I'm tired of the crap
My friends and I are blamed for all the drama that goes on here on SodaHead, and I'm a little tired of it.
"Guilty by association." Wanna know how many times I've heard that?
There are a million users on this website. It is IMPOSSIBLE for the same small group of people to be the cause of every little issue that goes on here.
It sickens me that some people, who don't even know us, hate us so much that they will just point their fingers our way each and every time something comes up here.
If you think we have that much power, then thank you for the compliment.
I'm going to lay it all out for you. My husband, my mother, two of my sisters, and two of my (real life) best friends are members on this website. If they are verbally attacked by someone, I am going to defend them. Know that. I would do it in the real world, and I certainly will do it on the internet.
I have friends here that I haven't met in "real life," but have become some of my best friends. People that I talk to every single day. So, they have become part of my extended family, and the same rules apply.
I'm unblocking the only two people I have blocked, so if they want to comment here, they can.
I expect some downraves, because there are a lot of small minded people on this site who refuse to see or simply can't handle the truth.
Furthermore, I have offered evidence to those that blame me or my friends for some of the most recent drama, and they don't want to hear it. They won't even reply to me. People don't want the truth. They want to believe what they want to believe and that's it. It's sad. I thought there were more open minded people here.
But I haven't named names. I haven't "called anyone out."
If you have a problem with me - here's your chance. Have at it.
Edit: I was right. My downraver found my blog. Wasn't brave enough to comment, just anonymously downraved me. But I'm still the problem? Really, though?
"Guilty by association." Wanna know how many times I've heard that?
There are a million users on this website. It is IMPOSSIBLE for the same small group of people to be the cause of every little issue that goes on here.
It sickens me that some people, who don't even know us, hate us so much that they will just point their fingers our way each and every time something comes up here.
If you think we have that much power, then thank you for the compliment.
I'm going to lay it all out for you. My husband, my mother, two of my sisters, and two of my (real life) best friends are members on this website. If they are verbally attacked by someone, I am going to defend them. Know that. I would do it in the real world, and I certainly will do it on the internet.
I have friends here that I haven't met in "real life," but have become some of my best friends. People that I talk to every single day. So, they have become part of my extended family, and the same rules apply.
I'm unblocking the only two people I have blocked, so if they want to comment here, they can.
I expect some downraves, because there are a lot of small minded people on this site who refuse to see or simply can't handle the truth.
Furthermore, I have offered evidence to those that blame me or my friends for some of the most recent drama, and they don't want to hear it. They won't even reply to me. People don't want the truth. They want to believe what they want to believe and that's it. It's sad. I thought there were more open minded people here.
But I haven't named names. I haven't "called anyone out."
If you have a problem with me - here's your chance. Have at it.
Edit: I was right. My downraver found my blog. Wasn't brave enough to comment, just anonymously downraved me. But I'm still the problem? Really, though?
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raves -1 posted Oct 20, 2008 07:14AM GMT
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raves +1 posted Aug 14, 2008 12:00AM GMTHoney, I am so with you...I havnt been on Sodahead for a while b/c like you i get tired of giving my opinion and just b/c it doesnt line up with someone elses i get attacked..and ya know, i dont care if someone doesnt agree with but dont be hateful or mean, (or a damn stalker) anyway, I like to talk and meet people too but noone really ever talks to me or anything, so i just said what's the point. I like people..and I would like to get to know them, but, oh well..I hope the crap stops for ya, yes there are some really bad people out there, and that's not what this site is about...!! Thanks
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raves Aug 14, 2008 01:48PM GMTThank you for that.
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raves +1 posted Aug 08, 2008 02:14PM GMTkeep you head up foo,i have never said anything bad about you and yours and never will.we have such little time here on earth and i refuse to waste it being small.stand tall and bright and know there is very few bad people and we dont want to waste our time with them.you are a good friend and i dont want to lose you.
good luck and screw the haters! -
raves +1 posted Aug 07, 2008 12:42PM GMTI'm jealous. I only have a few Haters.
I must try harder! *grin* -
raves +2 posted Aug 07, 2008 02:41AM GMTI agree I am among those people getting blamed. I even ask nicely to people and I still get blamed for all of this. I have a right to say my opinion and as long as they keep asking those questions I will keep saying my opinion no little kid will be blaming everything on me anymore.
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raves +2 posted Aug 06, 2008 11:44PM GMTI haven't been a member that long,but it's sad that poeple can't come on here talk about whatever may be on their mind without someone taking offense to it.Everyone thinks differently in this world,but some agree to an extent on some topics.But when family,friends,and most importantly kids are brought in to it,that's really fucking low.They didn't ask to be brought into it.If someone started in on my family,friends,or my kids,they just better be glad that there is a computer,many,many miles seperating us,cause at that point,I'm in no mood to talk.There is alot of drama here,most of which is pointless,and should be dissmissed.But leave it to some dum fuckstick,to take it to far.So at the end of it,why get mad,that person brought it on themselves.So next time someone wants to start something,they need to think about what they are gonna say before they start letting their tongue babble their brain,and get them in some shit that they could have avoided.So you can rave this or give a bad rave,it really doesn't make a shit to me.This is just what I think,and to you Foo Master,sorry you had to go through the shit that you have and are going through,it shouldn't happen.Thanks for being a sodahead friend.
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raves +1 posted Aug 06, 2008 07:57PM GMTSo sad people just want to be rude and start things. This is a happy week for you. Please don't let them get to you. I met my husband online so I know how close people can become online friends are friends and people don't need to be asses and realize true friends stick up for their friends.
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raves +1 Aug 06, 2008 09:29PM GMTThey haven't gotten to me, but I did feel the need to explain myself.
I also wanted to give these people a forum to confront me, and ask me WTF, so I could explain, and we could, hopefully, move past this.
Obviously, it didn't work. See, still, none of them have replied, only childishly down raved....
Sad.
I'm so excited about tomorrow night! :-) -
raves +1 Aug 07, 2008 04:27AM GMT
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raves -1 posted Aug 06, 2008 05:23PM GMTI wonder, why IS the focus so much on the Beavers? I don't remember ANYONE saying anything about my kids being called "ugly cunts", or downraving my kids and grandkids pics, making a poll about my 15 yr old son for a mob to attack him.....these people know who they are, but The Beavers are always brought up for defending themselves.....BULLSHIT! I am an adult, computer or not, if you talk crap about my kids, grandkids, friends, etc. to my face, I will defend myself, so believe me, I will do it here also! If you don't like it, then why keep coming back???? GO AWAY!!!!! I mind my business until me or my kids are attacked..THEN, I will say whatever the fuck I want to defend them......if that pisses some of you off, then so be it, but I won't ignore direct attacks on my family or friends.
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raves +5 posted Aug 06, 2008 05:18PM GMTI see so many people that cause drama here! Come on people you can't just pick certain people out saying they cause drama. Most of the stuff that goes on here is politics and yes there is gonna be drama. As for as the down raver on this post I suggest you get some guts to atleast make a comment. I am sure you will down rave me for commenting on your down rave but of well atleast I know I am not afraid to speak. As for you Foo don't worry about all the BS. It is all good!
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raves +3 posted Aug 06, 2008 05:04PM GMTI have no family on here and just the friends that I have met. I don't know anyone's real anything. I understand your position, I don't blame you.. and mean people suck!! I hate this has happened to you and your friends/family. I have not been on that long but you have always been fair and always nice to me!! So thanks for that! :)
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raves +6 -1 posted Aug 06, 2008 04:28PM GMTAngie, You've defended me and I have defended you. Screw the Gestapo that's targeting us. One more day...tick toc, tick toc....
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raves +3 posted Aug 06, 2008 04:04PM GMTWow! I stopped coming on here so much because of stuff like this. I'm sorry that you have had this many issues. I would defend anyone of my family or friends as well. Good luck
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raves +5 posted Aug 06, 2008 03:39PM GMTI have no family members here,but if someone was hurting them I'd sure be supporting them
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raves +6 -1 posted Aug 06, 2008 03:38PM GMT (edited)I like you. So screw them!
Those twisted blokes are mindfuc^cked. They cant argue the big pictures so they argue off subject inter-correlations.
They actually think they can turn a valid point invalid by dissecting it and attacking each point individually. Problem is it does not turn rice into potatoes.
SNAP SHOT OF HOW THEY DO IT.
Its like this, lets say your sharing a recipe about BBQ Chicken, then some a hole who says that a real BBQ must be cooked on charcoal, never wood - or its not a BBQ - labels and redefines your BBQ a campfire cookout.
So you must be wrong about your BBQ chicken.
As if those bastards have a lock on the right to hold court over definitions in order to invalidate your line or reasoning for your BBQ chicken that they never even ate! and Its probably the worlds best BBQ chicken recipe too.
But they have plenty gall saved up and they try all at once on you because their need to win overrides their ability to debate with honesty.
So they twist argument successfully by taking apart your line of reason. (BBQ - Campfire) and for the real low life creeps - when needed they apply off subject definitions to your topics.
LIKE THIS - (The use of paper over lighter fluid as discussed by DR - Theodore Waxyass of Manchester U said this in a TV interview back in 1943 . " BBQ Chicken is only good when paper is used and not lighter fluid." )
and then they say - "well if DR. Waxyass said it it must be true because he is a doctor! are you a doctor? Nooooo, so your wrong aren't you!
As if they have the right to argue on behalf of Waxyass assessment of paper for a BBQ to validate the charcoal BBQ definition.
They are still wrong, but not in their minds because they think they found a flaw somewhere and deem some other thing wrong, so they think your wrong. But it ain't wrong - not even close.
They just CANT think holistically.
So just keep giving the big picture and after a while they will go away.
So keep on keeping it real. oh, and go BBQ a chicken for gods sake. -
raves +9 Aug 06, 2008 04:07PM GMTWow. I don't know what to say, except that you made me hugnry.
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raves +5 Aug 06, 2008 04:10PM GMT
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raves +4 Aug 06, 2008 04:15PM GMTLOL!!!

