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Are Same-Sex Marriage Opponents Bigots? Mark Ruffalo Thinks So

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The debate over same-sex marriage may still be raging, but Hollywood is not short on advocates for its legalization.

Among the most vocal supporters of same-sex marriage are the stars of "The Kids Are Alright," a movie released two weeks ago centering around a same-sex couple. Julianne Moore and Annette Bening play a married lesbian couple with two kids, while Mark Ruffalo plays the family's sperm donor.

Ruffalo, who will play The Incredible Hulk in the upcoming "Avengers" movie, has been outspoken about his position on the issue. He said in a recent interview, "There’s a debate going on about gay marriage and whether children can be raised in an ‘unconventional’ family and go on to be sexually healthy, viable, productive people – that’s all used as an argument against gay marriage. It’s so ridiculous to me."

"It’s the last dying, kicking, screaming, caged animal response to a world that is changing," he explained, "a world that’s leaving a lot of those old, bigoted, un-accepting views behind. It’s over.”

Judging by the results of California's Proposition 8 battle in 2008, it's not over yet. But with increased interest in movies and television programs like "The Kids Are Alright" and "Modern Family," which portray same-sex families as healthy and responsible, Ruffalo's argument might hold some weight.

Are Same-Sex Marriage Opponents Bigots?

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  • MkB 2010/07/30 02:12:09 (edited)
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    MkB
    +40
    In this, I agree with President Obama.

    Obama told MTV he believes marriage is "between a man and a woman" and that he is "not in favor of gay marriage."

    "I've stated my opposition to this. I think it's unnecessary," Obama told MTV. "I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage."

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  • jason Angel 2010/07/30 17:49:34
    jason
    +1
    No in fact id doesn't....There re hundreds of rights that Civil unions don't grant. Civil unions are the newest form of segregation. It used to be whites had their things and blacks had their things. So now Bigots wants str8's to have their things and gays have their (lesser) things.
  • jason jason 2010/07/30 17:50:04
    jason
    No in fact it* doesn't
  • Faith ~... jason 2010/07/30 18:37:13
    Faith ~American Patriot~
    +2
    What rights do Civil Unions not grant?
  • IndyLinda Faith ~... 2010/07/31 03:37:12
    IndyLinda
    He can't answer this.
  • Faith ~... IndyLinda 2010/08/02 20:08:31
    Faith ~American Patriot~
    +1
    You're right
  • TombstoneJim 2010/07/30 16:34:32
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    TombstoneJim
    +1
    Marraige is between a Man and a Woman. Unions can be between a Man and his Horse for all I care. Do not attempt to redefine a long standing word....Cat does not mean Dog - no matter how much you'd like for it to. Shutup, go get your civil contract and move on..
  • Barfly 2010/07/30 16:17:23
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    Barfly
    +1
    No, we were all born with freedom of choice, meaning are opinions are our choice, because they are not consistent with someone else's does not make you a bigot. I could say that left wing liberals are bigots because they don't agree with conservative values and right wing conservatives are bigots becasue they don't have liberal values!!!
  • jason Barfly 2010/07/30 17:54:31
    jason
    You may value whatever you like but the constitution of our country demands it's citizens be treated equally, that is a very conservative belief. As is the government not intruding on peoples private lives AKA huge over reaching bans on a certain group of people enjoying the same rights as you. You obviously think gay people aren't 'people' like you, don't worry white people used to think black people weren't 'people' like them so you are in good company!!!!! History corrects all of these things. Enjoy being remembered as a hater!
  • Frenchie 2010/07/30 16:16:55
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    Frenchie
    +1
    Just take some time and explore the end of Greek civilization and Roman civilization. What was the common denominator ?
  • Legion 2010/07/30 16:08:05
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    Legion
    +1
    Marriage is between one man and one woman. Gay marriage is like saying illegal immigrant. Immigrants by definition are legal so it is stupid to say- illegal alien invaders is correct. Remember when the queers said they only wanted civil unions? Give them an inch and they took a mile. It is about destroying society and it's norms for the commies to take over. Get it?
    No more 'Father Knows Best' or 'Leave it to Beaver' - it's Homer Simpson. The libtards have destroyed America- thanks Hollyweird.
  • Goddess... Legion 2010/07/30 17:16:31
    GoddessMother
    Exactly:
    ‎"Arbitrary power is most easily established on the ruins of Liberty abused to licentiousness." - George Washington
  • jason Legion 2010/07/30 17:56:42
    jason
    +1
    Wow....are you scared of your shadow too? Wanna include muslims in your rant too? Jews? Blacks? Can I see your ancestors immigration papers please (since this is Arizona)???? Otherwise I'll deport you back to the 1920's (seems a better fit for you anyway lol)
  • psychobabe 2010/07/30 16:04:57
    Yes, they are intolerant.
    psychobabe
    +3
    World English Dictionary
    bigot (ˈbɪɡət) [Click for IPA pronunciation guide]

    — n
    a person who is intolerant of any ideas other than his or her own, esp on religion, politics, or race

    So yes.
  • jason psychobabe 2010/07/30 17:57:45
    jason
    +1
    Thank ya Jesus!!!! lol
  • psychobabe jason 2010/07/30 21:03:08
    psychobabe
    My son says you are welcome. ;-) LMAO He has a messiah complex.
  • WankerBait 2010/07/30 15:55:47
    Yes, they are intolerant.
    WankerBait
    ... "a world that’s leaving a lot of those old, bigoted, un-accepting views behind", except for the USA which is still full of 'em.
  • Richardhg 2010/07/30 15:55:26
    Yes, they are intolerant.
    Richardhg
    +4
    It is not so much intolerance as the fact that they miss the point. this is a civil rights issue, where personal religious belief has no place.

    There is how a churches define marriage. That is their choice, and any church should be able to decide whether they are prepared to perform services for any couple. It wasn't so long ago that churches refused to marry interracial couples!

    But the laws passed by US Governments that grant legal rights to couples in a committed relationship have nothing to do with the churches. They are based on the Constitution and Bill of Rights, and currently, gay people are second class citizens.

    Wake up, America. You are becoming a theocracy as surely as Iran. You are denying other people's rights based on your own religious belief, and cannot understand the separation between church and State.
  • psychobabe Richardhg 2010/07/30 16:06:14
    psychobabe
    Great post
  • Lerro DeHazel 2010/07/30 15:52:26
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    Lerro DeHazel
    +1
    This whole blog is really shot full of holes. BTW, the word BIGOT is totally meaningless anymore. If you have a different opinon about something then you are suposed to be some kind of convenient, political bigot. So? It’s so funny how that “Judging by the results of California’s Proposition 8 battle in 2008, it’s not over yet.” Is so bizarre. In fact, it is over, here in the United States. That’s how we do things here in the United States. And whoever heard of “The Kids Are Alright?” and “Modern Family?” . . . and the word, “portrays”??? . . . You gotta be kidding. If someone portrayed a bowel movement as food would you eat it? Furthermore, no one really knows who this Ruffalo is; so how would changing the definition of the word, MARRIAGE, carry any weight at all. He might as well be talking about painting the steps of the Grecian Archaeological Mire Serte’ Mausoleum, light opaque-sienna.
  • psychobabe Lerro D... 2010/07/30 16:14:38
    psychobabe
    +3
    There's a big difference between someone having an opinion or belief about something and someone forcing others to live according to their belief/opinion. You can believe whatever you like, just don't be intolerant and expect others to live by your "rules." That would make you a bigot
  • jason Lerro D... 2010/07/30 18:00:43
    jason
    +1
    My friend...You know nothing of American history, the reason we are great is because we never give up. I won't stop fighting for my sister to be equal under the law to me until the day I die. In the 2000 ban on Gay marriage it won by 30% in 2008 it won by 4%, if you can't understand that you're going to lose (and soon) you don't seem to understand much
  • Lerro D... jason 2010/08/01 01:27:17
    Lerro DeHazel
    Lose what? What is it that I am going to be losing? I am NOT even playing; you dimwit! If you knew anything at all about American History then you would know that NOT all Americans want to play games with the word MARRIAGE. Go fight for your siister. You might even make her mother feel happy for that too. However, don't think that your outlandish ideas that come from your family, alone, can govern all the people of the United States of America. Whether you are concerned about 30 percent, 4 percent, or even one-half of one percent. Who cares? You don't seem to understand that I don't really care one way or the other what percent does what to whom, politically. It's all politics, and if you can't understand that, then you also must be wondering why you don't have any friends. BTW, did I ever state anything here about your sister? Get a brain!!
  • wpsark_BN_0 2010/07/30 15:44:59 (edited)
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    wpsark_BN_0
    +1
    I don't think that just because someone is against gay "marriage" that they're a bigot...I bet he also thinks that if you didn't vote for Obama, then you're a racist...Stupid celebrities like this one that think they're so open minded are really just closed minded idiots..And I do that think gay people should have a legally recognized "civil union"..Who the f'k is anyone to tell someone who they can or can't be with, as long as it's consenting adults...So yeah, the term marriage is defined as being between a man and woman, so just call it a civil union and stfu about it....
  • jason wpsark_... 2010/07/30 18:03:04
    jason
    Who defines marriage? the government. Seperate is not equal my friend.
  • Brightsprite62 2010/07/30 15:43:58
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    Brightsprite62
    +2
    Homosexuality is wrong, Gay Marriage is wrong. I know that's becoming a less popular idea. However I have never based my beliefs on popular ideas, or run with the popular crowd. I don't expect my beliefs to really make a difference though. God said that in the end days people would believe and behave as they did in Noah's day. Idolatry, Homosexuality, just plain degenerate behaviors of people in general were why God destroyed this planet. The only promise God made to Noah was that he would never destroy the entire planets population by flood. He never said he wouldn't destroy it.
  • aneve Brights... 2010/07/30 15:53:54
    aneve
    yup this world is going down u.u
  • aneve 2010/07/30 15:43:56
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    aneve
    +1
    please dont let gay marriages raise children ...
  • wpsark_... aneve 2010/07/30 15:49:23
    wpsark_BN_0
    plenty of gay couples are raising children already, just because they can't "marry" doesn't mean they can't reproduce...People are so afraid over things they have no clue about.
  • Legion wpsark_... 2010/07/30 16:11:47
    Legion
    They can't reproduce- raising someone else's kid does not count as reproduction dummy!
    Also other gays smear queers who raise kids by calling them slurs such as "breeders". Even they don't like it.
  • wpsark_... Legion 2010/07/30 17:10:07 (edited)
    wpsark_BN_0
    lol, I'm not a dummy, so whatever you want to think.. There are gay people who have their own kids from previous straight relationships that enter into a homo relationship and retain custody of their kid/s..Thus, they're raising their own kid, maybe their lover isn't a blood relative but that happens in straight step-families as well...It's such a misconception about these types of families...I know from experience, My uncle married a lady and they had a son and 2 daughters, about 15 years after being married, she met some gay woman at a Girl Scout thing and realized she was gay I guess so left my uncle for that woman..Being the man that my uncle is, he let my ex-aunt have custody of the children so that they could be with their mom...Needless to say, she and that lady have been together for about 10yrs now, living as a couple and both of my female cousins are conservative and STRAIGHT, one is own the way to grad school while the other is a sophomore in an excellent university..Their son is a hard working electrician, married with two daughters of his own..Nothing weird about those kids, at all..As for their mother, I never really got along with her, not b/c she's gay but just because she's a liberal-progressive...So, despite how much people try and try to stop gay people from...
    lol, I'm not a dummy, so whatever you want to think.. There are gay people who have their own kids from previous straight relationships that enter into a homo relationship and retain custody of their kid/s..Thus, they're raising their own kid, maybe their lover isn't a blood relative but that happens in straight step-families as well...It's such a misconception about these types of families...I know from experience, My uncle married a lady and they had a son and 2 daughters, about 15 years after being married, she met some gay woman at a Girl Scout thing and realized she was gay I guess so left my uncle for that woman..Being the man that my uncle is, he let my ex-aunt have custody of the children so that they could be with their mom...Needless to say, she and that lady have been together for about 10yrs now, living as a couple and both of my female cousins are conservative and STRAIGHT, one is own the way to grad school while the other is a sophomore in an excellent university..Their son is a hard working electrician, married with two daughters of his own..Nothing weird about those kids, at all..As for their mother, I never really got along with her, not b/c she's gay but just because she's a liberal-progressive...So, despite how much people try and try to stop gay people from getting married, you can't stop them from raising kids and living like they're married, except when it comes to buying property together, taxes, insurance beneficiaries etc..So might as well allow them to buy a civil union license, that way, at least some revenue is coming out of the deal..I don't think it should be called "marriage" though..
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  • Mrs.Wea... aneve 2010/07/30 17:28:39
    Mrs.Weasley
    Whats wrong with gays raising children?
    They probably take better care of them then straight families do.
    I know quite a few kids who have been raised in gay families, and they are some of the sweetest most well behaved kids I know.
  • theprothinker 2010/07/30 15:38:01
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    theprothinker
    Scratch a person with an attitude, and you'll find a bigot.
  • Chris - The Rowdy One! #187 2010/07/30 15:36:09
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    Chris - The Rowdy One! #187
    +1
    No, they just so happen to be on the same side as God on this subject.
  • itoldyouso 2010/07/30 15:31:13
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    itoldyouso
    +1
    So be it. Not a new word. You got a president and first lady who are racist. Opps! I mean your president. The country does'nt have one at the present time.
  • Nazgul 2010/07/30 15:18:20
    Yes, they are intolerant.
    Nazgul
    +3
    Bigotry and intolerance aside, the basis of this diatribe, marriage, seems to be lost in how people define the term.

    Legally, marriage is a contract between two people, presumably in love, to share their lives together. The law consigns special rights to two people bound in this manner regarding joint incomes, shared assets, taxation and myriad aspects of how two people become related "by marriage," thus being afforded the same rights as family in times of prosperity or ill health and death.

    Marriage in religious terms is defined and colored by a person's choice of spiritual persuasion; something two people do before their god(s) to affirm an obligation to each other. (Strictly speaking, without a contractual agreement, religious vows have no legal binding, although that can be argued in “common-law” marriage. To the other extreme, depending upon particular sect definition, marriage is not a thing that can be sundered by man; adultery is punishable by stoning and the like.) Make what it of you will, the tradition of religious texts would have the term only defined as joining two persons of the opposite sex. But like so many other things in manuscripts written a couple of thousand years ago, it's open to personal interpretation.

    So, are we arguing two people's lawful ability to enter into a contract to share their lives and enjoy legal rights, or the definition of “marriage” as a religious binding?
  • theprot... Nazgul 2010/07/30 16:01:38
    theprothinker
    +1
    Excellent thoughts. One other thing that gets lost in this discussion is the view of a "family" (created by a marriage in almost any context except perhaps the legal partnership one) as the "primary social unit for the PROCREATION and rearing of children resulting from the union of a woman and a man". We're not talking about friendship here, no matter how long, how fervent, how legal, or how committed it might be. Those who defend marriage as the union of a man and a woman are usually assuming sexual union. A cursory examination of human "plumbing" and its purpose proves that homosexual union is outside of this definition. Sexual organs, like "manuscripts written a couple of thousand years ago", may be open to personal interpretation, but the biological function (and in my view, the social function implied by that) is not open to personal interpretation.

    People can easily make binding legal agreements about joint incomes, shared assets, taxation, etc., but by sexual definition throughout history, such agreements do not constitute "marriage".
  • RC 2010/07/30 15:06:31
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    RC
    +3
    As I am a Bible believing Christian, I am no more intolerant than Jesus Christ. If he is wrong then I am too. But it is easy to see that two women or two men cannot be a marriage. I quess to some people marrying your horse, dog, cat, lizard, etc should be considered as a marriage partner. People can be very close friends without thinking that they are marrage material. And for those people who not believe in GOD, it does not matter to them. As Christians we must pray that they do the right thing according to Jesus Christ. I know everybody talks about RIGHTS, but the other side of that coin is RESPONSIBILITES. That is what is not talked about. Ron
  • tedlick 2010/07/30 14:51:11
    Yes, they are intolerant.
    tedlick
    Well Said Mark Ruffalo!

    It's ending: and they know it. That's why they're so pessimistic and sodden all the damned time.
  • ☆Hitler was a community org... 2010/07/30 14:42:38
    No, I don't support gay marriage.
    ☆Hitler was a community organiz☆
    +2
    ask Elton John
  • Mercedes 2010/07/30 14:41:30
    Yes, they are intolerant.
    Mercedes
    +1
    My friend and I had a conversation about gay marriage once. She said that God created us to love men, and to love the same sex is sinful. SCREW THAT! I think love is love. If two men loved eachother, why cant they get married? If people see a couple rushing into marriage and getting a divorce, why dont they make a huge deal about that? I cannot believe how uptight some people can be! PROGRESS!!!!!!!

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