00:39
    DENISSE
    +1
    I LOVE IT !! Hes a great person ...reading this made me feel so good. He always cared about other people.
  • Stella DENISSE October 07, 2011 01:45:20
    Stella
    Yes... he was a very kind man!
  • DENISSE Stella October 08, 2011 18:43:23
  • EKTA January 11, 2011 15:16:47
    EKTA
    +2
    sooooooooo nice storyyyyyyyyyyyy dear
  • Stella EKTA January 12, 2011 04:42:53
    Stella
    Thanks, EKTA! =)
  • EKTA Stella January 12, 2011 12:59:22
    EKTA
    +1
    your always welcome
  • Sammie January 07, 2011 12:56:03
    Sammie
    +1
    lucky gwen..hmph, haha
  • Sammie January 07, 2011 12:53:05
    Sammie
    +1
    Hey, this is from the Philippines!:D Mabuhay, MJ! haha:D
  • Stella Sammie January 07, 2011 23:51:06 (edited)
    Stella
    +1
    Your country! =) What does "Mabuhay" mean?

    It's awesome to meet people from all over the world on internet! =)
  • Sammie Stella January 08, 2011 08:56:17
    Sammie
    +1
    Mabuhay, it's like "Long live." So what I just said was "Long live, Mj!" Ya, i know..it's great. I'm so glad to have met the people here:) I truly am:)
  • Stella Sammie January 09, 2011 04:12:04
    Stella
    +2
    Ok, that's good to know! =) Mabuhay MJ!!!

    Want to know what "long live..." is in Norwegian? "Lenge leve... !" We use to say that to our king (we're a kingdom). Lenge leve hans majestet kongen av pop, Michael Jackson! (Long live his majesty the king of pop, Michael Jackson!) Doesn't that sound just great???!!! lol!!! =D

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  • Sammie Stella January 09, 2011 05:13:47
    Sammie
    +1
    That sounds awesome haha i found myself reading that aloud!:D I didn't know Norway was a kingdom, how cool is that!:) and that is a hot pic, if I do say so myself haha. he looks authoritative..ROAR. haha
  • Stella Sammie January 10, 2011 03:10:33 (edited)
    Stella
    +1
    Yeah, we have a king, but he's not by far as cool as the king of pop, of course!!!

    Michael is standing on that balcony... looking down on his kingdom and it's subjects!!! He looks very majestic!!! lol!!!

    He seemed to like "climbing around" on balconies, roofs, trees, cherry pickers... ! Here in Oslo, he was having fun on his hotel balcony and roof. I always look up to where he was, and think of him, when I walk past that hotel! And I always wonder how he could have the nerve to be up there, 'cause it's so high!!! Seems like he got a kick out of being up in the heights (scaring the others!!! lol!!!)!!! =)

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    walk hotel nerve high afraid kick heights scaring lol "Michael's tower!" =)
  • Sammie Stella January 11, 2011 11:26:34
    Sammie
    Wow!You're actually near the hotel he stayed at???I would just die!!HAHAHA..I mean, I pass by the place where he had his concert, but asia's 3rd largest mall is above it, so I can't really stop and think about him in that place, haha. You're so lucky to live there!!:D

    Oh yeah, he loves heights haha he has this tree he climbs on to, haha. What a goofball.
  • Stella Sammie January 12, 2011 06:41:04
    Stella
    Yup... I have a "Michael place"! =D I live just outside the centre of Oslo, so it's close.

    Since he never grew up, he never stopped doing things like climbing trees! His "giving tree" on Neverland is world famous!!! I hope they don't chop it down!!!

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  • Sammie Stella January 12, 2011 08:30:30
    Sammie
    Ya, I've heard about in Living with MJ. I wish I have my own "Michael" place, haha. Ya, I hope they don't chop it down as well. Do the Jacksons have a say about Neverland??
  • Stella Sammie January 12, 2011 10:34:40 (edited)
    Stella
    I have no idea what's going to happen to Neverland, I don't know if Michael owned a part of it when he died, or if he had sold everything. "Colony Capital" owns most, anyway. It has been restored, to make it look like it was when Mike lived there. In October it was said that Prince and Paris wanted to buy Neverland. After that I haven't heard anything more.

    http://www.tmz.com/2010/12/17...
  • Sammie Stella January 13, 2011 02:17:52
    Sammie
    +1
    Ohh yeah, I think I've heard of that news as well. I hope they just give it to the kids. I know that that's impossible coz it's big money, but I feel sorry for them, hehe. Do you know that the house he last owned was right in front of the house Elvis died in? Coincidence? haha Lmp was blown away when she knew this.
  • Stella Sammie January 13, 2011 04:47:15 (edited)
    Stella
    I'm sure Michael's kids have enough money to buy the place, but it would cost a lot to maintain it, all the staff (I think MJ had 60 employees there) and everything. I suppose they have great childhood memories from Neverland, and want it back. They could earn money on it, if they opened it for the public (like Graceland), but the neighbours don't want all the traffic and crowds, so... They also talked about making the ranch to some kind of a park, but the gouvernour (Schwarzenegger) said the state maybe didn't have the money for it. If they build it up as it was before, I'm sure I'll go there some day, but with mixed feelings, since MJ didn't want the place anymore.

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  • Sammie Stella January 13, 2011 04:50:46
    Sammie
    +1
    Darn that media. MJ had great fun in Neverland. I don't believe the state does not have enough money for it to be an amusement park, what is Arnold talking about, haha.

    Can I come with you if ever you go to Neverland in the future?We'll go together, haha.
  • Stella Sammie January 13, 2011 06:44:17
    Stella
    +1
    Yeah, politicians talk a lot of rubbish!

    Sure, we can go to Neverland!!! =)
  • Sammie Stella January 13, 2011 06:50:22
    Sammie
    +1
    Yey!*gets all giddy and hyper* haha
  • AdriMj December 27, 2010 19:53:24
    AdriMj
    +6
    I love your caring, loving and humanitarian heart Mike ♥ , spending your valuable time making others happy. We Love you So Much Mike ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
  • AdriMj December 27, 2010 19:51:50
    AdriMj
    +1
    I love your caring, loving and humanitarian heart Mike ♥ , spending your valuable time making others happy. We Love you So Much Mike ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
  • NaE_nAe MJ lover December 24, 2010 02:44:27
    NaE_nAe MJ lover
    +2
    awwww how cute. i wish people would see waht kind of a sweet and caring man he REALLY was. it destroys me to know that there are people who work for others to destroy him !! If only they knew the real Michael Jackson. Thats such a sweet story (tears drop)
  • Stella NaE_nAe... December 24, 2010 15:12:33 (edited)
    Stella
    It's very unfair that he got all that negative press, they called him all these ugly names, and all the time he was just an extremely kind, polite and sensitive person that did his best to help people and make them happy. They looked at his sensitivity as weakness, but it meant that he had a lot of empathy for others and could be a very creative artist. I look at it as a strength, I admire him for showing the world that he was a special person, he was very brave.

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  • NaE_nAe... Stella December 24, 2010 21:10:45
    NaE_nAe MJ lover
    +1
    that is so wonderfully put !!! and i agree completely. The press is unfair to all the big people these days and spread anwhether its true or not. Anyone who is up there with MJ (in the famous way of speaking). If i were a writer/journalist, I wouldn't dream of hurting someone just to please other journaists or make other lok bad because it just makes me a bad person, which i am NOT. Bad people annoy me so much. Thankfully for Michael, he had the guts to stand up to them and write songs about them. Stands out quite a lot on Invincible. I quite like it how he did that because not many other people have. Some people would have wrtten stuff that other people were covering and would love to have writtten the truth but for the sake of making money and getting pulicity, they wouldve written the bad stuff, and that realy annoys the hell out of me the way we turn stories around. Stupid untrustworthy money making (or stealing) homos.
  • Zimisawesome December 21, 2010 03:55:59
    Zimisawesome
    +2
    I <3 the King of Pop! He is so nice! I just wish I could have met him.
  • Stella Zimisaw... December 21, 2010 04:09:38 (edited)
    Stella
    +2
    Those kids were very lucky, they met the best "Santa" you can imagine! I'm also sure Michael enjoyed giving the children in the orphanage Xmas gifts. It was very "him"!

    It would've been very cute if he had worn a Santa hat, though! lol!!! =D

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  • Zimisaw... Stella December 22, 2010 02:52:58
    Zimisawesome
    +1
    That would have been really cute!
  • Sammie Stella January 07, 2011 13:24:03
    Sammie
    +1
    I know!He should've worn a santa hat!adorable haha
  • Wendy December 20, 2010 20:20:52 (edited)
    Wendy
    +3
    ..........
  • Stella Wendy December 21, 2010 04:00:06
    Stella
    +1
    He didn't get arrogant even if he was the biggest megastar. Other stars have a lot to learn from his behaviour.
  • Wendy Stella December 21, 2010 21:03:19 (edited)
    Wendy
    +1
    ...........
  • Sammie Wendy January 07, 2011 13:25:38
    Sammie
    +2
    aww look at the pic with the guy with the cast..he bent down and stuff, so cute.
  • Stella Sammie January 08, 2011 00:00:08 (edited)
    Stella
    +2
    Not many stars would've done the same! Mike took the time to do it, even if he was going to do a show, and he didn't find it strange that he, Michael Jackson, was doing it. I think many others found it strange to see him like that, because he was this megasuperstar and the most famous man on the planet. He was just... so nice!!! =)

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