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Can You Be Feminine and a Feminist at the Same Time?

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She might just be the most adorakable star on primetime TV but don’t let Zooey Deschanel’s cupcake-making, sugary sweet character Jess fool you. The actress behind the perky onscreen persona has more substance than “New Girl” viewers might expect. In a recent interview with Glamour magazine, the ingénue confessed that she’s a feminist. And she took a stance to add that it doesn’t mean she also shouldn’t be able to wear a “Peter Pan collar” if she so desires.


So when Glamour’s Logan Hill asked Deschanel if she wanted any kids, the recently divorced 32-year-old stood up for the sisterhood firing back that he wouldn’t ask George Clooney that question. And she does have a point.

Some might think that the uber-girly actress is too soft to be strong. But it’s hard to image that in 2013, the two-time Golden Globe nominee for Best Performance by an Actress in a Television Series - Comedy or Musical would be forced to forgo the false eyelashes and blushing complexion to be taken seriously in Hollywood and beyond. And yet it does leave room to ponder whether or not she lessens her impact by giving her female empowerment website the name “HelloGiggles.”

After years of fighting for equality, it seems that women still need to suppress their more ladylike tendencies to get ahead. What do you think? Can you be feminine and a feminist at the same time?

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  • whateverbabynevermind 2013/01/04 18:56:21
    Yes
    whateverbabynevermind
    +38
    That's such a disturbed question. Feminism isn't about dressing like a man and hammering some drywall. It's about being able to be however you most want to be, whether that's super "girly" or "butch", as our society likes to label the styles.

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  • spike 2013/02/17 17:29:16
    Yes
    spike
    i meant to press no
  • Naked_Christian 2013/02/01 07:19:32
    Yes
    Naked_Christian
    But not me personal. I am 100% male.
  • bettyboop 2013/01/16 21:01:06
    Yes
    bettyboop
    I think you can. I see nothing wrong with a woman embracing her feminine side and at the same time wanting equality. I mean, after all, don't we all want to be treated as well as the next person, regardless of race or gender?
    feminist feminist
  • fcombs 2013/01/14 21:52:18
    Yes
    fcombs
    Absolutely. The "feminist" terminology was originally intended to mean "equality for women." Unfortunately, some of our sisters turned it into something not so attractive by pulling ridiculous stunts like burning their bras. That happened a lot in the 60s. Everybody was finding out they could get attention by being outrageous.
  • Red Rose 2013/01/13 20:25:12
    Yes
    Red Rose
    Cue the lipstick feminist movement.
  • Dave 007 2013/01/13 14:45:56
    No
    Dave 007
    So these broads want it all. That's why we invented the "Man Cave".
  • bettyboop Dave 007 2013/01/16 21:02:11
    bettyboop
    Dave "these broads" DO NOT want it all, they just want an equal share.
  • Sagger Tom 2013/01/11 06:23:03
  • fcombs Sagger Tom 2013/01/14 21:56:28
    fcombs
    Wow, such a simple question, and it really brought out the men who are threatened by women. By the way, the word you used is not acceptable under any circumstances. I want to call you a really bad name, but I will exercise self-control and not sink to your level.
  • bettyboop Sagger Tom 2013/01/16 21:05:39
  • E3 2013/01/11 03:13:42
    Yes
    E3
    Get started reading Mary Wollstonecraft.
  • Sir Bud 2013/01/10 23:30:27
    Yes
    Sir Bud
    +1
    Of course and thank goodness!!.LOL
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  • ♥SocialOutcastshavemorefun♥ 2013/01/10 04:58:17
    Yes
    ♥SocialOutcastshavemorefun♥
    +2
    Feminism is all about choice. If a woman wants to be feminine, that's cool. And if she want to be masculine, that's cool. If she wants to be neutral/a mix of both, that's cool as well.
  • Todd The Libertarian 2013/01/09 22:36:41
    Yes
    Todd The Libertarian
    +1
    Women are amazing.They can be what ever they set their mind to.
  • Brenda 2013/01/09 20:39:31
    Yes
    Brenda
    +1
    Well, HELL YEAH!
  • Jessi S 2013/01/09 14:03:13
    Yes
    Jessi S
    +3
    After reading many of the comments here, I have to say that this idea some people seem to hold, that men and women have now become equal and that feminism is therefore redundant, could not be further from the truth. Maybe it seems that way in some parts of the world, but it's definitely different elsewhere. Here in South Africa, an estimated 40% (or over) of women will be raped at some point in their lives. And interview of school children in soweto showed that 25% of boys interviewed thought gang rape was fun and over half thought that girl meant yes when she she said no to sex. An anonymous study had 25% of men admitting to rape. Although SA is the rape capital of the world, it's not the only place that needs attention, and until this kind of violence stops, feminism is entirely relevant. And just to be clear, I'm not saying these crimes only happen to women, they are just more common for women. And on another note, I don't see how being against these crimes disallows me from being feminine.
  • pantagruella 2013/01/09 11:51:26
    No
    pantagruella
    No. A few people have tried. I think Elizabeth Bathory was the last one to succeed.
  • Linda 2013/01/09 08:23:17 (edited)
    Yes
    Linda
    +2
    Susan Sarandon, Geena Davis, Jodie Foster, Ashley Judd, Winona Ryder, Meryl Streep, Drew Barrymore, Glenn Close, Uma Thurman, Angelina Jolie, just to name a few feminine feminists. Oh and Keira Knightley
    Edit: It doesn't matter if your conservative or liberal.
  • The Bee Guy 2013/01/08 23:47:03 (edited)
    No
    The Bee Guy
    Can a cat be a dog at the same time? The modern definition of feminist, is the opposite of the previous definition of feminine. so guess not! Can a feminist put on feminine dress? Yes. Yet feminine is an attitude, not simply an appearance of outward dress.
    Oh! And by golly, I have asked a guy preparing for marriage if he wanted to have children?
  • Ahlana The Bee... 2013/01/11 01:44:10
    Ahlana
    The modern definition of feminist is someone who believes that men and women are equal.

    To be feminine in dress, appearance, or demeanor does not violate the thought process that men and women should have the same rights/responsibilities in our society.

    The opposite of feminist is sexist, by definition.
  • The Bee... Ahlana 2013/01/16 22:47:55
    The Bee Guy
    Would you like to tell me just how they are equal? Men cannot have babies, that must make them inferior, or not! women have otherdifferences that make them better atsomethings, and farworse at others then men. they are NOT Equal, rather those characteristics COMPLIMENT one another. A man and woman united, are far better TOGETHER.then either is, ALONE. If it is about pay, now that is a differnt issue all together. I could argue that from either side,and depending upon the case be right, in either side of the issue. Will not go into that however at this time feminine is a condition of the heart, not clothes, or looks, or whatever.
  • Cynthia Wolf 2013/01/08 23:27:52
    Yes
    Cynthia Wolf
    +1
    Duh? Are you serious?!
  • dzzshadz 2013/01/08 21:08:37
    Yes
    dzzshadz
    +1
    Of course you can why not. Wanting fair treatment of ones gender is not bad.
  • cwoo10 2013/01/08 20:22:50
    Yes
    cwoo10
    +1
    If the definition of being a feminist is only to promote the equality of Women to Men, then I say Yes.

    If, by definition a feminist is to be "Like a Man" then no.

    But I answer Yes, because I can respect a Woman just as much as a Man... even if she is beautiful.
  • CAPISCE 2013/01/08 18:03:07
  • Sir Bud CAPISCE 2013/01/10 23:32:05
  • CAPISCE Sir Bud 2013/01/10 23:33:32
  • Sir Bud CAPISCE 2013/01/10 23:42:29
  • CAPISCE Sir Bud 2013/01/10 23:49:38
    CAPISCE
    "Did you ever notice the women who most strongly support abortion you would never want to F*ck anyway?" George Carlin ugly feminist
  • Sir Bud CAPISCE 2013/01/10 23:55:35
    Sir Bud
    Ehhhh..let me think about that....ummmm...Nope!.
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  • CAPISCE Sir Bud 2013/01/10 23:56:56
    CAPISCE
    Can you explain the video?
  • Sir Bud CAPISCE 2013/01/11 00:11:03
    Sir Bud
    Not now-am very busy!.
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  • Louise 2013/01/08 17:45:43
    Yes
    Louise
    +2
    You don't have to be rebellious to be a feminist. Feminism is a demand for respect which is deserved but doesn't exist. If there are rules which are bias against women then disobeying these rules is not rebellion it is right, if such rules exist then they deserve to be disobeyed as they are ignorant and insignificant. If you think that feminists are ugly butch he/shes then you are ignorant, they are rational human beings who have the strength to fight for themselves and others.
  • kevinlim Louise 2013/01/08 19:53:59
    kevinlim
    Not aure if its just you but most feminist dont believe what you say, i have seen many feminist women acting like complete judgemental bitches then turning around and saying that its all in the right of feminism, most women want the best of both worlds, tey want equal paying jobs but still insist that men should pay and ask girls out, they want to have more say in politics but still get mad when a man lays hands on a girl, the fact is equality is a humongous facade that people put up in order to not feel left out, its impossible to be equal because everyone is different, thr best we can really do is act on mutual understanding and respect rather than bashing down every wall of segregation blindly without realizing how truely useless or concequential the action is
  • Sir Bud kevinlim 2013/01/13 21:20:09
    Sir Bud
    "most women want the best of both worlds.".

    There you go-the old "us and them"negative response against women in society forced into that situation in the first place by the"us and them"of the male chauvinistic attitudes of societies traditional gender stereotyping to the advantage of men.You stink of the old"Bob the Builder and Provider", and."..Barbie the Doll and Server"trash.Equal rights and opportunity is clearly not your field and how typical the same talks of respect as if being an expert on ethic values and civil rights.Most women object to preconceived negative degrading attitudes towards women by individuals and by Society,but many having to be both the mother, Housekeeper,Kitchen maid at home and going to work have little time and energy to actively take part in the cause of feminism.A woman who chooses to follow a career has to be twice as good as her male working Colleagues to achieve equal respect and recognition as to her male colleagues when working in a traditional male environment.Understandably therefore being only human many women therefore will consider what is for them under the circumstances the best possible choice.
  • Louise kevinlim 2013/01/15 17:28:11
    Louise
    You're talking about 2 different causes here. Feminists are women who want equal rights for women eg the right to vote, and to decide how the country they live in is run. Such issues have nothing to do with the act of chivalry. To be honest if a man asks out a woman, he should pay- simple it avoids confusion. Not all women abide by this but some will and a true feminist probably wouldn't want a man to do anything for her, with the belief women can be and do anything that men can. There's also the issue of men hitting women you mentioned as far as that goes its irrelevant because nobody deserves violence struck on them- but we do have to face that men are on average bigger and stronger than women so hitting them would be targeting someone who is weaker and can't necessarily fight back; which on all accounts is wrong in ny opinion. I do believe equality will never be achieved completely because someone always wants more, but just sitting back and embracing the mistreatment as far as the law goes is wrong. Some segregations can't be broken but things like women having the same job opportunities as men and women being able to be prime minister are important because they allow women to have a say on the world today and the freedom of choice and opportunity. Nobody should be disallo...
    You're talking about 2 different causes here. Feminists are women who want equal rights for women eg the right to vote, and to decide how the country they live in is run. Such issues have nothing to do with the act of chivalry. To be honest if a man asks out a woman, he should pay- simple it avoids confusion. Not all women abide by this but some will and a true feminist probably wouldn't want a man to do anything for her, with the belief women can be and do anything that men can. There's also the issue of men hitting women you mentioned as far as that goes its irrelevant because nobody deserves violence struck on them- but we do have to face that men are on average bigger and stronger than women so hitting them would be targeting someone who is weaker and can't necessarily fight back; which on all accounts is wrong in ny opinion. I do believe equality will never be achieved completely because someone always wants more, but just sitting back and embracing the mistreatment as far as the law goes is wrong. Some segregations can't be broken but things like women having the same job opportunities as men and women being able to be prime minister are important because they allow women to have a say on the world today and the freedom of choice and opportunity. Nobody should be disallowed these rights. I do agree that some feminists fight for irrelevant petty things just to be the same as men, but at least they're doing something and most of the time for all the right reasons even if it could be considered a waste of time. I also think that feminists fight for the opportunity to be different. Men have it handed to them but to be different you first have to be the same.
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  • findthelight2000 2013/01/08 17:28:25
    Yes
    findthelight2000
    +1
    Absolutely!
  • Chrissi 2013/01/08 17:23:47
    Yes
    Chrissi
    +1
    One deals with the physical appearance-the other is a mindset. They can go hand-in-hand--NO PROBLEM!!!
  • Sister Jean 2013/01/08 17:01:06
    Yes
    Sister Jean
  • teachaman 2013/01/08 16:09:39
    No
    teachaman
    true feminists are men with breasts ... gay men are dramatically more feminine than true feminists, who warpedly believe that men are unneccessary ... true feminists are not women at all ... this Deschanel woman isn't a feminist - she believes women should be treated with the same respect that men are, and she is right ... that doesn't make her a feminist - it makes her rational
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